The Girls Want to Be With the Girls
Talking Heads Lyrics


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Girls don't want to play like that
Just want to talk to the boys
Just want to do what is in their hearts
And the girls want to be with the girls

And the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Yes, the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Well, there's just no love
When there's boys and girls
And the girls want to be with the girls
Yes, the girls want to be with the girls

Girls want things that make common sense
The best for all concerned
Don't want to have to go out of their way
And the girls want to be with the girls

And the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Yes, the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Well, there's just no love
When there's boys and girls
And the girls want to be with the girls
Yes, the girls want to be with the girls

Girls are getting into abstract analysis
Wouldn't like to make that intuitive leap
They're making plans that have far reaching effects
And the girls want to be with the girls

And the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Yes, the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Well, there's just no love
When there's boys and girls




And the girls want to be with the girls
Yes, the girls want to be with the girls

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "The Girls Want to Be with the Girls" by Talking Heads describe a sense of belonging and sisterhood among women, who simply want to be with each other without the interference or attention of men. This idea is explored through a series of verses where the lyrics elaborate on what girls want, such as things that make sense, support for all, and plans that have far-reaching effects. The song repeatedly comes back to the idea that when there are boys and girls present, love is lacking, and it is only by being with other women that the girls can find the connection and understanding they seek.


Throughout the song, it's clear that the boys do not understand what the girls mean when they say they want to be with each other. The repetition of this question reveals a gap in communication and empathy between the genders, and highlights the importance of sisterhood as a source of empowerment and fulfillment for women. It's also interesting to note the use of abstract analysis, which is a nod to the growing feminist movement at the time that sought to challenge societal norms and expectations placed on women.


Overall, "The Girls Want to Be with the Girls" is a poignant song that celebrates the bonds between women, while also shining a light on how men and women can misunderstand and miscommunicate with each other.


Line by Line Meaning

Girls don't want to play like that
Girls are not interested in playing games, they prefer sincerity


Just want to talk to the boys
Girls just want to communicate with boys openly


Just want to do what is in their hearts
Girls want to act according to what they feel is right


And the girls want to be with the girls
Girls prefer to spend time with other girls, without the presence of boys


And the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Confused boys ask why girls want to exclude them from their group


Yes, the boys say, "What do you mean?"
Boys repeat their question as they cannot understand the girls' behavior


Well, there's just no love
Feeling of dissatisfaction, arisen from gender exclusivity


When there's boys and girls
When there is an attempt to mix boys and girls


Girls want things that make common sense
Girls prefer things that are practical and rational


The best for all concerned
Their preference is for options that benefit everyone involved


Don't want to have to go out of their way
Girls desire that things happen naturally and without much effort


Girls are getting into abstract analysis
Girls are showing an increased interest in complex ideas and issues


Wouldn't like to make that intuitive leap
Girls are cautious and hence unlikely to make hasty decisions


They're making plans that have far reaching effects
Girls are making plans which will have long-term consequences


And the girls want to be with the girls
Girls feel more comfortable and understood when they spend time with same-gender peers


Yes, the girls want to be with the girls
Girls assert their desire to socialize exclusively with girls




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID BYRNE

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