Together, they recorded a 5 track demo in Enders' basement and sent it, along with a poorly edited videotape to only one label: Drive-Thru Records.
A couple of months passed while both Sacco and Anello had to budge for more skilled replacements, Steve Nakovich (guitar) and Mike Klemash (bass), until the band got in touch with Richard Reines of Drive-Thru, who luckily was visiting their hometown and agreed to meet with the band to give advice.
Stunned by what he had heard, Reines returned to California to discuss a possible signing with Drive-Thru co-owner Stefanie Reines. A few weeks and yet another line-up change later (Joe Marro joined for Nakovich), Drive-Thru signed The Early November and put them, despite their practically non-existent on stage experience, on 2002's Skate and Surf Fest and on selected dates of the Warped Tour.
Klemash and Marro left the band before the recording of their debut EP For All of This. Anello re-joined on bass, while a temporary second guitarist was found in John Dubitsky. The CD came out on Drive-Thru Records in early November 2002. Enders recorded The Acoustic EP on his own, featuring acoustic versions of most songs off their debut EP, which was released a mere two months later. Simultaneously, guitarist Marro had re-joined the band in exchange for Dubitsky.
Throughout 2003, the band continued to tour and write songs in preparation for their first full-length CD The Room's Too Cold, which was released in fall of that year. Soon afterwards, Enders recorded a solo record under the name I Can Make a Mess Like Nobody's Business. The CD was almost scrapped due to Enders wanting to focus on The Early November after Kummer left the band in summer 2004 and re-joined two weeks later.
While in the long and grueling process of recording their second full-length, the band had their guitar tech Bill Lugg aka UltraBill join, and the triple disc entitled The Mother, the Mechanic and the Path was released on July 11, 2006.
On March 13th, 2007, TEN announced that they would be going on an indefinite hiatus after they complete their current tour. They announced this both online and at their show at the Meridian in Houston that night. They played their last show at the Bamboozle Festival in East Rutherford, New Jersey, on May 6th, 2007, and left open the possibility of one day returning to the stage but were grateful for everyone who supported them throughout the past 6 years.
An official statement from the band:
We would like to announce that at end of our upcoming headlining tour, The Early November will be taking an indefinite hiatus.
Throughout the past six years we have released two LP’s, two EP’s, played over one thousand shows, seen six wonderful countries, have met thousands of great people, made life-long friends, and have broken countless amounts of instruments. We have done more than we have ever thought possible for a small rock band out of southern New Jersey. We are very proud and very grateful of every moment we have spent as The Early November.
In case any of you are wondering, this is not a result of anything one can consider negative. No fighting, no one hates each other, no one has a substance abuse problem… none of the typical baggage that is usually carried along with rock bands taking a hiatus. The situation is actually much the opposite. We all love and care for on another tremendously. We’re as close of friends as we have ever been and, as long as the five of us exist, we will continue to be so. This “hiatus” or “break” is just a result of time and life. As we grow older, priorities change. We’ve decided we need to take some time and see that life isn’t all dirty rock clubs, rest stops at 2 am, and long distance phone calls. We have to be where we haven’t been in the past six years; with our friends, family, and loved ones.
We hope this isn’t completely somber news to anyone of you. We want to view it almost in the same way many cultures view the passing of a friend or loved one. Not to mourn but to celebrate their life and memory. In our small way, we’d like to do the same. We invite you to come and send off something that has meant so much to the five of us for so long. We may or may not be coming back. Who knows. But for now, all we can say is “Thank You.” “Thank You,” to everyone who was or has been a part of making our dreams a reality. Most importantly, “Thank You” to every single TEN fan. We hope you guys understand. We truly love all of you.
- Ace, Joe, Jeff, Serg, Bill
The Early November
Ace carried on writing his solo project and released The World We Know in 2010.
Since then, the band have announced their reunion 2011, and have done a full US tour in 2012. Their first album since the break is set to be released Summer 2012.
My Lack Of Skill
The Early November Lyrics
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Here I am with nothing showing.
And all I want,
Yes it is all I want, is us.
Lost my chance maybe a month ago.
I waited long but I got to thinking.
I waste my time because I'm always thinking I'm wrong.
And you just want to believe everything everyone says.
Oh, it would be great if I could just deal with it.
Packing up almost everything.
I'm moving out and starting over.
And all I want, maybe it's all I want, is love.
If that was it then it would all be great.
But I can't walk without feeling lost.
And I don't know, I'm thinking it's all I know, is us.
And it's tough being alone when you're naive,
And you just want to believe everything everyone says.
Oh, it would be great if I could just deal...
Ohhh. Ohh. Ohh.
And it's tough being alone when you're naive,
And you just want to believe everything and everyone.
The Early November's song My Lack Of Skill tells the story of a person who has been waiting for something great all their life but has yet to achieve it. They feel like they have nothing to show for their efforts and are still searching for that one thing that will make their life complete. All they want is love and connection with others, but they have lost their chance and are facing the reality of being alone.
The singer in the song is grappling with their insecurities and feeling lost. They struggle to trust others and believe in themselves, which further isolates them. They are in a state of transition, packing up and moving out to start over. But even with this change, they are uncertain about what they want and need in life.
The chorus reflects the inner turmoil of the singer, as they express how difficult it is to be alone and naive, always wanting to believe in others and their promises. They wish they could just deal with it and move on, but the uncertainty and lack of trust continue to plague them.
Overall, the song captures the struggles of a person who is still searching for purpose and connection in their life, but is grappling with insecurity and self-doubt.
Line by Line Meaning
All my life, waited for something great.
Throughout my life, I have been awaiting an exceptional opportunity.
Here I am with nothing showing.
But I find myself empty-handed.
And all I want, Yes it is all I want, is us.
My sole desire is for our romantic relationship.
Lost my chance maybe a month ago.
I may have missed my chance not too long ago.
I waited long but I got to thinking.
Even if I waited for a long time, my thoughts changed.
I waste my time because I'm always thinking I'm wrong.
I squander my time due to my constant self-doubt.
And it's tough being alone when you're naive,
It's hard to be on your own when you're inexperienced and gullible.
And you just want to believe everything everyone says.
And you are inclined to accept everything that anyone says.
Oh, it would be great if I could just deal with it.
It would be excellent if I could cope with my issues.
Packing up almost everything.
I am almost taking all my stuff with me.
I'm moving out and starting over.
I'm leaving and beginning anew.
And all I want, maybe it's all I want, is love.
My only wish may be to have a romantic partner.
If that was it then it would all be great.
If that's all it took, everything would be wonderful.
But I can't walk without feeling lost.
But I feel aimless without direction.
And I don't know, I'm thinking it's all I know, is us.
I'm unsure, but I believe our romantic relationship is all I have.
Ohhh. Ohh. Ohh.
And it's tough being alone when you're naive,
It's difficult to be by yourself when you're inexperienced and gullible.
And you just want to believe everything and everyone.
And you desire to believe in everything and everyone.
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