Love Me Love Me Not
The Sylvers Lyrics


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I wasn't jealous before we met
Now every woman I see is a potential threat
And I'm possessive, it isn't nice
You've heard me saying that smoking was my only vice
But now it isn't true
Now everything is new
And all I've learned has overturned
I beg of you

Don't go wasting your emotion
Lay all your love on me

(Don't go sharing your devotion)

It was like shooting a sitting duck
A little smalltalk, a smile and baby I was stuck
I still don't know what you've done with me
A grown-up woman should never fall so easily
I feel a kind of fear
When I don't have you near
Unsatisfied, I skip my pride
I beg you dear

Don't go wasting your emotion
Lay all your love on me
Don't go sharing your devotion
Lay all your love on me

I've had a few little love affairs
They didn't last very long and they've been pretty scarce
I used to think I was sensible
It makes the truth even more incomprehensible
'Cause everything is new
And everything is you
And all I've learned has overturned
What can I do

Don't go wasting your emotion
Lay all your love on me




Don't go sharing your devotion
Lay all your love on me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Sylvers' "Love Me Love Me Not" paint a picture of a person who has fallen deeply in love with someone and realizes that they have become possessive and jealous. The song opens with the admission, "I wasn't jealous before we met, now every woman I see is a potential threat." The singer acknowledges that their behavior is not nice, saying, "And I'm possessive, it isn't nice."


The chorus of the song is a plea for the other person to lay all of their love on them and not waste their emotion or share their devotion. The singer has been hurt in the past, as evidenced by the lines, "I've had a few little love affairs. They didn't last very long and they've been pretty scarce." But they have never felt like this before, saying, "Everything is new, and everything is you, and all I've learned has overturned, what can I do."


Overall, the lyrics convey a sense of vulnerability and desperation for love, and the fear of losing the person who has become so important to them. The chorus serves as a reminder of what the singer truly wants - to be loved completely and unconditionally.


Line by Line Meaning

I wasn't jealous before we met
Before I met you, jealousy wasn't something I felt.


Now every woman I see is a potential threat
But now that you're in my life, every woman I see makes me feel threatened that I might lose you.


And I'm possessive, it isn't nice
My insecurities make me possessive over you, which isn't a good trait to have in a relationship.


You've heard me saying that smoking was my only vice
I used to say that smoking was the only thing I did that was bad.


But now it isn't true
But that's not the case anymore.


Now everything is new
My life feels completely different now that you're in it.


And all I've learned has overturned
Everything that I thought I knew about myself and love has changed since I met you.


I beg of you
Please listen to what I have to say.


Don't go wasting your emotion
Please don't waste your emotions on someone else.


Lay all your love on me
Please give me all your love instead.


(Don't go sharing your devotion)
(Please don't share your love with anyone else.)


It was like shooting a sitting duck
Falling in love with you was too easy, like shooting a sitting duck (an easy target).


A little smalltalk, a smile and baby I was stuck
All it took was some small talk and a smile from you, and I was hooked on you.


I still don't know what you've done with me
I feel like my emotions are out of my control and that you have power over me.


A grown-up woman should never fall so easily
I feel like a mature woman like me shouldn't have fallen for someone so easily.


I feel a kind of fear
Without you, I feel afraid and unsure of myself.


When I don't have you near
When you're not around me, I feel lost and scared.


Unsatisfied, I skip my pride
I'm not satisfied with just pride, so I'm willing to put it aside in order to keep you.


I beg you dear
I'm begging you, my love.


I've had a few little love affairs
I've had a few romantic flings in the past.


They didn't last very long and they've been pretty scarce
However, they were short-lived and infrequent.


I used to think I was sensible
I used to believe that I was a sensible, rational person.


It makes the truth even more incomprehensible
Which makes the fact that I fell so deeply in love with you even harder to understand.


What can I do
I feel like I'm powerless to control my feelings for you.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Benny Goran Bror Andersson, Bjoern K. Ulvaeus

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