What's The Matter Baby
Them Lyrics


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I know the reason you′ve been cryin'
And I heard she won′t be needin' you
How does it feel, bein' the one left behind
(What′s the matter baby) What′s the matter baby, is she hurtin' you?

And I heard you found out she′s been cheatin'
Oh yeah and I heard she even felt that she was untrue
Well how does it feel being on the outside lookin′ in
(What's the matter baby) What′s the matter baby, is she hurtin' you?

What's the matter baby, is she hurtin′ you?
What′s the matter baby, is she hurtin' you?

Remember, remember when I needed you so bad
Remember, what you had to say
You told me to go, find another shoulder to cry on
You left, you left and then you walked away
I know, I know that you′ve been askin' about me
(What′s the matter baby) well I'm sorry baby but I′ve got somebody new
Whoa, whoa, whoa my hurt, my hurt, my hurt is just about over
Well let me tell you somethin' baby, it's just startin′ for you

What′s the matter baby, is she hurtin' you?
What′s the matter baby baby baby, that girl has she been hurtin' you?

What′s the matter baby?

(Spoken:)
What's the matter, uh?
Come on boy, you can tell me
Remember I′m a very good friend of yours
Yes and I know a little bit about pain




Does it hurt?...
Does it hurt, uh? What's the matter baby?...

Overall Meaning

The song "What's The Matter Baby" by Them is a soulful ballad about heartbreak and the pain of being left behind. The lyrics talk about the singer knowing the reason behind the listener's tears and how the person they loved has moved on. The singer questions if the person who left is hurting the listener, and how it feels to be on the outside looking in. In the second verse, the singer remembers the time when they needed the listener, but they were told to move on and find someone new. The song ends with the singer telling the listener that their hurt is just about over, while predicting that the listener's pain is only beginning.


The song explores the theme of heartbreak and loss, which is a common theme in music. The lyrics have a bluesy feel to them, which reinforces the sad and melancholic mood of the song. The singer's words suggest empathy and understanding towards the person who was left behind. The repetition of the question "What's the matter baby?" emphasizes the singer's concern and their attempt to comfort the listener. The song employs spoken word as well, which adds to the personal and intimate nature of the lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

I know the reason you’ve been cryin’
I am aware that you have been crying, and I understand why.


And I heard she won’t be needin’ you
I was informed that the girl you were seeing does not need you anymore.


How does it feel, bein’ the one left behind
What does it feel like to be the one who was left and not the one who ended the relationship?


(What’s the matter baby) What’s the matter baby, is she hurtin’ you?
What is the issue, my friend? Is she causing you emotional pain?


And I heard you found out she’s been cheatin’
I was informed that you discovered she was unfaithful to you.


Oh yeah and I heard she even felt that she was untrue
She herself even acknowledged that she was being unfaithful.


Well how does it feel being on the outside lookin’ in
What does it feel like to be an outsider looking into the situation?


(What’s the matter baby) What’s the matter baby, is she hurtin’ you?
What is the issue, my friend? Is she causing you emotional pain?


What’s the matter baby, is she hurtin’ you?
What is the matter, my friend? Is she causing you emotional distress?


Remember, remember when I needed you so bad
Recall the time when I was in great need of your company.


Remember, what you had to say
Remember the words you spoke to me during that time.


You told me to go, find another shoulder to cry on
You advised me to seek comfort from someone else.


You left, you left and then you walked away
You departed from my life and left me alone.


I know, I know that you’ve been askin’ about me
I am aware that you have inquired about my well-being.


(What’s the matter baby) well I’m sorry baby but I’ve got somebody new
I apologize, friend, but I am with someone else now.


Whoa, whoa, whoa my hurt, my hurt, my hurt is just about over
My emotional pain is almost gone.


Well let me tell you somethin’ baby, it’s just startin’ for you
But be warned, my friend, your emotional pain is just beginning.


What’s the matter baby, is she hurtin’ you?
What is the issue, my friend? Is she causing you emotional distress?


What’s the matter baby baby baby, that girl has she been hurtin’ you?
What is the issue, my friend? Is that girl causing you a great deal of emotional pain?


What’s the matter baby?
What is the issue, my friend?


(Spoken:) What’s the matter, uh? Come on boy, you can tell me. Remember I’m a very good friend of yours. Yes, and I know a little bit about pain. Does it hurt?… Does it hurt, uh? What’s the matter baby?...
What is the matter? You can confide in me. Remember that I am a good friend and I have experienced pain similar to yours. Are you hurting? What's the matter, my friend?




Writer(s): Clyde Lovern Otis, Joy Byers

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