So Hard Done By
The Tragically Hip Lyrics


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Interesting and sophisticated
Refusing to be celebrated
It's a monumental big screen kiss
It's so deep, it's meaningless

One day you'll just up and quit
Then that'll be it
Just then the stripper stopped in a coughing fit
She said, "sorry, I can't go on with this"

Yeah, that's awful close
But that's not why
I'm so hard done by

It was true cinéma à clef
You should see it before there's nothing left
In an epic too small to be tragic
You'll have to wait a minute
'Cause it's an Instamatic

Yeah, that's awful close
But that's not why
I'm so hard done by

Just then the room became more dimly lit
As the MC carried on with it
And now that I've got you all strangely compelled
I'm afraid Candy's not feeling well





Close, but that's not why
I'm so hard done by

Overall Meaning

The Tragically Hip's "So Hard Done By" is a complex and evocative song that explores themes of fame and the human desire for recognition. The lyrics are sophisticated and layered, and they offer an intriguing commentary on celebrity culture and the way that people are often expected to perform for the entertainment of others. The song begins by describing a "monumental big screen kiss" that is so deep that it becomes meaningless; this is a reference to the way that Hollywood and other media often fetishize love and romanticism in a way that is not reflective of real life.


The next verse introduces a stripper who is unable to continue with her performance due to a coughing fit. This is a powerful moment in the song, as it shows how people are expected to continue performing even when they are not feeling their best. The singer is "so hard done by" because he is tired of living in a world where people are expected to put on a show all the time. The song then becomes even more complex as it introduces the concept of "cinéma à clef," which refers to a movie or book that is based on real-life events but has had the names and details changed in order to protect the privacy of the people involved.


The lyrics of "So Hard Done By" are deeply layered and full of meaning, and they offer a complex commentary on fame, performance, and the way that people are often pressured to be something that they are not. The song is an evocative and powerful work of art that will resonate with anyone who has struggled to find their place in a world that often seems superficial and unfair.


Line by Line Meaning

Interesting and sophisticated
The situation being discussed is captivating and refined


Refusing to be celebrated
This scenario doesn't want to be acknowledged


It's a monumental big screen kiss
It's a massive, dramatic kiss you would see in a movie


It's so deep, it's meaningless
It's so intense that it's void of significance


One day you'll just up and quit
At some point, you'll simply abandon it


Then that'll be it
Once you go, it's over


Just then the stripper stopped in a coughing fit
At that moment, the exotic dancer began to cough uncontrollably


She said, "sorry, I can't go on with this"
The stripper apologized and stated that she couldn't proceed


Yeah, that's awful close
Almost related


But that's not why
It's not the reason


I'm so hard done by
I feel like I've been treated unfairly


It was true cinéma à clef
The portrayal was an accurate representation of events


You should see it before there's nothing left
Witness it now, or you'll never get the chance


In an epic too small to be tragic
The story is too grand to be considered sad


You'll have to wait a minute
Patience is required


'Cause it's an Instamatic
Because it's over in an instant


Just then the room became more dimly lit
At that precise point, the surroundings grew darker


As the MC carried on with it
While the Master of Ceremonies continued the event


And now that I've got you all strangely compelled
Now that everyone is oddly intrigued


I'm afraid Candy's not feeling well
Unfortunately, Candy isn't feeling good currently


Close, but that's not why
Nearby, still not the reason


I'm so hard done by
I'm feeling very disappointed or disenfranchised




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Gordon Downie, Gordon Sinclair, Johnny Fay, Paul Langlois, Robert Baker

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@sharonwisermessage2959

THE TRAGICALLY HIP LYRICS
"So Hard Done By"

Interesting and sophisticated
Refusing to be celebrated
It's a monumental big screen kiss
It's so deep it's meaningless

One day you'll just up and quit
And that'll be it
Just then the stripper stopped in a coughing fit
She said, "Sorry, I can't go on with this"

Yeah, that's awful close but that's not why
I'm so hard done by

It was true cinema-a-clef
You should see it before there's nothing left
In an epic too small to be tragic
You'll have to wait a minute 'cause it's an instamatic

Yeah, that's awful close but that's not why
I'm so hard done by

Just then the room became more dimly lit
As the MC carried on with it
And now that I've got you all strangely compelled
I'm afraid Candy's not feeling well

Close but that's not why
I'm so hard done by



All comments from YouTube:

@benposixtyniner

My cat, Marla, has been shedding more than normal this year. I'm so hard done by

@lorianne5330

😸

@Rahimo

One of the most slept-on Hip songs. Gotta love the griminess of this one.

@davidburke2453

if this is grimy I would want more grim.

@pwee507

Candy. The name of the stipper who wasn't feeling well

@slothythebadger7726

My most favorite song of all time

@Rahimo

This is how you write a song, kids.

@Michael-bz9gg

Yep, all arguments are shallow, and without substance,

@mrweeb0827

Don’t worry we’re taking notes

@WhitSomething

Gord was a poet who wrote of ttagedies

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