Hard to Say
The Used Lyrics


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The singer finished singing and she's walking out
The singer sheds a tear
Fear of falling out

And It's hard to say how I feel today
For years gone by
And I cried
It's hard to say that I was wrong
It's hard to say that I miss you
Since you've been gone it's not the same

My worries weigh the world
How I used to be and everything
(I'm so cold)
Seems a plague in me

And its hard to say how I feel today
For years gone by
And I cried

It's hard to say that I was wrong
It's hard to say I miss you
Since you've been gone its not the same
Its hard to say I held my tongue
It's hard to say if only
Since you've been gone it's not the same

Worse than a lie you told a thousand times before
Worse than a fear it's the knife
And its hard to say how I feel today for years gone by and I cried
Its hard to say that I was wrong
It's hard to say I miss you
Since you've been gone it's not the same
It's hard to say I held my tongue




It's hard to say if only
Since you've been gone its not the same.

Overall Meaning

The song "Hard to Say" by The Used portrays the aftermath of a painful breakup. The song begins with a description of how the singer sees the girl he once loved, walking out after their final song. As he sings, he sheds a tear and fears that he will fall apart. Then the chorus kicks in, and the singer conveys how difficult it is to express his feelings, even though he has cried for years since the breakup. He repeatedly emphasizes the difficulty of admitting that he was wrong, misses his significant other, and held his tongue. It becomes clear that he regrets what he had done that caused the relationship to end.


In the second verse, the singer talks about how the pain has affected him. He feels weighed down by his worries and mourns the loss of how he used to be. The line "I'm so cold" implies that he is feeling empty and numb because of his grief, and he seems to be struggling to overcome his sadness. In the final part of the song, the singer points out that the pain of the breakup is worse than any lie that his ex-partner may have told him before. He is left with a sharp sense of loss and heartache.


Overall, "Hard to Say" is a raw and emotional song that showcases the difficulty of dealing with heartbreak. It portrays the complexity of the situation, the feelings of guilt, regret, and sorrow that may linger on long after the event.


Line by Line Meaning

The singer finished singing and she's walking out
The performance ended and the singer is leaving the stage


The singer sheds a tear
The singer is crying


Fear of falling out
A fear of losing someone/ being abandoned


And It's hard to say how I feel today
I'm having trouble expressing my emotions


For years gone by
It has been a long time


And I cried
I am feeling sad


It's hard to say that I was wrong
Admitting fault is difficult


It's hard to say that I miss you
Expressing feelings of nostalgia is challenging


Since you've been gone it's not the same
Things have changed in your absence


My worries weigh the world
My anxieties are overwhelming


How I used to be and everything
Reflecting on the past and all that has changed


(I'm so cold)
I am feeling emotionally distant


Seems a plague in me
My negative feelings are consuming me


It's hard to say I held my tongue
Keeping quiet about something is challenging


It's hard to say if only
Thinking about what could have been is difficult


Worse than a lie you told a thousand times before
Something hurts more than being lied to repeatedly


Worse than a fear it's the knife
Something is more painful than being afraid




Lyrics © THE BEST MUSIC COMPANY, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: QUINN ALLMAN, JEPH HOWARD, ROBERT MCCRACKEN, BRANDEN STEINECKERT

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