Falling In Love
The Seeds Lyrics


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Despair and deception
Love's ugly little twins
Came a-knocking on my door
I let 'em in
Darling, you're the punishment
For all my former sins

I let love in
I let love in

The door it opened just a crack
But love was shrewd and bold
My life flashed before my eyes
It was a horror to behold
A life-sentence sweeping confetti
From the floor of a concrete hole

I let love in
I let love in

I let love in
I let love in

Well, I've been bound and gagged
And I've been terrorized
And I've been castrated
And I've been lobotomized
But never has my tormentor
Come in such a cunning disguise

I let love in
I let love in

I let love in
I let love in

Oh Lord, tell me what I done
Please don't leave me here all alone
Where are my friends?
My friends are gone

Oh Lord, tell me what I done
Please don't leave me here all alone
Where are my friends?
My friends are gone

I let love in
I let love in

So if you're sitting all alone
And hear a-knocking at your door
And the air is full of promises
Well buddy, you've been warned
Far worse to be love's lover
Than the lover that love has scorned

I let love in
I let love in

I let love in
I let love in

I let love in
I let love in





I let love in
I let love in

Overall Meaning

The Seeds' "Falling in Love" is a dark and melancholic reflection on the consequences of letting love into one's life. The lyrics portray love as a punishing force that brings despair and deception, leading the singer to question his own choices and suffer the consequences of his past sins. The first verse sets the tone for the song, with the singer describing how love's "ugly little twins" came knocking on his door, and he let them in, only to later realize the terrible mistake he made. The chorus repeats the refrain "I let love in" as a sort of admission of guilt or regret, while the second verse paints a bleak picture of the singer's life flashing before his eyes as he realizes the horror of his situation.


The song's bridge takes an even darker turn, with the singer describing how he has been bound, gagged, terrorized, castrated, and lobotomized, all by his own tormentor, love. The lyrics suggest that love can be a cunning and deceptive force that can take on different disguises and inflict unimaginable pain on those who fall under its spell. The final verse is a plea for help, as the singer asks the Lord to explain what he's done wrong and laments the loss of his friends, who seem to have abandoned him in his moment of need. The song ends with a warning to listeners, suggesting that it's far worse to be love's lover than to be the one who is scorned by love.


Line by Line Meaning

Despair and deception
The feelings of hopelessness and dishonesty.


Love's ugly little twins
Despair and deception are the two negative aspects of love.


Came a-knocking on my door
Despair and deception were present in the writer's life.


I let 'em in
The writer allowed them to be a part of his life.


Darling, you're the punishment
The person he fell in love with is the result of the bad things he's done in the past.


For all my former sins
The bad things he's done in the past that led to the punishment of falling in love.


The door it opened just a crack
The writer was cautious about letting love into his life.


But love was shrewd and bold
Love was assertive and persistent in entering his life.


My life flashed before my eyes
The writer's past experiences and memories were brought to his attention.


It was a horror to behold
The memories were unpleasant and had a negative impact on his life.


A life-sentence sweeping confetti
His life is reduced to meaningless and mundane tasks.


From the floor of a concrete hole
His life feels confined and limiting.


Well, I've been bound and gagged
The writer has struggled with being controlled and silenced.


And I've been terrorized
He's endured fear and intimidation.


And I've been castrated
The writer has felt powerless and emasculated.


And I've been lobotomized
He's felt mentally and emotionally stifled.


But never has my tormentor
Despite these experiences, nothing has been as torturous as love.


Come in such a cunning disguise
Love was able to sneak up on him, deceiving him with its facade.


Oh Lord, tell me what I done
The writer is questioning why he deserves to go through this experience.


Please don't leave me here all alone
He's asking for help and support to get through this experience.


Where are my friends?
The writer has lost the support of those around him.


My friends are gone
The writer feels abandoned and isolated by his friends.


So if you're sitting all alone
The writer is warning others about the dangers of experiencing love.


And hear a-knocking at your door
Be wary of love entering your life.


And the air is full of promises
Love disguises itself as something that will bring happiness and fulfillment.


Well buddy, you've been warned
Be cautious of love and its potential consequences.


Far worse to be love's lover
It's more painful to be the one who loves than the one who is rejected.


Than the lover that love has scorned
Being rejected by someone you love is not as painful as loving someone who doesn't love you back.




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Written by: Nicholas Cave

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Cher James

love the swing sound of this song. and then the Seeds backing it up with their sound.

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