How Can Love Hurt So Much
The Knack Lyrics


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Convincing myself I don't want you
But nothing I say can make it true

How can love hurt so much
How can love make you cry
When we hunger for love's touch
Why do we even try
Please tell me
How can love cause such pain
Why do tears fill your eyes
Love is trust love's not a game
Love is life with a sigh (ah)

Why do I believe in
Dreams that don't come true
When the magic's over
What can you do

Why do I have to love her
Why can't it be another




Would it be easier with you
Tell me

Overall Meaning

The Knack's song "How Can Love Hurt So Much" expresses the conflicting emotions of someone who is trying to convince themselves that they don't want their lover anymore but are unable to let go of their love. The main idea conveyed in this song is about the pain and sorrow that love can bring to one's life even though everyone craves and yearns for it. The lyrics suggest that despite the lover's attempts to deny their feelings or suppress them, they are unable to do so. The chorus questions why love causes so much hurt and pain despite being something that people desire and try to pursue. The singer is pleading with his lover, asking for answers to the meaning of love, and how it can bring so much pain and heartache.


The Knack's "How Can Love Hurt So Much" provides a meaningful insight into the universal human experience of love and its complexities. The song describes the painful process of trying to let go of a loved one while still experiencing the intense feelings of love. It highlights the confusion and disillusionment that people feel when they find themselves caught in the trap of love. The singer questions the nature of love and its role in our lives, asking why it has the power to cause so much suffering and yet remain something that we constantly seek.


Line by Line Meaning

Convincing myself I don't want you
I try to tell myself that I don't want you in my life


But nothing I say can make it true
Despite all the words that come out of my mouth, none of it changes the fact that I do want you


How can love hurt so much
I don't understand how such a beautiful thing as love can cause so much pain


How can love make you cry
The thought of losing someone you love can make you cry


When we hunger for love's touch
We crave affection and to be loved by someone


Why do we even try
I wonder why we even bother trying to find love if it can bring so much pain


Please tell me
I'm asking for an explanation


How can love cause such pain
I want to know how love can cause so much hurt


Why do tears fill your eyes
When you love someone, the thought of losing them can make you cry


Love is trust love's not a game
Love is a bond built on trust and commitment, not a game to be played


Love is life with a sigh (ah)
Love is an integral part of life that makes us feel content and fulfilled


Why do I believe in
I question why I still believe


Dreams that don't come true
I hold on to dreams that may never become a reality


When the magic's over
Once the special feeling fades away


What can you do
There's nothing you can do to bring it back or make it last longer


Why do I have to love her
I wonder why I have to love her and why love can be so complicated


Why can't it be another
I wonder why I can't just love someone else instead


Would it be easier with you
I wonder if things would be easier if we were together


Tell me
I'm asking for an answer or an explanation




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: DOUGLAS LARS FIEGER

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