Man Scared
The Fat Lady Sings Lyrics


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The ache of the old
The shock of the new
These are the scary little things
Turned me into you
I'm sick and tired
I must be tired of life itself
I feel like a house that no-one's lived in
For twelve long years

I'm lost and I don't know why
If the black mountains can scratch the blue sky
You won't reach your hand and touch
A man who's scared of the dark

The ache of the old
The shock of the new
These are the scary little things
Turned me into you
Horse stuck before the cart
I am shacked up with this bleeding heart
Waiting for someone to come my way
And tear my world apart again

I'm lost and I don't know why
If the black mountains can scratch the blue sky
You won't reach your hand and touch
A man who's scared of the dark

Gently does it
Gently does it
Gently will have to do
Because I can't decide between the sweet and clean
And swimming in the deep blue sea

I'm lost and I don't know why
If the black mountains can scratch the blue sky




You won't reach your hand and touch
A man who's scared of the dark

Overall Meaning

The Fat Lady Sings’ song "Man Scared" is a reflective and melancholic piece about the overwhelming feelings of uncertainty and fear that come with growing older and facing the unknown. The lyrics are introspective, with the singer expressing their weariness and sense of being lost in the world. The opening lines, "The ache of the old, the shock of the new, these are the scary little things turned me into you," suggest that the singer has undergone a transformation of some sort, possibly losing their former naivety or sense of invincibility. The phrase "scary little things" implies that it is often small and unexpected events that cause us the most anxiety and unease.


The singer goes on to describe feeling exhausted with life, comparing themselves to an abandoned house that has not been lived in for years. They are waiting for something or someone to come along and "tear my world apart again", suggesting a level of numbness or detachment from their surroundings. The line "I'm lost and I don't know why" is repeated throughout the song, emphasizing the singer's uncertainty and confusion.


The chorus of "Man Scared" includes the powerful line, "You won't reach your hand and touch a man who's scared of the dark." This reinforces the idea that the singer is struggling with feelings of vulnerability and anxiety, unable to let others get too close or offer comfort.


Line by Line Meaning

The ache of the old
The feeling of pain from the past experiences


The shock of the new
The fear of encountering something unfamiliar


These are the scary little things
These small issues evoke big fears inside


Turned me into you
Made me become like you - someone who's scared


I'm sick and tired
I am exhausted and done with everything


I must be tired of life itself
The tiredness goes beyond the physical realm and it's about life in general


I feel like a house that no-one's lived in
I feel empty and abandoned; as if no one really understands me


For twelve long years
This feeling has been persistent for a long time


I'm lost and I don't know why
I am confused and disoriented


If the black mountains can scratch the blue sky
If something so impossible can happen, then anything can happen


You won't reach your hand and touch
You won't be able to reassure me or help me overcome my fears


A man who's scared of the dark
Someone like me who is afraid to face the unknown


Horse stuck before the cart
Things are in the wrong order - I am stuck before I can even start moving


I am shacked up with this bleeding heart
I am trapped and unable to get away from this emotional state


Waiting for someone to come my way
Hoping for someone to rescue me from this state of mind


And tear my world apart again
Even though I'm afraid, I secretly want someone to come make a change in my life


Gently does it
Go easy and take things slower


Gently will have to do
I can't handle anything too extreme, so gentle is the way to go


Because I can't decide between the sweet and clean
I'm uncertain about what I want - something that's easy and comforting or something that's new and fresh


And swimming in the deep blue sea
Jumping into something new and unknown




Writer(s): Nick Kelly

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