Mannenlied
The Scene Lyrics


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kom vriend laat mij hier niet alleen
wij kunnen ware woorden spreken
wij kunnen uit onszelf breken
samen zijn we iedereen

sluimerend in 't duister onbegrepen
vertwijfeld en verketterd en verwenst
in dit licht de ogen dichtgeknepen
schuilt niet in elk van ons een mens

mannen zullen mannen zijn
onder vuur en in het duister
waar het woord van liefde wordt gefluisterd
want samen zijn we niet alleen

sluimerend in 't duister onbegrepen
vertwijfeld en verketterd en verwenst




in dit licht de ogen dichtgeknepen
schuilt niet in elk van ons een mens

Overall Meaning

The Scene's song Mannenlied is a powerful reflection on the need for human connection and the vulnerability and complexity of masculinity. The opening line, "kom vriend laat mij hier niet alleen" (come friend don't leave me alone here), sets the tone for the song's urgent plea for male companionship and emotional support. The lyrics speak to the isolation and confusion that many men feel, particularly in times of crisis or emotional turmoil. The line "wij kunnen uit onszelf breken" (we can break out of ourselves) suggests the potential for growth and transformation that can come from honest and vulnerable communication with other men.


The chorus, "mannen zullen mannen zijn" (men will be men), is both an acknowledgement of the flaws and limitations of masculinity, as well as a call to resist toxic masculinity and embrace the power of love and connection. The line "waar het woord van liefde wordt gefluisterd" (where the word of love is whispered) suggests that true strength and resilience come from expressing vulnerability and emotions in a supportive community.


The song's repetition of the line "schuilt niet in elk van ons een mens" (doesn't a man exist in each of us) underscores the universality of the human experience and the need for empathy and understanding. The Scene's Mannenlied is a powerful reminder that men can and should rely on each other for support, and that vulnerability and emotional expression are not signs of weakness, but rather of strength and authenticity.


Line by Line Meaning

kom vriend laat mij hier niet alleen
Do not leave me here all by myself, my friend, stay with me while we share honest words and break free from our limitations, for together we are everyone.


wij kunnen ware woorden spreken
We have the ability to speak the truth without fear or hesitation because we have each other's support.


wij kunnen uit onszelf breken
We can break out of our own limitations and reach for our full potential by coming together and supporting one another.


samen zijn we iedereen
We are everyone when we come together and create a community that supports and understands one another.


sluimerend in 't duister onbegrepen
Often misunderstood and ignored as we quietly exist in the darkness of our own thoughts and emotions.


vertwijfeld en verketterd en verwenst
Feeling doubtful, condemned, and bitterly cursed by the world around us for expressing who we truly are.


in dit licht de ogen dichtgeknepen
Despite being in the light, we shut our eyes to the world around us because of the fear of judgment and rejection.


schuilt niet in elk van ons een mens
But deep down, every individual, regardless of their outer appearance, is a human being with desires, emotions, and experiences that shape their existence.


mannen zullen mannen zijn
No matter the circumstance or situation, men will always act like men and maintain their identity and demeanor.


onder vuur en in het duister
Facing adversity and challenges, both physically and mentally, while attempting to navigate through the darkness of uncertainty and insecurity.


waar het woord van liefde wordt gefluisterd
Finding comfort in expressing love, care, and affection towards one another, even in a world full of hatred and animosity.


want samen zijn we niet alleen
Because when we join together, we are reminded that we are not alone in the struggle and that we can rely on each other for support and understanding.




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