The Way You Are
The Northern Pikes Lyrics


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Hang on tight
The worst has yet begun
Crucified, crucified
For being who I'll always be
Who I'll always be, who I'll always be
It's just the way you are
It's just the way you are
Qualified, by broken dreams and fatal tragedies
Mystified, not stupified
By my shy and cordial company
So polite, I never thought the bastard lived in me
Nestled tight (nestled tight)
In the bosom of my misery
Of my misery, of my misery

I don't need this issue complicated by trust
Frank discussions haven't worked thus far
You denied my useless information
'Cause it's just the way you are
I love you, that's a given
False denials and endless palpatations
Have left me with just one cat to skin
I don't need this issue complicated by trust
Frank discussions haven't worked thus far
You denied my useless information




'Cause it's just the way you are
It's just the way that you are

Overall Meaning

The Northern Pikes’ song “The Way You Are” is a hauntingly beautiful track that delves into the complexity of human nature and how it can create intense emotional tension within relationships. The opening lines of “Hang on tight, the worst has yet begun” immediately set an ominous tone, hinting at the impending turbulence the singer is about to experience. The lyrics “crucified, crucified for being who I'll always be” suggest that the person is likely facing persecution for their true self, which they cannot change or suppress. The repetition of “It's just the way you are” throughout the song further emphasizes this idea; that some things are simply innate.


Line by Line Meaning

Hang on tight
Prepare yourself for what's to come


The worst has yet begun
Things are going to get even worse than what you've already experienced


Crucified, crucified
Feeling punished and judged, just like being on a cross


For being who I'll always be
Being punished for simply being oneself


Who I'll always be, who I'll always be
No matter what, I'll never change who I am


It's just the way you are
Accepting someone for who they are, flaws included


Qualified, by broken dreams and fatal tragedies
My experiences of broken dreams and tragedies have made me qualified to understand and empathize with others


Mystified, not stupified
I'm confused, but not stupid


By my shy and cordial company
My manner of being shy and polite around others


So polite, I never thought the bastard lived in me
I thought of myself as a very polite person, but I'm surprised to realize I'm capable of being mean


Nestled tight (nestled tight)
Feeling trapped and stuck in a difficult situation


In the bosom of my misery
Feeling comforted by my own misery


I don't need this issue complicated by trust
I don't need the added complication of wondering if I can trust someone in this situation


Frank discussions haven't worked thus far
Being open and honest about the issue hasn't helped solve it


You denied my useless information
You rejected my attempts to share my perspective and feelings about the issue


'Cause it's just the way you are
You're not going to change and I need to accept that


I love you, that's a given
I care about you deeply, that's a given


False denials and endless palpitations
Lying to oneself and feeling intense anxiety and unease


Have left me with just one cat to skin
I'm left with only one possible solution to fix the issue




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