Heartache
The Doobie Brothers Lyrics


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Michael mcdonald

So you tell him to say no more
You don't want to know why or where
Where he's been all these lonely nights
You know what's wrong and don't care what's right
As long as he comes back to you
Someone to love him all his life

It ain't nothin' but a heartache
Darling, you'll get over it
It ain't nothing but a heartache
Darling, you'll get over it

There's always there comes a day
When love just goes away
When there's no caring, no words to say
There's no forgiving, no games to play
When all you know will get you through
Seems like you've known it all your life

It ain't nothin' but a heartache
Darling, you'll get over it




It ain't nothin' but a heartache
Darling, you'll get over it

Overall Meaning

The Doobie Brothers' song "Nothin' But a Heartache" is a heart-wrenching story of a woman who refuses to listen to her man's reasons for his absence, in turn causing him to leave her permanently. The woman doesn't want to know where he's been all these lonely nights or why he's been absent from her life. She only cares that he comes back to her and that she has someone to love her all her life. The man eventually leaves her because there's no caring, no words to say, no forgiving, and no games to play.


The lyrics reveal the woman's reluctance to communicate and engage with her man in a meaningful way. Instead of listening to him and working through their issues, she turns her back on him, leaving him to feel alone and unsupported. The lyrics show the pain that comes when love is not enough to save a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

So you tell him to say no more
You instruct him to keep shut about something that troubles him.


You don't want to know why or where
You have no interest in hearing the circumstances or location behind his troubled state.


Where he's been all these lonely nights
You are not curious about his whereabouts during the times he was feeling deserted.


You know what's wrong and don't care what's right
You are aware of the problem, yet you don't prioritize doing the moral or ethical thing.


As long as he comes back to you
You only care if he returns to you.


Someone to love him all his life
You expect to be the only person who provides him with a lifetime of love.


It ain't nothin' but a heartache
The pain caused by this ordeal is only emotional and not physical.


Darling, you'll get over it
You will eventually overcome the emotional pain caused by their situation.


There's always there comes a day
The inevitable day will arrive when things will come to a head.


When love just goes away
There will be times when love will simply vanish.


When there's no caring, no words to say
You will reach a point where you can't empathize or find the right words to speak.


There's no forgiving, no games to play
It'll reach a point where forgiveness cannot be sought or games played to alleviate the tension and pain.


When all you know will get you through
You will have to rely on all the knowledge you've acquired to endure such a predicament.


Seems like you've known it all your life
It usually feels like such situations have been a part of your entire existence.


It ain't nothin' but a heartache
The pain caused by this ordeal is only emotional and not physical.


Darling, you'll get over it
You will eventually overcome the emotional pain caused by their situation.




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