In the pre-chorus, the line "Let's just say, it is what it is and was what it was" suggests that the singer has come to accept the reality of their past relationships, acknowledging that they cannot change what has already happened.
The chorus expresses a mix of emotions towards the singer's exes. The repeated phrase "Kisses to my exes" can be seen as a sarcastic or bitter expression, as it is followed by the statement that they "don't give a shit" about the singer. This implies a lack of reciprocated feelings or indifference from these past partners.
The chorus also mentions the next ones who think they can't live without the singer, highlighting a pattern of relationships where the partners become heavily dependent on the singer. However, despite the breakups and promises to never call again, the singer still keeps their number and a necklace, symbolizing a lingering connection or attachment.
The post-chorus adds another layer to the song's meaning. The singer apologizes for their actions, expressing remorse for the pain caused to those who loved them. The line "Change my mind up like it's origami" suggests that the singer easily changes their feelings or decisions, possibly playing with the emotions of their partners.
Overall, "exes" delves into the complicated nature of past relationships and the different emotions experienced by the singer. It explores themes of indifference, dependency, and the consequences of the singer's actions on those who loved them.
exes
Tate McRae Lyrics
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Changed my mind up like it's origami
Oh, I'm sorry, sorry that you love me (ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha)
Changed my mind up like it's origami
(Kiss-kiss-kiss-) kisses to my exes who don't give a shit about me
Kisses, kisses to the next ones who think they can live without me
We make up, then we break up, then they swear they'll never call me
Happens every time
I don't mean, mean to be cold, but that's how I get, oh
Me and all my pride
Tryna burn down every damn bridge any time we can, and again
I'm a, I'm a, I'm a wild ride that never stops
I'm a, I'm a, I'm a hard case they can't unlock
And I, and I swear I care a lot, just not enough
Let's just say it is what it is and was what it was
(Kiss-kiss-kiss-) kisses to my exes who don't give a shit about me
Kisses, kisses to the next ones who think they can live without me
We make up, then we break up, then they swear they'll never call me
But I still keep their number and their necklace, kisses to my exes
Oh, I'm sorry, sorry that you love me (ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha)
Changed my mind up like it's origami
Oh, I'm sorry, sorry that you love me (oh-oh-oh)
Changed my mind up like it's ori-
Say, say I wanna go there, then I wanna leave
Make another promise that I can't keep
I don't ever know what I want, but that's what you want
If you're down, well, then don't blame me
Breakin' it all before it starts, makin' it all up in my head
But I just overshare 'bout things I never meant
I'm a, I'm a, I'm a wild ride that never stops
I'm a, I'm a, I'm a hard case they can't unlock
And I, and I swear I care a lot, just not enough
Let's just say it is what it is and was what it was (was)
Kisses to my exes who don't give a shit about me
Kisses, kisses to the next ones who think they can live without me (nah, nah)
We make up, then we break up, then they swear they'll never call me (yeah)
I still keep their number and their necklace, kisses to my exes
Oh, I'm sorry, sorry that you love me (ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha)
Changed my mind up like it's origami
Oh, I'm sorry, sorry that you love me (ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha)
Changed my mind up like it's origami (ha-ha)
Kisses to my exes, I know that I did you dirty
Little messed up, little selfish, we ain't married, I ain't thirty
Yeah, we hooked up, then we broke up, then I said you really hurt me
But I still got your number and your necklace, kisses to my exes
In "Exes" by Tate McRae, the lyrics delve into the complexities of past relationships and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with them. The singer expresses remorse and apologies for the way they have treated their exes, while acknowledging their patterns of changing their mind and playing with their emotions like origami. The repetition of "kisses to my exes" signifies a mix of reminiscing and letting go of these past connections.
The song conveys the singer's realization that they are a challenging and unpredictable person to be with, describing themselves as a wild ride and a hard case. Despite caring, they admit that it isn't enough to maintain a stable relationship. The lyrics also touch upon the singer's indecisiveness and tendency to make promises they can't keep. They acknowledge their confusion about what they want and how it affects their partners. Ultimately, they embrace the idea that sometimes relationships simply are what they are, and the past cannot be changed.
Line by Line Meaning
Oh, I'm sorry, sorry that you love me (ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha)
I apologize for the fact that you have feelings for me, even though I find it amusing.
Changed my mind up like it's origami
I frequently alter my decisions abruptly, just like how you fold origami.
(Kiss-kiss-kiss-) kisses to my exes who don't give a shit about me
I send symbolic kisses to my previous partners who have no concern or care for me.
Kisses, kisses to the next ones who think they can live without me
I give kisses to my future lovers who believe they can exist without me.
We make up, then we break up, then they swear they'll never call me
We reconcile, then we separate, and then they promise that they will never contact me again.
But I still keep their number and their necklace, kisses to my exes
However, I still retain their contact information and a piece of their jewelry, and I send them affectionate kisses.
Happens every time
This pattern occurs consistently.
I don't mean, mean to be cold, but that's how I get, oh
I don't intend to be emotionally distant, but that's just how I am.
Me and all my pride
My ego and self-importance are always present.
Tryna burn down every damn bridge any time we can, and again
We attempt to destroy every relationship we have, repeatedly.
I'm a, I'm a, I'm a wild ride that never stops
I am an unpredictable and exciting experience that never comes to an end.
I'm a, I'm a, I'm a hard case they can't unlock
I am a difficult person to understand or open up to.
And I, and I swear I care a lot, just not enough
And I, I promise that I do care, but not to the extent that you may expect or desire.
Let's just say it is what it is and was what it was
We should simply accept the reality of the situation and acknowledge the past as it was.
Say, say I wanna go there, then I wanna leave
I often express a desire to engage in something, only to change my mind and want to abandon it.
Make another promise that I can't keep
I create yet another commitment that I am unable to fulfill.
I don't ever know what I want, but that's what you want
I am constantly uncertain of my desires, but that is precisely what you desire from me.
If you're down, well, then don't blame me
If you are willing to accept my unpredictable behavior, then you should not hold me responsible.
Breakin' it all before it starts, makin' it all up in my head
I ruin everything before it even begins, imagining scenarios in my mind that have no basis in reality.
But I just overshare 'bout things I never meant
However, I tend to reveal excessive information about things I never truly intended to disclose.
Kisses to my exes, I know that I did you dirty
I send kisses to my previous partners, acknowledging that I treated them unfairly.
Little messed up, little selfish, we ain't married, I ain't thirty
I am slightly messed up and selfish, but we are not married, and I am not yet thirty years old.
Yeah, we hooked up, then we broke up, then I said you really hurt me
Yes, we became involved romantically, then we broke up, and I claimed that you caused me significant pain.
But I still got your number and your necklace, kisses to my exes
However, I still possess your contact information and a piece of jewelry you gave me, and I send you affectionate kisses.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: Ryan Tedder, Tate McRae, Tyler Spry
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
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