Talia Mar started her musical journey at age fourteen while attending BRIT School, a performing and creative arts school. She has since built a loyal fanbase, self-proclaimed “Martians”, from various social media applications. She is most known for her 2022 collaboration with Sigala, “Stay The Night“, which peaked at #11 on the UK Singles Chart. In 2021, she signed to RCA Records under Sony and released her first single with the label on March 31, 2023 titled; “Self-Portrait”.
Since 2017, Mar has been in a relationship with YouTuber, Miniminter. On 24 June 2022 it was announced the couple were engaged via Instagram. They married on 3 June 2023 in Italy.
Selfish
Talia Mar Lyrics
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Tired of words but I'm listening
Not much to say, but you're saying that, praying that
I'm the one you really need
I know I'm hard but that's part of it
You could leave but you are still here
And I've nowhere to go but you could've gone, should've known
(I'm selfish, I'm selfish, I'm selfish) When it comes to you
(I can't help it, Can't help) The crazy things that I do
When I need you, I come back to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
(I'm selfish I'm selfish)
(I'm selfish when it comes, I'm selfish when it comes to you)
(I'm selfish I'm selfish)
(I'm selfish when it comes, I'm selfish when it comes to you)
I'm bored of games why do you still play
Back and forth it's always the same
I'm player one, you're player two
Who is she? player who?
Roll the dice and make your way
I know I'm hard but that's part of it
You could leave but you are still here
And I've nowhere to go but you could've gone, should've known
I'm the one you really want
(I'm selfish, I'm selfish, I'm selfish) When it comes to you
(I can't help it, Can't help) The crazy things that I do
When I need you, I come back to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
(I'm selfish I'm selfish)
(I'm selfish when it comes, I'm selfish when it comes to you)
(I'm selfish I'm selfish)
(I'm selfish when it comes, I'm selfish when it comes to you)
I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
Can't help the crazy things that I do
I need you, I come back to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
I need what I need I don't apologise
Do you see what I see it should be no surprise
When I need you, I come back to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
(I'm selfish when it comes, I'm selfish when it comes to you)
I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
Can't help the crazy things that I do
I need you, I come back to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
Can't help the crazy things that I do
When I need you, I come back to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
(I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
Can't help the)
(I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
Can't help the)
(I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
Can't help the)
(I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
Can't help the)
The lyrics of "Selfish" by Talia Mar depict a complicated and conflicting relationship dynamic. The first verse sets the stage for the emotional struggle between the two individuals involved. The singer acknowledges that they may be difficult to handle at times but questions why the other person has chosen to stay despite their flaws. It implies that the singer is aware of their own self-centeredness and wonders why the other person hasn't chosen to move on.
The chorus reinforces the theme of selfishness in the relationship. The singer confesses that when it comes to the person they are singing about, they cannot help but prioritize their own needs and desires. It highlights the irrational and impulsive behavior that arises when they feel a strong attachment to this person. No matter how much they may try to resist, they inevitably return to them because of their selfishness.
The second verse delves deeper into the complexities of the relationship. The singer expresses their boredom with the repetitive nature of the relationship, constantly shifting between the roles of player one and player two. The mention of someone else (player who?) introduces the aspect of jealousy, adding another layer of emotional turbulence to the mix.
The bridge reveals a sense of vulnerability and remorse within the singer. They admit their helplessness, jealousy, and selfishness, recognizing that their actions can be irrational and possibly hurtful. They apologize for their behavior but also acknowledge that they cannot control their actions when it comes to their need for this person.
In the final chorus, the singer reiterates their self-awareness of being selfish and their inability to resist coming back to the person they need. The repetition of the phrase "I'm selfish when it comes to you" emphasizes the primary theme of the song, emphasizing that the singer's actions and decisions are primarily driven by their love and attachment to this person, even if it may not always be healthy or rational.
Overall, "Selfish" presents a raw and honest portrayal of the conflicting emotions and behaviors that can arise within a complicated relationship. It explores the internal struggle between love and selfishness, highlighting how the singer's actions are driven by their need for the person they are addressing in the song, despite acknowledging their own flaws and the potential harm they may cause.
Line by Line Meaning
Look at me say what you really mean
Pay attention to me as I want you to clearly express your true feelings
Tired of words but I'm listening
I'm exhausted from hearing empty promises, but I'm still willing to listen
Not much to say, but you're saying that, praying that
There may not be much to discuss, but you keep repeating that and hoping
I'm the one you really need
I am the person you genuinely require in your life
I know I'm hard but that's part of it
I acknowledge that I can be difficult, but it's a vital aspect of who I am
You could leave but you are still here
Although you have the option to depart, you remain by my side
And I've nowhere to go but you could've gone, should've known
I have no alternative destination, but you had the chance to leave and should have realized
I'm the one you really want
Deep down, I am the one you truly desire
(I'm selfish, I'm selfish, I'm selfish) When it comes to you
I prioritize my own desires above all else when it concerns you
(I can't help it, Can't help) The crazy things that I do
I can't control the irrational actions I take when it comes to you
When I need you, I come back to you
Whenever I require your presence, I return to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
I display selfish behavior specifically when it involves you
I'm bored of games why do you still play
I have grown tired of playing games, so why do you continue to engage in them
Back and forth it's always the same
We repetitively go back and forth without any change
I'm player one, you're player two
I take the dominant role, while you are in a subordinate position
Who is she? player who?
I question who this other person involved is, and what role they play
Roll the dice and make your way
Take chances and proceed on your own path
I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
I cannot control the fact that I feel powerless, envious, self-centered, and regretful
I need what I need I don't apologise
I require certain things, and I make no apologies for it
Do you see what I see it should be no surprise
Can you perceive the same things I do? It shouldn't be a shock
I can't help that I'm helpless, I'm jealous, I'm selfish, I'm sorry
I can't control feeling powerless, envious, self-centered, and regretful
I need you, I come back to you
I require your presence, so I return to you
I'm selfish when it comes to you
When it involves you, I exhibit selfish behavior
Lyrics © O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Natalia Haddock
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