She
Tindersticks Lyrics


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She's gone
And it's quiet now
Took her mother with her

Left town
Took her mother's eye
Stole her mother's heart
It's a compromise

We nurture that part and she's gone
Says she can walk now
Says she can walk now
Thinks she can walk

Seen her walking
She totters and falls
And when I'm not looking
Leans onto the wall
And she'll hold on to me only when she wants
And she'll fall and be up again
It's part of the fun

But she's gone
Thinks she can walk now
Thinks she can walk now
Thinks she can walk

She's gone
And it's quiet now
Took her mother with her
Left town
Took her mother's eye
Stole her mother's heart
It's a compromise

We nurture that part and she's gone
And it's quiet now




Took her mother with her
Left town

Overall Meaning

The song "She" by Tindersticks is a melancholic and understated track that explores the complex relationship between a mother and daughter. The lyrics describe the daughter's departure from their hometown, taking her mother's heart and eye with her as if sacrificial compensation. The mother is left behind to mourn the loss of her daughter and the pieces of her self that she took with her.


The song presents a metaphorical and literal interpretation of the daughter's departure. The references to walking in the lyrics suggest that she has not only left the town but also left behind her childhood dependency on her mother. The metaphorical interpretation could be that the daughter has grown up and moved on, and the mother is left to come to terms with the inevitable separation that comes with children becoming adults.


As the song progresses, the daughter's attempts to become independent are portrayed as a struggle. She totters and falls, leans on walls, and only holds on to her mother when she wants to. The mother's nurturing and reassurance is needed but only when the daughter allows it. The daughter is learning to stand on her own, and the mother is learning to let go.


Line by Line Meaning

She's gone
The woman being referred to is no longer present


And it's quiet now
The atmosphere is calm and peaceful without her


Took her mother with her
The woman took her mother along with her, likely due to a need for care or support


Left town
The woman moved away from her previous location


Took her mother's eye
The woman took her mother's ability to see, possibly indicating that her mother is blind or visually impaired


Stole her mother's heart
The woman took her mother's love and care with her


It's a compromise
The situation is not ideal, but both parties had to make sacrifices


We nurture that part and she's gone
The artist tried to help the woman and her mother, but they are now gone


Says she can walk now
The woman claims to be able to walk independently


Says she can walk now
The woman insists that she can walk on her own


Thinks she can walk
The woman believes she has the ability to walk without assistance


Seen her walking
The artist has observed the woman attempting to walk


She totters and falls
The woman is unsteady and frequently loses her balance


And when I'm not looking
The singer is not always present to observe the woman's behavior


Leans onto the wall
The woman uses the wall for support when she is walking


And she'll hold on to me only when she wants
The woman does not always want or need the artist's assistance


And she'll fall and be up again
The woman frequently falls, but is determined to keep trying


It's part of the fun
The woman seems to enjoy the challenge of walking despite her difficulties


But she's gone
The woman and her mother are no longer present


Thinks she can walk now
The woman continues to believe that she can walk independently


Thinks she can walk now
The woman is convinced that she can walk without assistance


Thinks she can walk
The woman has a strong belief in her ability to walk unaided


And it's quiet now
The absence of the woman and her mother has created a peaceful, lonely environment


Took her mother with her
The woman took her mother along when she left


Left town
The woman and her mother moved away from their previous location


Took her mother's eye
The woman brought her mother's visual impairment with her when she left


Stole her mother's heart
The woman took her mother's love and affection with her when she left


It's a compromise
Both the woman and her mother had to give up something in order to leave


We nurture that part and she's gone
The artist made an effort to assist the woman and her mother, but they are now absent


And it's quiet now
The woman's departure has left a void in the singer's life


Took her mother with her
The woman did not leave her mother behind




Lyrics © THE BICYCLE MUSIC COMPANY
Written by: DAVID PEVERETT, RODERICK PRICE

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