Benefits of Lying
The Apples in Stereo Lyrics


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Everything I say falls away
Like the fade on the radio song
And everything I try passed me by
Like the tide seems to rise, then it's gone

Still, there's something to be said
For company in bed this time of morning
See? I knew we'd agree
How can anyone deny
The benefits of lying with your friend
We'll try it again

Sometimes when I'm by myself
I can't find myself
And there's no one there
Sometimes I can see myself
I can be myself
With a friend, now

Every day I rub both my eyes
And my mind fills with complications
And everywhere I go
Passed by slow
Fading moments and aspirations

Sometimes when I'm by myself
I can't find myself
And there's no one there
Sometimes I can see myself
I can be myself
With a friend, now

Sometimes when I'm by myself
I can't find myself
And there's no one there
Sometimes I can be myself
I can see myself
With a friend, now
A friend, now

I'll never know you like you know yourself
You'll never know me like I know myself
I'll never know you like you know yourself
You'll never know me like I know myself
I'll never know you like you know yourself
You'll never know me like I know myself




I'll never know you like I know myself
You'll never know me like you know yourself

Overall Meaning

The Apples In Stereo's song Benefits of Lying is a reflective piece that speaks to the benefits of companionship and friendship. The track opens with the lyrics, "Everything I say falls away/Like the fade on the radio song/And everything I try passed me by/Like the tide seems to rise, then it's gone." To interpret these lines, it seems as though the singer is struggling to feel heard or seen in life. Each attempt to make themselves known falls short and fades away, leaving them feeling unnoticed and unimportant.


However, the song takes a positive turn as it explores the value of companionship. The lyrics state, "Still, there's something to be said/For company in bed this time of morning/See? I knew we'd agree/How can anyone deny/The benefits of lying with your friend/We'll try it again." Here, the singer appears to be in the company of a friend, and they appreciate the value of having someone by their side. There's a sense of comfort and security in having a companion in bed with them, and they recognize how powerful and important such a connection can be.


The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "Sometimes when I'm by myself/I can't find myself/And there's no one there/Sometimes I can see myself/I can be myself/With a friend, now." This repetition emphasizes the central theme of the song: that having someone by your side can help you find yourself and be yourself. When you're alone, it can be difficult to know who you are or how to express yourself. But when you have a friend with you, you feel seen, heard, and known, and you can more easily be your authentic self.


Overall, the Benefits of Lying is a song that celebrates the value of friendship and companionship. It speaks to the difficulties of feeling unseen or unheard, but ultimately emphasizes the power of human connection to help us find and be ourselves.


Line by Line Meaning

Everything I say falls away
The words I speak have no lasting impact and are fleeting.


Like the fade on the radio song
Similar to how a radio song fades away and is forgotten, my words are forgettable.


And everything I try passed me by
My attempts at achieving something have failed and gone unnoticed.


Like the tide seems to rise, then it's gone
Just as the tide appears and disappears, my efforts have come and gone.


Still, there's something to be said
Regardless, there is something to be noted and discussed.


For company in bed this time of morning
There's nothing quite like sharing a bed with someone in the early hours of the day.


See? I knew we'd agree
As expected, we are in agreement about this topic.


How can anyone deny
It's difficult to argue against the truth of this matter.


The benefits of lying with your friend
The advantages of experiencing a close, intimate bond with a friend are immeasurable.


We'll try it again
Let's attempt this again and continue to cultivate our friendship.


Sometimes when I'm by myself
Occasionally, when I'm alone...


I can't find myself
I feel lost and unsure of who I am.


And there's no one there
There's no one around to help me navigate through these feelings of uncertainty.


Sometimes I can see myself
However, at times I am able to perceive my true self...


I can be myself
...and can feel comfortable being my authentic self.


With a friend, now
Thanks to a close friend, I am able to feel this sense of comfort and belonging.


Every day I rub both my eyes
On a daily basis, I wake up and rub my tired eyes...


And my mind fills with complications
...and become inundated with an abundance of complex thoughts.


And everywhere I go
No matter where I go...


Passed by slow
...time seems to pass slowly.


Fading moments and aspirations
Moments and dreams disappear and lose their vibrance.


I'll never know you like you know yourself
I can never know someone as deeply and intimately as they know themselves.


You'll never know me like I know myself
Likewise, others will never be able to fully comprehend the depths of my being and personality.




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