3rd Shift
The Loved Ones Lyrics


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His mother said stay away
Away from all the darkness, it'll haunt you
And everything we've ever prayed
Is the only thing that will ever save you

But it all started with that little taste
It helped keep him up later at night, helped the truth come back into sight
And when she left him it dulled the pain
He'd hide the marks under his socks, the doctor said he was in shock from what he'd seen

His mama said it's the last time
It's the last time we'll be here to save you
Because you've fucked this up again
And those kids aren't your friends, they use you up

And now he's standing in the rain
He should have probably hopped the train instead of drove
The sergeant's seen this thing before
Maybe some time behind locked doors will save this kid

No, but it don't save him, and who's to blame?
The truth just keeps him up at night, there was never much inside he liked
The guilty phantoms make him insane
He could clean up but why start now, after all, who knows how to start again?

If they don't save him, who's to blame?
If he don't save him, who's to blame?
If we don't save him, who's to blame?

His mother said stay away
Away from all the darkness, it'll haunt you
And everything we've ever prayed
Is the only thing that will ever save you

But it all started with that little taste
It helped keep him up later at night, helped the truth come back into sight
And when she left him it dulled the pain
He'd hide the marks under his socks, the doctor said he was in shock

If we don't save him, who's to blame?
The truth just keeps us up at night, why can't he see what's there to like?




Do guilty phantoms make us insane?
If we clean it up there's no way out, time will tell if he makes it out of this alive

Overall Meaning

The Loved Ones's song "3rd Shift" is a poignant reflection on the struggle of addiction and its consequences. The song is told from the perspective of someone who is observing a friend or family member going through addiction and trying to help them.


The song begins with a warning from the singer's mother to stay away from the darkness that addiction brings. She emphasizes the importance of prayer in saving him from the clutches of addiction. However, despite her warnings, he succumbs to the temptation of drugs, and it starts with just a little taste. This taste helps him stay up longer and brings back the truth into his life. However, when his girlfriend leaves him, he is left with only the pain and suffering, which he tries to hide from the world.


The chorus is a plea for help, and it highlights the frustration of being unable to save someone from their own demons. The singer's mother, friends, and the singer himself all share the blame for this situation. In the end, the song leaves the listener questioning whether anyone can be saved from addiction.


Line by Line Meaning

His mother said stay away
His mother advised him to keep away from dark things that could possibly harm him


Away from all the darkness, it'll haunt you
His mother warned him to stay away from everything bad and dangerous as it would make him miserable


And everything we've ever prayed
His mother believed that prayers are the only way to save him from the evils of the world


Is the only thing that will ever save you
His mother was convinced that if he prayed hard enough, he would be saved from the darkness that threatened him


But it all started with that little taste
However, everything started with a small indulgence in something risky and dangerous


It helped keep him up later at night, helped the truth come back into sight
The small indulgence helped him stay awake and realize the truth about himself and the world


And when she left him it dulled the pain
When his partner left him, he numbed his pain with more indulgence


He'd hide the marks under his socks, the doctor said he was in shock from what he'd seen
He tried to hide the evidence of his indulgence from others, and his doctor thought he was in shock from something traumatic he'd witnessed


His mama said it's the last time
His mother warned him that this would be the final opportunity for him to be saved


It's the last time we'll be here to save you
His mother believed that they might not be around to help him if he continued down this path of darkness


Because you've fucked this up again
His mother used crude language to emphasize that he had messed things up yet again


And those kids aren't your friends, they use you up
His mother warned him that his so-called friends were not true friends and were only using him for their own benefit


And now he's standing in the rain
He is currently standing in the rain, perhaps feeling lost and alone


He should have probably hopped the train instead of drove
He should have maybe taken a different path in life instead of continuing down this destructive road


The sergeant's seen this thing before
The sergeant is familiar with this type of situation as he may have seen it before


Maybe some time behind locked doors will save this kid
Perhaps locking him up and giving him time to reflect will help him turn his life around


No, but it don't save him, and who's to blame?
Although this may not necessarily save him, who is to take responsibility for his actions?


The truth just keeps him up at night, there was never much inside he liked
He is plagued by the truth of his situation and doesn't necessarily enjoy what's inside of him


The guilty phantoms make him insane
He feels guilt and shame that haunt him, driving him insane


He could clean up but why start now, after all, who knows how to start again?
He could change his ways, but he questions whether it's worth it or if he even knows how to start over


If they don't save him, who's to blame?
If others don't help him out of this situation, who is responsible for his well-being?


If he don't save him, who's to blame?
If he doesn't take responsibility for his own actions, who can be held accountable?


If we don't save him, who's to blame?
If as a society we do not help individuals like him, who can we blame for these situations?


The truth just keeps us up at night, why can't he see what's there to like?
As outsiders, the truth worries and troubles us, and we question why he can't see what's beneficial for him


Do guilty phantoms make us insane?
We question whether guilt and shame drive individuals to insanity


If we clean it up there's no way out, time will tell if he makes it out of this alive
If we try to fix the situation, there's no guarantee that it will lead to a better outcome, and only time can tell if he will ultimately survive




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