Settle Me Down
The Men Lyrics


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Settle down, an eat your peas and gravy, my boy
Settle down, settle down my boy settle down
Stop wasting all your time with running around the town
Settle down, settle down my boy settle down

Knuckle down and find a job and take some responsibility
Settle down, settle down my boy settle down
The future's something you should be thinking about
Settle down, settle down my boy settle down

Look around for a wife to start a family, my boy
Settle down, settle down my boy settle down
Listen toy our father and he'll tell you the same as me
Settle down, settle down my boy settle down

Your words would go in one ear and out the other side
Don't say my head was empty and I had things to hide

And you better put something away for your old age




So settle down, settle down my boy settle down
Settle down, settle down my boy settle down uh huh huh

Overall Meaning

In "Settle Me Down" by The Men, the lyrics explore the theme of maturity and responsibility, specifically addressing a young man who seems to be adrift and wasting his time. The repetition of the phrase "settle down" throughout the song emphasizes the need for this individual to establish stability and make more responsible choices in his life.


The opening lines, "Settle down, an eat your peas and gravy, my boy," convey a parental figure urging the young man to focus on practical matters like eating his meal. This can be interpreted as a metaphor for incorporating discipline and structure into his life. The repeated insistence to "settle down" suggests a desire for the young man to find a sense of purpose and direction.


The lyrics also encourage the individual to knuckle down, find a job, and take on responsibilities. The phrase "the future's something you should be thinking about" implies that he needs to consider the long-term consequences of his actions and start planning for his future.


As the song progresses, the focus shifts towards the prospect of starting a family. The mention of finding a wife and listening to one's father emphasizes the traditional values of settling down, raising a family, and seeking guidance from elders.


The lyrics also touch on the theme of communication breakdown between the older generation and the young man. The lines "Your words would go in one ear and out the other side" and "Don't say my head was empty and I had things to hide" suggest that there may be a disconnect in understanding between the two generations.


Overall, "Settle Me Down" serves as a reminder to the singer, and perhaps to listeners, that it is important to establish stability and focus on responsibilities in order to find fulfillment and purpose in life.


Line by Line Meaning

Settle down, an eat your peas and gravy, my boy
Be calm and focus on things that are important, like taking care of your basic needs


Stop wasting all your time with running around the town
Stop wasting your time on unnecessary activities and distractions


Knuckle down and find a job and take some responsibility
Get serious and find a job that brings stability and take responsibility for your actions


The future's something you should be thinking about
Start thinking about the consequences of your actions and plan for the future


Look around for a wife to start a family, my boy
Consider finding a life partner and starting a family as a meaningful and fulfilling goal


Listen toy our father and he'll tell you the same as me
Pay attention to the advice and wisdom of your father, as he shares similar thoughts


Your words would go in one ear and out the other side
You often ignore or don't pay enough attention to the advice given to you


Don't say my head was empty and I had things to hide
Don't dismiss my advice by saying that I have nothing valuable to offer or that I'm hiding something


And you better put something away for your old age
You should start saving money for your future when you are older


Settle down, settle down my boy settle down
Calm down and find stability in your life


Settle down, settle down my boy settle down uh huh huh
Emphasizing the importance of finding stability and calmness in life




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Written by: RON STRYKERT

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