Kasher has a very close relationship with Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes. They grew up in Nebraska together, went to the same Catholic high school, Creighton Prep. It is rumored that Tim taught Oberst to play guitar. In the Bright Eyes song, "Nothing Gets Crossed Out" Oberst sings, "yeah Tim I heard your album and it's better than good. When you get off tour I think we should hang and black out together." (referring to the album Black Out by The Good Life, released in 2002 on Saddle Creek Records.) Furthermore, Oberst later sang backup on the song "Staying Alive," from Cursive's 2003 effort The Ugly Organ.
Kasher temporarily disbanded Cursive after the departure of guitarist Steve Pedersen (who left to pursue a law degree at Duke University. He now leads the Saddle Creek band Criteria). He married and moved to Portland, Oregon. According to interviews, Kasher went through a bitter divorce in 2000, which led to the regrouping of Cursive, as well as providing the inspiration for The Good Life album Black Out, and Cursive's Domestica.
The Good Life was originally planned to be a solo project. Kasher wanted to experiment with different types of lyrics and melodies. He released Novena on a Nocturn on Better Looking Records. He then recruited Ryan Fox, Roger Lewis and Stephanie Drootin into the band and released Black Out, Lovers Need Lawyers EP and Album of the Year.
Kasher created a another record with Cursive which was released in August 2006, entitled Happy Hollow. In 2009, Cursive released their latest effort, 'Mama, I'm Swollen'. The Good Life, despite a near breakup in late 2005, returned to the studio to release the album, 'Help Wanted Nights' in September 2007.
Under his own name, Tim Kasher recorded a song called "Stranger Than Strangers" which was released on a compilation CD called "My Favorite Songwriters." He released the solo album 'The Game of Monogamy' in 2010, and a follow-up disc of songs from that session called 'Bigamy', in 2011.
Strays
Tim Kasher Lyrics
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To prove to you I do
It shouldn't be too hard to write
I'll just think of that time I first met you in Omaha
You were stranded on Jackson with a bus fare to who knows where
I took you in right then and there
And life took on a new form
No more staying out all night
No more killing ourselves just to make ourselves feel alright
No more sleeping with strangers and those awkward goodbyes
I've never had much family never had too many friends
Then you came wandering through
And pompously I took you for granted
That's why I gotta write this little, this little love song for you
I'll sing about those Denver mornings you'd wake up bawling about a long lost kid
Your maternal instincts were kicking in
As the sun dazzled bright above the peaks
You brought home a dog you found in the alley
You said "Can't we keep her?"
I said "What kinda man would I be?"
So you bought her a collar and called her family
Writers are selfish
Writers are egotists
I'm afraid I'm as bad as it gets
I keep forgetting to censor the truth
That why I better write some kinda, some kinda love song for you
I'm driving cross country in a U-Haul
On the hunt for our new home
High atop Eagle Rock
We found a house with a big backyard
So we picked up yet another mutt
From the Crenshaw pound
Sipping coffee on the porch while the dogs wrestle on the lawn
I'm sorry I've had my doubts
We're a family of strays but together we've been found
We're a family of strays but together we've been found
Ahhh oohh ahhh oh oh
The song "Strays" by Tim Kasher is a personal ode to a loved one. The singer is reflecting on his relationship and how meeting this person changed his life. He contemplates writing a love song as a way to prove his love and gratitude for this person who has brought him stability and happiness. The lyrics speak to the transformative effect that love and companionship can have on a person's life.
The lyrics paint a vivid picture of moments in their shared past, such as the time they met in Omaha when the loved one was stranded with no destination in mind. The singer took them in and their life has been different ever since. They no longer engage in destructive habits, they form a home together and support each other through it all. The song highlights the power of human connection in shaping our lives.
Line by Line Meaning
I've been thinking I should write some kinda lovesong for you
The singer thinks that he should write a love song for his partner.
To prove to you I do
The singer wants to show his partner how much he loves them.
It shouldn't be too hard to write
The singer believes that it won't be difficult to write a love song.
I'll just think of that time I first met you in Omaha
The singer remembers the first time he met his partner in Omaha.
You were stranded on Jackson with a bus fare to who knows where
The singer's partner was stuck in Omaha, unsure where to go next.
I took you in right then and there
The singer took his partner in when they needed help.
And life took on a new form
The singer's life changed after meeting his partner.
No more staying out all night
The singer doesn't go out all night anymore.
No more killing ourselves just to make ourselves feel alright
The singer and his partner don't engage in self-destructive behavior anymore.
No more sleeping with strangers and those awkward goodbyes
The singer and his partner don't have one-night stands anymore.
I've never had much family never had too many friends
The singer didn't have much familial or social support before he met his partner.
Then you came wandering through
The singer's partner entered his life unexpectedly.
And pompously I took you for granted
The singer admits that he took his partner for granted in the past.
That's why I gotta write this little, this little love song for you
The singer wants to write a love song to make up for taking his partner for granted.
I'll sing about those Denver mornings you'd wake up bawling about a long lost kid
The singer recalls a time when his partner was upset about a lost child in Denver.
Your maternal instincts were kicking in
The singer's partner has strong maternal instincts.
As the sun dazzled bright above the peaks
The sun was shining brightly in Denver.
You brought home a dog you found in the alley
The singer's partner found a stray dog and brought it home.
You said 'Can't we keep her?'
The singer's partner wanted to keep the stray dog.
I said 'What kinda man would I be?'
The singer didn't want to keep the stray dog at first.
So you bought her a collar and called her family
The singer's partner kept the stray dog and made it part of the family.
Writers are selfish
The singer thinks that writers can be self-centered.
Writers are egotists
The singer believes that writers are often egotistical.
I'm afraid I'm as bad as it gets
The singer admits that he can be selfish and egotistical as a writer.
I keep forgetting to censor the truth
The singer sometimes forgets to be tactful when expressing his thoughts and feelings.
That's why I better write some kinda, some kinda love song for you
The singer wants to express his true feelings for his partner in a love song.
I'm driving cross country in a U-Haul
The singer is driving across the country in a U-Haul.
On the hunt for our new home
The singer and his partner are searching for a new place to live.
High atop Eagle Rock
The singer and his partner found a house on top of Eagle Rock.
We found a house with a big backyard
The singer and his partner found a house that they liked.
So we picked up yet another mutt
The singer and his partner adopted another stray dog.
From the Crenshaw pound
The singer and his partner adopted a dog from a shelter in Crenshaw.
Sipping coffee on the porch while the dogs wrestle on the lawn
The singer and his partner relax on the porch while their dogs play on the lawn.
I'm sorry I've had my doubts
The singer apologizes for doubting their relationship in the past.
We're a family of strays but together we've been found
The singer and his partner are a family of misfits who have found each other.
Ahhh oohh ahhh oh oh
These are nonspecific vocalizations and don't have a specific meaning.
Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Tim Kasher
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Gummo 6
I've been thinking I should write some kinda lovesong for you
To prove to you I do
It shouldn't be too hard to write
I'll just think of that time I first met you in Omaha
You were stranded on Jackson with a bus fare to who knows where
I took you in right then and there
And life took on a new form
No more staying out all night
No more killing ourselves just to make ourselves feel alright
No more sleeping with strangers and those awkward goodbyes
I've never had much family never had too many friends
Then you came wandering through
And pompously I took you for granted
That's why I gotta write this little, this little love song for you
I'll sing about those Denver mornings you'd wake up bawling about a long lost kid
Your maternal instincts were kicking in
As the sun dazzled bright above the peaks
You brought home a dog you found in the alley
You said "Can't we keep her?"
I said "What kinda man would I be?"
So you bought her a collar and called her family
Writers are selfish
Writers are egotists
I'm afraid I'm as bad as it gets
I keep forgetting to censor the truth
That why I better write some kinda, some kinda love song for you
I'm driving cross country in a U-Haul
On the hunt for our new home
High atop Eagle Rock
We found a house with a big backyard
So we picked up yet another mutt
From the Crenshaw pound
Sipping coffee on the porch while the dogs wrestle on the lawn
I'm sorry I've had my doubts
We're a family of strays but together we've been found
We're a family of strays but together we've been found
Ahhh oohh ahhh oh oh
Stephanie Smith
I love this song so much!
Laura J. Crawford
This video deserves way more views
Michael Piecuch
Wife and I got matching tattoos of the last line handwritten by Tim himself!
awesomemanspiff
a shame this only has only 700 views.
DCLXVI_89 gaming
awesomemanspiff not anymore
DCLXVI_89 gaming
Hey Ashley