I Don't Mind
The Nelsons Lyrics


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I'd be the last one to tell you that you shouldn't go
And the first to say be happy if you can
But you lie and hurt someone who needs and loves you so
Do you mind too much if I don't understand

I suppose that you're convinced this is the thing to do
Life is short and sweet break all the hearts you can
I guess I shouldn't be surprised it's all a game to you
But do you mind too much if I don't understand

Forgive me but it all seems so unreal to me
And my heart and me we'd made so many plans
But that's all over now there's nothing left to do
But do you mind too much if I don't understand





Do you mind too much if I don't understand

Overall Meaning

The Nelsons’s song “I Don't Mind” speaks about a person who breaks the heart of someone they love. The singer is not against the idea of their loved one leaving if that is what they want, but they are troubled by the fact that their loved one cares so little about their feelings. The singer expresses their disbelief and hurt about the situation, questioning the motives and mindset of their loved one. The person who is leaving appears to be convinced that going away and breaking hearts is the right thing to do, but the singer cannot comprehend why someone would hurt the person who needs and loves them. The singer feels as though their hopes and dreams for the future have been shattered but accepts that the relationship is over.


The lyrics of “I Don't Mind” are a bittersweet reflection on the feelings of betrayal, heartbreak and confusion that come with the end of a relationship. The song conveys a sense of disappointment and loss but also shows a degree of acceptance that the relationship has come to its end.


Overall, “I Don't Mind” is a beautifully crafted song with an emotional depth that speaks to anyone who has been hurt by the sudden end of a relationship. The lyrics tell a story of love, loss, and resignation, and the melancholic melody captures the sadness and heartache that comes with the end of a significant relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I'd be the last one to tell you that you shouldn't go
I am not someone who would stop you from doing what you want.


And the first to say be happy if you can
I would always encourage you to pursue happiness.


But you lie and hurt someone who needs and loves you so
However, you have chosen to deceive and hurt someone who truly needs and loves you.


Do you mind too much if I don't understand
I am having trouble comprehending your actions, but I am not sure if you care.


I suppose that you're convinced this is the thing to do
I assume you are convinced that what you are doing is justified.


Life is short and sweet break all the hearts you can
You seem to believe that life is short, so you should break as many hearts as possible while you can.


I guess I shouldn't be surprised it's all a game to you
I am not shocked to learn that this is all just a game to you.


But do you mind too much if I don't understand
Despite my lack of understanding, I question if you even care about my opinion.


Forgive me but it all seems so unreal to me
I apologize, but everything you are doing seems fake and unbelievable to me.


And my heart and me we'd made so many plans
My heart and I had made so many plans, but now they mean nothing.


But that's all over now there's nothing left to do
Unfortunately, all of our plans are now meaningless since things have ended.


But do you mind too much if I don't understand
Amidst all of this, I still wonder if my opinion matters to you in the slightest.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: WILLIE NELSON

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Comments from YouTube:

@mtkoett1

This was a great band to watch live during my time at Texas Tech. My older brother told me about them and we actually had The Nelsons come to San Antonio to play our Senior Prom at Clark High School in 1987. Rest in peace Donnie, thanks for the great music! MTK

@LemonySnicket-EUC

RIP Donnie. You and your talents will be missed. Thanks for the memories and the opportunity to be on MTV with you guys. I will forever cherish the memories.

@Kivutar

You have no idea how many years I've looked for this song. Thank you so much for posting it, it was one of my favorites when I was a kid. :)

@friskevision

Kivutar Kisat sake here!

@AmericanInExile1967

I just remembered these guys from when I lived in El Paso.

@susannahsears3041

I don't mind that I am the only person I know who remembers this awesome song. Well, I might mind a little... :)

@unknown6390

This is fantastic! Texas New Wave

@Absurdist1968

Oh, Jeez, now I really feel every minute of fifty years old. 👏👏

Of course, I went to Lubbock High and this was shot at Monterey, but hey, I don't mind...

@MsJamiewoods

This video actually got considerable play in music video themed dance clubs in the mid 1980s. It was played a lot at the Skyline Video Nightclub in Appleton, Wis.  I frequented that place a lot on Friday and Saturday nights.

@cu89red82

Exactly - Skyline - was an absolute classic and guaranteed good time every time. Loved that place ...

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