Friend of Mine
The National Lyrics


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Hey, where the hell are you
You don't call me back, John
Won't you come here and stay with me
Why don't you come here and stay with me

Hey, where the hell are you
You don't call me back, John
Won't you come here and stay with me
Why don't you come here and stay with me

Show up here loaded with bells on your toes
I don't care what you're into
I'll put velvet ropes around you, if that's what you need

Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
Oh, you gotta get out and get back to me
John, you gotta get out and get back to me

Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
Oh, you gotta get out and get back to me
Take his limousine, you gotta get back to me

I'm getting nervous
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na
No sign of a friend of mine
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Red hair and blue eyes
I'm getting nervous
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na
No sign of a friend of mine

I was in a train under a river when I remembered what
What I wanted to tell you, man
What I wanted to tell you, man
I got two sets of headphones, I miss you like hell
Won't you come here and stay with me
Why don't you come here and stay with me

I'm getting nervous
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na
No sign of a friend of mine
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Red hair and blue eyes
I'm getting nervous
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na
No sign of a friend of mine
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na

Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
Oh, you gotta get out and get back to me
Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
John, you gotta get out and get back to me
Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
Fake a heart attack, you gotta get back to me




Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
John, you gotta get out and get back to me

Overall Meaning

The National’s song “Friend of Mine” is a melancholic fragment of a conversation between two friends, in which the singer is pleading for his friend, John, to come back to him. The opening lines “Hey, where the hell are you? You don't call me back, John. Won't you come here and stay with me? Why don't you come here and stay with me?” suggests that John may have disappeared, or perhaps, he is avoiding his friend for some unknown reason. The chorus “no sign of a friend of mine” and repeated “na, na, na, na, na, na, na” emphasizes the loneliness and uncertainty that the singer feels, adding to the sense of anxiety and tension.


The second verse contains a sense of confusion, telling John to ignore the outside world's temptations and return to his friend. There is a line that says “I'll put velvet ropes around you if that's what you need,” which seems to allude to the notion of protection, something that John may need. The song continues with the singer expressing how nervous he is about John, and how he misses him a lot. There is a mention of “two sets of headphones” which could be a reference to the time they spent together, emphasizing the friendship and the need to maintain contact.


In summary, “Friend of Mine” is a sombre and emotional song that captures the feeling of losing a close friend. The lyrics hint at the idea of one friend going through a tough time and the other friend feeling helpless and worried about what is happening. It is a poignant reminder of the importance of friendship and how crucial it is to maintain those valuable connections.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey, where the hell are you
Asking where the person is


You don't call me back, John
Complaining that they didn't respond


Won't you come here and stay with me
Inviting them to stay as a guest


Why don't you come here and stay with me
Repeating the invitation


Show up here loaded with bells on your toes
Suggesting the person come prepared to have fun


I don't care what you're into
Expressing acceptance of the person's interests


I'll put velvet ropes around you, if that's what you need
Willing to accommodate any needs for comfort


Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
Questioning the person's judgment and calling the other person untrustworthy


Oh, you gotta get out and get back to me
Urging the person to leave the other person's influence and return


Take his limousine, you gotta get back to me
Offering transportation to return


I'm getting nervous
Expressing anxiety


No sign of a friend of mine
Worrying that the person hasn't arrived yet


Red hair and blue eyes
Providing a descriptive detail to identify the person


I was in a train under a river when I remembered what
Recalling a moment when he thought of something important to tell the person


What I wanted to tell you, man
Confirming that he has something important to say


I got two sets of headphones, I miss you like hell
Expressing strong longing and desire for the person's company


Why did you listen to that man, that man's a balloon
Repeating the questioning of judgment and calling the other person untrustworthy again


Fake a heart attack, you gotta get back to me
Offering an extreme suggestion to get the person's attention and return


John, you gotta get out and get back to me
Urging the person to leave the other person's influence and return again




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Written by: AARON B. DESSNER, MATTHEW D. BERNINGER

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