Can We Start Again
Tindersticks Lyrics


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So many times
I said that I love them
Looking over my shoulder at the door
So many times
I can't live without her
The wheel kept turning round

My feeling's changed
I went my own way
What can I say
To make you stay?
'cause in my dreams
They smother all over me
And I'm trying to explain

So many arms
Reach from my memories

Pull all at once
I'm lost amongst
The folds in their skin
I did you wrong
But I'm sorry now
And I'll show you how
If you were here now
You couldn't change
You wouldn't understand
But I'm ready now I'm ready now
I'll make you proud I was your man

And sing a song
But it's so ugly now
And I'll show you how
'cause I'm ready now

I'm ready now
I'm ready now
I'm ready now
Hey I'm ready now
Can we start again?
So many times I said that I loved them

I'm ready now
But I'm ready now
Can we start again?
So many times
I can't live without her
The years was more than I could bear

It's turning round
But in my dreams
Can we start again?
They smother all over me I'm ready now
And I'm trying to explain
Can we start again?




So many arms reach from my memory
The wheels kept turning round

Overall Meaning

In Tindersticks’ song Can We Start Again?, the singer seems to be reflecting on his past relationships, particularly one with someone he truly loves but has lost. He acknowledges that he has hurt this person and has made mistakes, but despite that, he is still hoping they can start over. He speaks of the many times he said that he loves them but still looked over his shoulder at the door. He admits that he can’t live without her, but his feelings have changed, and he went his own way. Now, he wants to make things right, but he doubts that his apologies can make her stay.


As the song progresses, he delves deeper into his memories, describing how many arms reach from his memories, pulling him all at once, and he feels lost in the folds of their skin. But he also admits that he has done wrong and is sorry for it. He tells his lost love that he is ready now, ready to show her that he can make her proud. In the end, he repeats his call to start again, but this time, he also acknowledges that the years without her have been difficult to bear. Ultimately, the song is about regret, hope, and the desire to start anew.


Line by Line Meaning

So many times
Despite numerous attempts, I failed to adequately express my love.


Looking over my shoulder at the door
Constantly apprehensive and fearful of abandonment.


The wheel kept turning round
Continued to experience the same cycle of love and heartbreak.


My feeling's changed
My sentiments regarding this relationship have shifted.


I went my own way
I pursued my own interests outside of the relationship.


What can I say
I do not know what action or phrase will mend our bond.


To make you stay?
I desire to prevent you from leaving me.


'cause in my dreams
Even in the realm of sleep, I am consumed by thoughts of my past lover.


They smother all over me
My memories of my ex-partner are overwhelmingly intense.


So many arms
The many people that I have loved and lost.


Pull all at once
I am overwhelmed by a multitude of emotions from my past relationships.


I did you wrong
I was unfaithful, disloyal, or dishonest to my partner.


But I'm sorry now
I regret my past actions and desire forgiveness.


And I'll show you how
I am willing to take any action necessary to repair our relationship.


If you were here now
I want my ex-partner to be with me again.


You couldn't change
My past behavior is not something that we can undo.


You wouldn't understand
I don't think you could comprehend my current emotions and thought process.


But I'm ready now, I'm ready now
I have reached a point where I am willing to put effort into our relationship.


I'll make you proud I was your man
I intend to prove my worthiness as a partner and cherish the memory of our past together.


And sing a song
I want to express my love through music and art.


But it's so ugly now
Despite my best intentions, my efforts may not be beautiful or convincing.


Can we start again?
Is there any chance of a second attempt at a loving relationship?


The years was more than I could bear
The length of our relationship was too much to handle.


Can we start again?
Is there any possibility of salvaging our partnership?


The wheels kept turning round
The same cycle of love and heartbreak continues.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID BOULTER, DICKON JAMES HINCHLIFFE, STUART ASHTON STAPLES

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@judiking7153

The only tindersticks song you can dance to? Absolutely brilliant

@EllismaceOX

A classic..Thanks for the Upload.
Time fly's by

@brendan-ut3zc

This one went through my head for a few months!!.. some of the songs are so melancholy..hope that's the word.. they're a gorgeous mix of I'm not quite sure..but so glad I ve found them!

@marcuslavaggi-bowen6539

Good memories of this on Zane Lowe's MTV Brand:New show from back in the day!. First time today seeing this since then!, still remember the cinema scenes like it was yesterday.

@rooftopcat1785

the spotify feed turned me on to this song. Now im all in , have to have them all now.

@ragmancometh

holy crap where'd the 234 views come from? let's make it 1,234 this video is brilliant

@mehcol

classic. so many memories.

@ragmancometh

5 years and only 32 views? what

@epistemes

I know! So Sad not many people can enjoy this Gem !!

@alexjames4064

I think this video was hidden / unavailable for many years sadly

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