There You Go Again
The Christians Lyrics


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There ought to be a way,
For us to learn to live as one,
But the vicious games you play,
Well, they're not my idea of fun.
A dozen times you lied,
A dozen times I took you back,
Always hoping that you'd change,
But I must face the facts,
Because there you go again.

I am as trusting as a child,
A helpless fool at your command,
You can be so savage and so wild,
Or maybe more like underhand.
When the beast is gone,
The gentle soul inside you stirs,
But I know it won't be long,
Before the beast returns.

And there you go again,
But I'm out of my mind,
You hurt me so again,
And now you're out of my mind,
And there you go again, a real fairweather friend.

So,I'm leaving you today,
A sadder but a wiser man,
It don't matter what you say,
I've taken all I can.

And there you go again,
But I've made up my mind,
You won't hurt me so again,
Because you're out of my mind,
And there you go again,
But I've made up my mind.
And so the story ends,and now you're out of my mind.
There you go again, this broken heart will mend,
There you go again,




Farewell fairweather friend,
Goodbye.

Overall Meaning

The Christians’s song There You Go Again describes the frustration and pain felt by someone who has continuously been lied to and hurt by their partner. The song conveys a sense of helplessness as the singer tries to salvage their relationship despite the repeated pattern of deceit and cruelty. The opening lines express a yearning to find a way to live together in harmony, but the games played by their partner make it impossible. The singer recounts how they have forgiven and taken their partner back countless times, hoping they would change, yet the same cycle repeats itself.


The second verse suggests the singer is aware of their naivete and is trapped in a situation they cannot control. They describe their partner as a ‘beast’ and acknowledge a gentler side to them, but they know it will not last. The chorus repeats the phrase ‘there you go again’ emphasising that the cycle of hurt and forgiveness is predictable and unchanging. The bridge signifies the singer has reached their breaking point and chooses to leave the relationship, even if it makes them sadder. The repetition of ‘there you go again’ in the final chorus denotes a sense of closure, as the singer affirms they have made up their mind and the ‘story ends’.


Line by Line Meaning

There ought to be a way,
It should be possible for us to learn to live together in harmony.


For us to learn to live as one,
It should be possible for us to come together and unite as one.


But the vicious games you play,
However, you engage in hurtful and harmful behavior towards me.


Well, they're not my idea of fun.
I do not enjoy or find pleasure in your harmful actions.


A dozen times you lied,
You have repeatedly deceived me on numerous occasions.


A dozen times I took you back,
Despite your lies, I have forgiven and accepted you back into my life many times.


Always hoping that you'd change,
I have always hoped that you would become a better person and stop hurting me.


But I must face the facts,
However, I must accept the reality of the situation.


Because there you go again.
You have once again hurt me with your actions.


I am as trusting as a child,
I am very trusting and naive in my relationship with you.


A helpless fool at your command,
I am vulnerable and easily manipulated by you.


You can be so savage and so wild,
You can be extremely cruel and unpredictable in your behavior towards me.


Or maybe more like underhand.
You may also act in a sneaky and deceitful manner towards me.


When the beast is gone,
When your cruel and harmful behavior subsides,


The gentle soul inside you stirs,
Your kind and compassionate nature arises.


But I know it won't be long,
However, I am aware that this change will not last very long.


Before the beast returns.
Soon enough, your cruel and hurtful behavior will resurface.


But I'm out of my mind,
Despite knowing this, I continue to return to you and engage in this toxic cycle.


You hurt me so again,
And as expected, you once again cause me emotional pain and suffering.


And now you're out of my mind,
But now I am determined to move on and put you behind me.


And there you go again, a real fairweather friend.
You are a fickle and unreliable friend, always there when it's convenient for you.


So, I'm leaving you today,
Therefore, I am ending our relationship today.


A sadder but a wiser man,
I am leaving with a heavy heart but also with newfound wisdom and enlightenment.


It don't matter what you say,
Your words no longer hold any power over me.


I've taken all I can.
I have reached my limit and can no longer tolerate your hurtful behavior.


But I've made up my mind,
My decision to leave you is final and unwavering.


You won't hurt me so again,
I am confident that I will no longer allow you to cause me emotional pain and suffering.


Because you're out of my mind,
You no longer have a hold on my thoughts and emotions.


There you go again,
You may try to reach out to me again,


And so the story ends, and now you're out of my mind.
But our story has come to an end, and you are no longer a part of my life.


This broken heart will mend,
I will take time to heal and recover from the emotional damage you have caused me.


Farewell fairweather friend,
Goodbye to you, my unreliable and disloyal friend.


Goodbye.
My final farewell to you.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: NICK INGMAN, HENRY PRIESTMAN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

CAMILO ALBANO COSTA Alcarva

There ought to be a way,
For us to learn to live as one,
But the vicious games you play,
Well, they're not my idea of fun.
A dozen times you lied,
A dozen times I took you back,
Always hoping that you'd change,
But I must face the facts,
Because there you go again.

I am as trusting as a child,
A helpless fool at your command,
You can be so savage and so wild,
Or maybe more like underhand.
When the beast is gone,
The gentle soul inside you stirs,
But I know it won't be long,
Before the beast returns.

And there you go again,
But I'm out of my mind,
You hurt me so again,
And now you're out of my mind,
And there you go again, a real fairweather friend.

So, I'm leaving you today,
A sadder but a wiser man,
It don't matter what you say,
I've taken all I can.

And there you go again,
But I've made up my mind,
You won't hurt me so again,
Because you're out of my mind,
And there you go again,
But I've made up my mind.
And so the story ends, and now you're out of my mind.
There you go again, this broken heart will mend,
There you go again,
Farewell fairweather friend,
Goodbye.



All comments from YouTube:

CAMILO ALBANO COSTA Alcarva

30 years later it's good to rediscover this song, thanks the Christians.

Lisa Sims

What a band, what a song ,absolutely class

Renata Anusiewicz

Słucham ich 25 lat, nie mogę wyjść z podziwu, perfekcja, profesjonalizm, idealne chórki... melodyjność! Ideał Words🌹

Karen Parnaby

Lucky enough to see them live 3 X
Brilliant band and Garry's voice is like velvet , one of my favourite songs 🥰

CAMILO ALBANO COSTA Alcarva

There ought to be a way,
For us to learn to live as one,
But the vicious games you play,
Well, they're not my idea of fun.
A dozen times you lied,
A dozen times I took you back,
Always hoping that you'd change,
But I must face the facts,
Because there you go again.

I am as trusting as a child,
A helpless fool at your command,
You can be so savage and so wild,
Or maybe more like underhand.
When the beast is gone,
The gentle soul inside you stirs,
But I know it won't be long,
Before the beast returns.

And there you go again,
But I'm out of my mind,
You hurt me so again,
And now you're out of my mind,
And there you go again, a real fairweather friend.

So, I'm leaving you today,
A sadder but a wiser man,
It don't matter what you say,
I've taken all I can.

And there you go again,
But I've made up my mind,
You won't hurt me so again,
Because you're out of my mind,
And there you go again,
But I've made up my mind.
And so the story ends, and now you're out of my mind.
There you go again, this broken heart will mend,
There you go again,
Farewell fairweather friend,
Goodbye.

Gillian Rutherford

Brilliant band. One of my favourite songs ever. Have seen them live 3 times and was lucky enough to meet them as they stayed in the same hotel. It was my birthday treat and they ssng happy birthday to me! <3

Koosul Polo

Such a sweet bassline with so much groove with the velvet voice of Gary. The nice solo guitar at 2.41 without forgetting the sax at thy end, well the best tune ever.

Mari Carmen Rafael

I LOVE this band.!!!!!!

Julia Rolph

And there you go again ...sweet sweet music 💛💛

Lorena Serrano Corbella

Alimento para el alma ❤️

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