Voice Of Experience
Tammi Terrell Lyrics


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I know
(I know)
I know
(I know)
I know
(I know)

Yes, I know
(I know)
I know he will never be true
I love him too

Now don't you kiss him
On your very first date
(Listen to the voice of experience)
Girl, now, don't you kiss him
'Til you make him wait
(Listen to the voice of experience)

Well now, too quickly
Too quickly did I give him my heart
And just as quickly
He tore my heart apart, oh, yes, he did

I think you ought to take a second look
(Listen to the voice of experience)
I know this lover like an open book
(Listen to the voice of experience)

Believe it, too quickly
Too quickly did I give him my heart
And just as quickly
He tore my heart apart, hmm he did

Listen to the voice of experience
Listen to the voice of experience

Well now, too quickly
Too quickly did I give him my heart
And just as quickly
He tore my heart apart, oh, yes, he did

Don't you kiss him
On your very first date
(Listen to the voice of experience)
No, girl, don't you kiss him




'Til you make him wait
(Listen to the voice of experience)

Overall Meaning

In the song "Voice Of Experience" by Tammi Terrell, the lyrics revolve around a woman's cautionary tale about love and heartbreak. She reveals that she knows the man she loves will never be true to her, but she loves him nonetheless. However, she learned her lesson the hard way and advises other women not to make the same mistake. She warns against acting too quickly and giving your heart away too soon, only to have it torn apart just as quickly. Instead, she advises women to wait before they kiss on their first date in order to make sure they are worth the risk of giving their heart away.


The repetition of "I know" at the beginning emphasizes the singer's conviction in her experience and knowledge about love. This adds a sense of authority to her advice, as if she has been through the journey of love and can now guide others through it. The repeated "listen to the voice of experience" highlights the importance of heeding the advice of those who have learned from their mistakes.


Overall, the song is a cautionary tale that teaches the listener to be cautious with their heart and not to fall too hard and too quickly. By sharing her own painful experience, the singer hopes to save others from heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

I know
I am aware


Yes, I know
I am positive


I know he will never be true
I am aware that he will not be faithful


I love him too
I have strong feelings for him despite his infidelity


Now don't you kiss him
Do not show affection towards him


On your very first date
During your first encounter with him


Girl, now, don't you kiss him
I am warning you


'Til you make him wait
Delay being intimate with him


Well now, too quickly
I acted hastily


Too quickly did I give him my heart
I became emotionally attached too soon


And just as quickly
Soon after


He tore my heart apart, oh, yes, he did
He hurt me emotionally


I think you ought to take a second look
You need to reconsider your actions


I know this lover like an open book
I know him very well


Believe it, too quickly
It is true that I acted hastily


Don't you kiss him
Do not show him affection


No, girl, don't you kiss him
I am warning you again


Listen to the voice of experience
Take heed of my advice




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Comments from YouTube:

campbell hair

Nice to hear this again after so many years. I used to have this cheap PYE album back in 1969 although it went missing many years ago. At that time PYE had the license for Scepter/Wand in the UK. Excatly the same backing track was used on the Shirelles version which appeared on their "Baby it's You" album. In fact Scepter often used the same backing tracks with different lead vocals. Difficult to choose between this and Shirelles version as they are similar, simply depends on which lead vocal appeals to this listener most.

Ujima Jame

From my understanding, Tammi did the demo for the Shirelles. That is why she also did "Make The Night A Little Longer" and "Big John."

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