Real Woman
The Roots and Betty Wright Lyrics

This song goes out to all my nephews, sons And lil' cousins, you know who you are Mm, try to tell you what to look out for Y'know I got your back
The Roots and Betty Wright are dedicating this song to their family members and are advising them to be aware of the type of women they associate with because they care about them.

Get yourself a real woman So you can be a real man It's time to stop playing with girls! You need a woman who will understand
The chorus is emphasizing the importance of finding a mature, understanding partner instead of playing games with young, immature girls.

There was a time when I was, wildin' out Hangin' with the crowd, talkin' way too loud When I think back to my, younger days And my, crazy ways that was, just a phase Now I don't wanna give you, wrong advice But you, got one life you can't, live it twice So when you choosing you just, take your time Ele-vate your mind, good you're, gonna find
The singer acknowledges that they were once wild and impulsive, but now know better. They point out that life is precious and you shouldn't waste it with the wrong people. They encourage listeners to take things slow and keep an open mind to find the right person.

You might be stackin' money, mountain high So they're, gonna try, try to, catch your eye But all that glitters boy you, know ain't gold Some would, sell their soul, they're out, of control And I'm ain't sayin' that they're, all the same But they, all got game I won't, call no names So take my word I wouldn't lie to you 'cause I love you nephew, here's what you gotta do!
The artist warns that some people will only be interested in their partner because of their money but it's essential to recognize that looks can be deceiving. They assure the listener that not all women are the same and the most important thing is to trust their word because they have their best interests in mind.

I, know what you need (You need a woman who will) I, know what you need (You need a woman who will) When you get tired of playing in the sand box Want a woman who'll love you a whole lot You need, you need, you need - you need a woman who will Snoop!
The artist knows that the listener needs a woman who will love them unconditionally instead of treating relationships like a game. Snoop Dogg chimes in to emphasize this point further.

(No Pain, No Gain), this life the same thang Been playin' so many games, gotta find a slow dame Sooner or later, no later, 'cause when he finally date her He'll love her or either hate her, regroup or re'bilitate her These are some real fly words from the wise one I got my wife in my life, 'cause she's the right one Better know it, better show it, every time I step in A real woman make a real man, and this is definite Yeah
The singer acknowledges that life can be difficult, but finding a wise partner that compliments their own qualities is essential. They refer to their wife as an example of the right kind of woman for them and confirm that it's necessary to respect a real woman for being an essential part of helping someone become a real man.

Yeah, some of y'all just triflin'! Do anything for a little bling bling All of the green and gold diggin', yeah That's how you make yo' dealin' To all my daughters, the nieces, and my lil' cousins You know I ain't leavin' you out 'cause I know some of y'all be tryin the best you can But listen to this:
The singer comments on the harsh reality that some people only care about money and will manipulate or deceive others to attain it. The singer speaks to the female family members and urges them to do their best but also to be cautious while they're looking for a partner

If you be a real woman, then you can get a real man I'm talkin' to you little girls Tell me do you understand? If you be a real woman, then you can get a real man I'm talkin' to you little girls! Tell me do you understand? Tell me do you understand? Tell-tell me do you understand?
The final chorus aims to empower young girls by stating that if they mature and become real women, they will eventually find real men who want the same things in life. The repetition of the question 'Do you understand?' reinforces the artist's belief that they need to be a good role model for future generations.