Too Late
Ten Foot Pole Lyrics


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When she first apologized, it seemed that no one cared
No one cared about her shame
No one cared about her pain
And she could not accept that no one gave her time
She said, "They will watch me
Yes, by God, I'll make them see."

My God, I can't believe you're gone
It's too late to say "hang on"
Sometimes you just have to wait
This time it's just too late

She keeps apologizing every single night
Every night she wrings her hands
Every night that's where she stands
And I cannot accept that I could have changed her fate
If I only would have known

My friends keep telling me that it will be all right
But they don't know the cost
No, they don't know what I've lost




They keep on talking, but to me there's nothing left
There is nothing you can say

Overall Meaning

The song "Too Late" by Ten Foot Pole tells the story of a woman who has made a mistake and is struggling to come to terms with it. She apologizes, but no one seems to care about her feelings or her pain. She becomes trapped in a cycle of self-blame and regret, convinced that she will never be able to earn forgiveness or redemption. The singer of the song watches helplessly as she spirals downward, haunted by the knowledge that he could have done something to help her if only he had known.


The lyrics capture the feelings of despair, regret, and helplessness that can be triggered by a tragic event like a suicide or loss of a loved one. The woman's remorse and self-doubt are palpable, and the singer's sense of guilt and loss are painfully real. The song speaks to the difficulty of moving on and finding closure after a devastating event, and the fact that sometimes, no matter how much we wish we could go back and change things, it's simply too late.


Line by Line Meaning

When she first apologized, it seemed that no one cared
At the beginning, when she apologized, people didn't pay attention to her or show her any empathy


No one cared about her shame
People didn't care about her embarrassment and sorrow


No one cared about her pain
People didn't acknowledge her suffering


And she could not accept that no one gave her time
She couldn't understand that nobody was there for her when she needed someone to listen to her


She said, "They will watch me Yes, by God, I'll make them see."
She wanted to make people aware of the pain she was going through so that they acknowledge her struggles and take them seriously


My God, I can't believe you're gone
She didn't expect to lose the only person that could have helped her through her problems


It's too late to say "hang on"
It's too late to give her hope or try to bring her back from the edge because she doesn't see any way out of her situation


Sometimes you just have to wait
Sometimes, to help someone, you just have to wait and give them the space to process their emotions and speak when they're ready


This time it's just too late
But in this case, waiting and giving her space is no longer an option because she's already gone


She keeps apologizing every single night
She's still struggling with her pain and feels guilty about it, as if it's her fault for feeling that way


Every night she wrings her hands
She's going through a lot physically and mentally, and it's difficult for her to calm down or get any relief from her stress


Every night that's where she stands
She's stuck in the same place, unable to move forward, and every night feels like a repetition of the last


And I cannot accept that I could have changed her fate
The singer feels like they could have done more to help her and blames themselves for not intervening earlier


If I only would have known
If they had known how much she was suffering, they could have helped her


My friends keep telling me that it will be all right
The singer's friends are trying to comfort them by saying that everything will be okay


But they don't know the cost
But they don't understand the gravity of the situation or the emotional toll it's taken on the artist


No, they don't know what I've lost
They don't realize the personal loss the artist is experiencing, the pain and grief of losing someone they cared about


They keep on talking, but to me there's nothing left
Even though their friends are trying to help, the singer feels like they can't do anything else to make the situation better because the person they cared about is already gone




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DENNIS STEVEN JAGARD, PETER DOUGLAS NEWBURY, STEVEN THOMAS CARNAN, TONY PALERMO

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