It Didn
The Style Council Lyrics


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I remember all the early days
Trying to think of the right things to say
I didn't want you to think I was like the rest
Who think they own you just because you've laid with them
It didn't matter, really didn't matter
It didn't matter now we are together

There are crystal hearts just waiting to be smashed
And out to break them are the ones who never last
To soon today and gone tomorrow
And taking with them just another little piece of you

There are those who think its smart
Thinking that they've stole your love and broke your heart




Too much too soon and gone tomorrow
Well my love doesn't need to lend or steal or borrow

Overall Meaning

The Style Council's song "It Didn't Matter" is a reflection on the early days of a relationship. The singer reminisces on his attempts to impress and communicate with his love interest, hoping to differentiate himself from those who only see her as something to possess. He acknowledges the danger of falling for someone who may not intend to stay and the potential damage to one's heart that can result. However, he reassures his lover that his love is genuine and does not require manipulation or false promises.


The song's lyrics demonstrate a level of maturity and understanding about love and relationships that is often lacking in popular music. Instead of glorifying the intensity of emotions in a young relationship, the singer recognizes the fragility of the heart and the importance of treating one's partner with respect and honesty. The refrain, "It didn't matter, really didn't matter, it didn't matter now we are together," emphasizes that the initial insecurities and mistakes made in the early days of a relationship are inconsequential if both parties are committed to each other.


Line by Line Meaning

I remember all the early days
Reflecting on the beginning of our relationship


Trying to think of the right things to say
Attempting to find the perfect words to express my feelings


I didn't want you to think I was like the rest
Desiring to differentiate myself from past lovers


Who think they own you just because you've laid with them
Believing they have control over you due to physical intimacy


It didn't matter, really didn't matter
Realizing that those thoughts of the past are irrelevant now


It didn't matter now we are together
Understanding that our union is what truly matters


There are crystal hearts just waiting to be smashed
Acknowledging the fragility of love and the possibility of it being destroyed


And out to break them are the ones who never last
Those who fail to maintain relationships often contribute to hearts being broken


To soon today and gone tomorrow
Rapidly entering and leaving relationships


And taking with them just another little piece of you
Taking a part of the heart with them as they depart


There are those who think its smart
Individuals who believe that they are clever


Thinking that they've stole your love and broke your heart
Assuming that they have taken away affection and caused emotional pain


Too much too soon and gone tomorrow
Jumping into a relationship too quickly and ending it abruptly


Well my love doesn't need to lend or steal or borrow
My affection doesn't require manipulation or deception




Lyrics © BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: MICK TALBOT, PAUL JOHN WELLER

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