Never Again
The Bland Lyrics

The lyrics to The Bland's song "Never Again" depict a relationship dynamic where the singer feels trapped and manipulated by their partner. The opening lines "You got me where you want me honey, by saying nothing" suggest that the partner's silence or empty promises have a powerful hold over the singer. They are yearning for something more substantial, something bigger, but their partner's lack of communication or action is slowly destroying them from within. The line "Imaginations, they kill me inside, so I guess it's working" implies that the singer's mind is filled with unfulfilled fantasies and desires, causing emotional turmoil.

As the song progresses, the singer realizes that they have centered their entire life around this relationship, symbolized by planning their whole life based on their partner's "tiny shoulders". The imagery of feeling the partner's thick hair around their fingers is intimate and personal, highlighting the strong emotional connection they once had. However, even in mundane moments like doing dishes, the singer questions their choices and contemplates taking some time off, as advised by their friends. The repetition of "never again" throughout the chorus reflects their determination to break free from this toxic cycle.

The bridge introduces the idea of another love song, another ending, and another glimpse of hope. It implies that this situation is not unique to the singer's experience, suggesting a pattern of failed relationships. The line "What am I selling?" hints at the singer questioning their own worth and whether they are settling for less than they deserve. The line "I never climb, I always fall" indicates a repeated pattern of disappointment and feeling incapable of reaching higher, while also recognizing that the partner is above them. The determination to bring the partner down implies a desire for equality or revenge.