Don't Wanna Know
The Pietasters Lyrics


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I don't wanna know where you spend the night.
Cause if I was to know, then baby I just might.
Find your little friend, and tell him who I am.
and tell him where I'm from
And then he'd understand.

i'm known to be possessive
And some might say obsessive.
A little bit aggressive,
And I don't wanna know.
Cause If I ever meet him
I might just have to beat him.
Cause that's the way I treat them.
And I don't wanna know.
. . .
My rage, it seems to grow. My lips and I'll be {?}
And for some reason I can't let you go your way.
Try as I might. Can't get it through my head.
Can't believe he sleeps on my side of your bed.

i'm known to be possessive
And some might say obsessive.
A little bit aggressive,
And I don't wanna know.
Cause If I ever meet him
I might just have to beat him.
Cause that's the way I treat them.
And I don't wanna know.
. . .
(trombone solo)
(sax solo)
(trumpet solo)

i'm known to be possessive
And some might say obsessive.
A little bit aggressive,
And I don't wanna know.
Cause If I ever meet him
I might just have to beat him.
Cause that's the way I treat them.
And I don't wanna know.
. . .

i'm known to be possessive
And some might say obsessive.
A little bit aggressive,
And I don't wanna know.





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Overall Meaning

The Pietasters's song, Don't Wanna Know, is about possessiveness and jealousy in a relationship, specifically about a partner who suspects their significant other of cheating. The lyrics depict the singer's internal struggle with wanting to know if their partner is being unfaithful and needing to confront the situation, but also not wanting to know the truth because it might push them to a violent reaction. The singer's possessiveness, obsession, and aggressiveness are emphasized throughout the song as they contemplate the possibility of finding out where their partner spends the night and confronting their partner's lover.


The lines "My rage, it seems to grow. My lips and I'll be {?} And for some reason I can't let you go your way" convey the escalating emotions and irrationality the singer feels in response to the potential cheating. The last line "Can't believe he sleeps on my side of your bed" underscores the betrayal and the violation of the sanctity of their relationship. The song's ending reiterates the singer's reluctance to know of their partner's infidelity and the consequences that come with it.


Overall, the song is a powerful depiction of the dangers of possessiveness and jealousy in a relationship and how it can lead to irrational and violent behavior.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't wanna know where you spend the night.
If I knew where you spent the night, I might become jealous and take action against the person you spent time with.


Cause if I was to know, then baby I just might.
Knowing where you slept might trigger my emotions and lead me to confront the person you're with.


Find your little friend, and tell him who I am.
If I find out who you're spending the night with, I would confront them and let them know who I am.


and tell him where I'm from
I would let the person know my origin or background as a warning.


And then he'd understand.
By letting him know who I am, he would know not to interfere with my relationship with you.


I'm known to be possessive
I have a reputation for being possessive and jealous.


And some might say obsessive.
Some people may describe my feelings towards you as an obsession.


A little bit aggressive,
I tend to be aggressive when it comes to my relationships and protecting my partner.


Cause If I ever meet him
If I ever come across the person you're spending the night with,


I might just have to beat him.
I might resort to physical violence as a result of my emotions and anger.


Cause that's the way I treat them.
This is how I tend to handle situations involving the people you spend time with, with physical aggression.


My rage, it seems to grow. My lips and I'll be {?}.
My anger continues to increase, and I might say something that I'll regret later.


And for some reason I can't let you go your way.
Even though I might not have control over you, I feel a need to control your actions and relationships.


Try as I might. Can't get it through my head.
I can't seem to shake off these feelings of possessiveness and jealousy, no matter how hard I try.


Can't believe he sleeps on my side of your bed.
The thought of someone else sleeping in your bed, especially on my side, keeps fueling my anger and jealousy.




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on Set Me Up

The song is about former DC mayor, Marion Barry.

On January 18, 1990, Barry was arrested with a former girlfriend, Hazel Diane Moore, in a sting operation at the Vista International Hotel by the FBI and D.C. police for crack cocaine use and possession. Moore was an FBI informant when she invited Barry to the hotel room and insisted that he smoke freebase cocaine before they had sex, while agents in another room watched on camera, waiting for Barry to accept her offer. During the videotaped arrest, Barry says of Moore, "Bitch set me up.”

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