Sick And Tired
The Big time Lyrics
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That you know who I should be
I didn't ask for your opinion
Or your life story
I put these walls up for a reason
To keep you from getting in
With this smile that I wear so well
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
I'm happy the way I shouldn't be
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
Never though in this life
That you'd get sick and tired of me
No one knows what I'm thinking
That's the problem with me
I don't know who I am anymore
I'm not the person that I used to be
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
I'm happy the way I shouldn't be
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
Never though in this life
That you'd get sick and tired of me
Now you've got me thinking
It feels like I'm sinking
I'm spent on cheap thrill
and it's all to you
You'll just watch me drown
Keep bringing me down
I'm sorry I'm not what you wanted
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
I'm happy the way I shouldn't be
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
Never though in this life
That you'd get sick and tired of me
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
I'm happy the way I shouldn't be
I'm getting sick and tired
of being sick and tired
Never though in this life
That you'd get sick and tired of me
The lyrics of "Sick and Tired" by The Big Time touch on themes of identity, personal boundaries, and the pressure to conform to others' expectations. The singer expresses frustration with someone who thinks they know what is best for them and has imposed their ideals onto the singer's life. The walls they have built around themselves are symbolic of the emotional barriers they have created to keep others out and maintain their sense of self.
However, the singer becomes aware that they are not sure who they truly are anymore and how they have changed over time. They are happy with their current state of being, but are also struggling with feeling stuck and stagnant. They feel judged and misunderstood by those around them, further leading to feelings of being sick and tired.
The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "I'm getting sick and tired of being sick and tired," underscoring the exhaustion the singer feels with their current situation. At the same time, they express disbelief that the person they are singing to could also be sick and tired of them.
Overall, the lyrics of "Sick and Tired" draw attention to the complex issues of individuality, personal growth, and connecting with others. They offer an introspective look at the struggle to find balance between being true to oneself and finding acceptance from others.
Line by Line Meaning
You're so good at pretending
You are skilled at pretending
That you know who I should be
You know who I should be
I didn't ask for your opinion
I did not seek your opinion
Or your life story
I am not interested in your life story
I put these walls up for a reason
I erected these walls intentionally
To keep you from getting in
To prevent you from getting close to me
With this smile that I wear so well
I am able to fake a smile convincingly
I'll play this game that I'll never win
I will continue to participate in this pointless game
I'm getting sick and tired
I am becoming fed up
of being sick and tired
of constantly feeling dissatisfied
I'm happy the way I shouldn't be
I am content despite societal expectations
Never though in this life
I did not expect in this lifetime
That you'd get sick and tired of me
That you would become tired of me
No one knows what I'm thinking
No one is aware of my thoughts
That's the problem with me
My issue is rooted in this fact
I don't know who I am anymore
I am uncertain of my identity
I'm not the person that I used to be
I have changed from my past self
Now you've got me thinking
You have caused me to reflect
It feels like I'm sinking
I am experiencing a sinking sensation
I'm spent on cheap thrill
I am depleted from meaningless excitement
and it's all to you
You are responsible for this condition
You'll just watch me drown
You will simply observe my downfall
Keep bringing me down
You continue to drag me down
I'm sorry I'm not what you wanted
I apologize for not being what you desired
Never though in this life
I did not expect in this lifetime
That you'd get sick and tired of me
That you would become tired of me
Contributed by Colton O. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
@littlestellabell
Holy shit I love this song so much!! No kidding!
@shygoodbye182
Wow this video...deep stuff! Love how you dudes are progressing! You just keep getting better and better!
@TreacherousSidney
Great job guys, not only is the song amazing, but the video is really powerful too. <3 so glad I got to see you in Orlando!:)
@snruben1123
Blown away by this video...absolutely amazing...so glad I met you guys at Warped this summer-I've heard nothing but amazing music since. Love you guys <3
@graceellenmessimer6805
I saw You guys last night with All Time Low... I'll admit I didn't know who you were, but I'm already a fan...amazing show. I met all of you after the show and got my ATL shirt signed and pictures with all of you. You're amazing people and were so nice to be around, and I love this song. I cried when you played this and talked about being sick of everything before you played (then again, I was already crying because of Stay Strong. Great show last night! Can't wait to see you guys again (I'll go to your concert anytime)
@OSANORTH
This is awesome screenplay and sound and music! Great Job!!
@Peachkuma94
Great video strong emotional song great job it was great seeing you guys in nashville or well Murfreesboro this song was so powerful and amazing in person it brought tears to my eyes you guys are great
@TheTristanTukProject
I just saw them earlier tonight on the Pup Fresh Tour! It was the last day of tour. Dec 6, 2013
@charleycooke7299
Wow love this song, new favorite song!!!x
@heyyo8418
This is reeeeaally good!