Wallflower
The Bates Lyrics


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Hey little girl, don't you know you're too shy
When you say hello, they all say goodbye
Hey little girl, don't you ever learn
When you walk in they all seem to turn
When you walk in they seem to turn
They turn their heads away

Hey little girl, don't you know you're too plain
When you say once more they say not again
Hey little girl, don't you know it's skin deep
Just when you wake up they all go to sleep
When you wake up they go to sleep
They're all just counting sheep

You never listen to me ]
You're lust a flower on the wall ]
You never listen to me ]
You lust don't pay attention at all ] (Chorus)

Hey little girl, isn't it lust a shame
The dress rings a bell, but I can't quite place the name
Hey little girl, no, you're not of their kind
When you've got to go they don't seem to mind
When you go they don't seem to mind
They think you're such a bind

(Chorus)

Your conversation runs dry
When you smile you just cry deep inside
Your inexperience shows
Which your fashionable clothes just can't hide

(Chorus)

Hey little girl don't you know you're too plain
When you say once more they say not again





No, no, no, not again, no, no, not again

Overall Meaning

The Bates's song "Wallflower" is a song about a girl who is shy and often overlooked by others due to her supposed plainness. The song begins with the lyrics "Hey little girl, don't you know you're too shy? When you say hello, they all say goodbye." It highlights how people tend to avoid or ignore her even when she tries to reach out to them. The song goes on to explain how the girl's appearance, speech, and behavior all contribute to her being invisible to others. The chorus repeats the words "You never listen to me, you're just a flower on the wall. You never listen to me, you just don't pay attention at all."


The song serves as a commentary on the lack of attention and recognition received by people who don't fit into society's narrow standards of beauty and social skills. It also touches on the pressure to conform and fit in, even at the expense of one's own sense of self. The lyrics explicitly tell the girl that the reason she's being ignored is that she's not good enough, prompting her to feel ashamed and inadequate.


Overall, the song paints a bleak picture of the girl's social life and highlights the impact that being ignored and feeling invisible can have on a person's self-esteem and sense of worth.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey little girl, don't you know you're too shy
You lack assertiveness and confidence


When you say hello, they all say goodbye
People brush you off because you don't make a strong impression


Hey little girl, don't you ever learn
You keep making the same mistakes


When you walk in they all seem to turn
People ignore you or avoid you


They turn their heads away
They express disinterest or disdain


Hey little girl, don't you know you're too plain
Your appearance is not appealing enough


When you say once more they say not again
People are tired of your presence or behavior


Hey little girl, don't you know it's skin deep
Your physical looks aren't everything


Just when you wake up they all go to sleep
Others have different interests or priorities than you


When you wake up they go to sleep
You're not popular or outgoing


They're all just counting sheep
They're not interested in getting to know you


You never listen to me ]
You don't take advice or feedback


You're lust a flower on the wall ]
You're not very noticeable or significant


You never listen to me ]
You don't pay attention to what others say


You lust don't pay attention at all ] (Chorus)
You're too inwardly focused or stuck in your own world


Hey little girl, isn't it lust a shame
It's unfortunate that you're not more accepted or appreciated


The dress rings a bell, but I can't quite place the name
You have some potential, but it's not fully realized


Hey little girl, no, you're not of their kind
You're different and don't fit in with others


When you've got to go they don't seem to mind
People don't care when you leave


When you go they don't seem to mind
You don't leave a lasting impression


They think you're such a bind
They see you as a burden or annoyance


Your conversation runs dry
You don't have much to say or contribute


When you smile you just cry deep inside
You're not truly happy or fulfilled


Your inexperience shows
You lack knowledge or life experience


Which your fashionable clothes just can't hide
Your outward appearance can't cover up your deeper insecurities or flaws


No, no, no, not again, no, no, not again
Negative experiences keep repeating for you




Writer(s): Markus Zimmer, Makrus Zimmer Copyright: Nana Musikverlag

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Comments from YouTube:

TheBatesTributeSpain

Great live-show and video, Norman7283, thanks. I remember I saw it from Spain in Tv Channel Viva .

Janik Paulus

From which year is this concert?

Peter Jordan

must be around 94-96

Chris Krueger

ach soooo! ;-)

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