Don't Let Her Be Your Baby
The Contours Lyrics


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Look, I'm telling you as a friend
Because I think you're so nice
I really think a lot of you
Now you can let her wear your pin
You can let her your friend
But remember, whatever you do

Don't you let her
Be your baby (no, no, no)
Don't you let her
Be your baby (no, no, no)
Don't let her be your baby
(No, no, no, no, no, no)

Don't you know she's gonna
Kiss you (gonna kiss you)
Hold you tight (hold you tight)
She's saying she'll miss you
(She'll miss you) day and night
(Day and night, night and day)

She'll tell you that she loves you
(Sounds so sweet)
Make your temperature rise
(Temperature rise)
She says gonna hug you
(Gonna hug you)
Tell you no lies (tell you no lies)

When she puts her arms around you
(Yeah, yeah, yeah) make you
Feel so fine, yeah

She'll be sugar and spice
(Sugar and spice)
Everything nice (everything nice)
And then, and then, and then
She's gonna break your heart
Like she did mine

Push, push, push, push

She'll put her arms around you
(Yeah, yeah, yeah) make you
Feel so fine, yeah

She's sugar and spice now
(Sugar and spice)
Everything nice now (everything nice)
And then, and then, and then
She's gonna break your heart
Like she did mine

Don't let her be your baby
(Please be smart)
Don't you let her be your baby
(Have a broken heart)
Don't you let her be your baby
(You agree, if you agree)

Send her back to me
Send her back to me

Don't let her be your baby (no, no, no)
Don't let her be your baby (no, no, no)




Don't let her be your baby (no, no, no)
Don't let her be

Overall Meaning

The Contours' song "Don't Let Her Be Your Baby" is a warning to a friend about a girl who will try to seduce him and ultimately break his heart. The lyrics advise the friend not to let this girl become his "baby" because she will only bring him heartbreak. The singer reminisces about his own experience with this girl, how she kissed him, held him tight, and said she loved him but ultimately ended up breaking his heart. He warns his friend not to fall for her charms and to send her back to him instead.


The lyrics are cautionary but the upbeat tempo and harmonies make it a catchy and fun song to dance to. The message is relatable as many people have experienced falling for someone who initially seems perfect but ultimately causes pain. The song also speaks to the idea of loyalty between friends- the singer is trying to protect his friend from the same pain that he himself experienced.


Line by Line Meaning

Look, I'm telling you as a friend
I am offering this advice with genuine concern for you


Because I think you're so nice
I hold you in high regard as a person


I really think a lot of you
I value and respect you


Now you can let her wear your pin
You can give her a token of your affection


You can let her your friend
You can have a platonic relationship with her


But remember, whatever you do
However you choose to approach this situation, keep in mind


Don't you let her
Do not allow her


Be your baby (no, no, no)
To become your significant other and assume a level of emotional dependence


Don't you know she's gonna
You are likely aware that she will


Kiss you (gonna kiss you)
Engage in romantic physical intimacy


Hold you tight (hold you tight)
Embrace you affectionately


She's saying she'll miss you
She's expressing a desire to spend time with you


(She'll miss you) day and night
Consistently and frequently


She'll tell you that she loves you
She will express her feelings of affection


(Sounds so sweet)
In an appealing way


Make your temperature rise
Increase your level of physiological excitement


(Temperature rise)
Heightened physical arousal


She says gonna hug you
She has stated her intention to embrace you


(Gonna hug you)
Expressing her desire to show physical affection


Tell you no lies (tell you no lies)
She will be truthful with you


When she puts her arms around you
In the instance that she embraces you


(Yeah, yeah, yeah) make you
Will cause you to feel


Feel so fine, yeah
In a state of enjoyment and pleasure


She'll be sugar and spice
She will be charming and attractive


(Sugar and spice)
Pleasing combination of good qualities


Everything nice (everything nice)
Pleasant and agreeable in every way


And then, and then, and then
However, subsequently


She's gonna break your heart
She will cause you emotional pain and distress


Like she did mine
Similar to the way she caused me pain


Push, push, push, push
The repetition of this phrase emphasizes the singer's push for action


Don't let her be your baby (no, no, no)
Repeated warning against allowing emotional dependence to develop


(Please be smart)
A plea to make intelligent and thoughtful decisions


Don't you let her be your baby
Reiteration of the warning against emotional dependence


(Have a broken heart)
The consequence of ignoring the warning is heartbreak


Don't you let her be your baby
Final repetition of the warning


(You agree, if you agree)
An attempt to validate the listener's agreement


Send her back to me
A request to return the woman to the singer




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BERRY GORDY JR, BERRY JR GORDY

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