Family
TobyMac Lyrics


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Arrows flying into silence
Broken pieces lying around where it went down
Water rising back to silence, quietly crying
Wondering how and look at us now
We thought our love would take the world by storm

Are we too far apart?
Two worlds among the stars
You're gonna take a piece of my heart
If you leave

So it's two separate ways
Or am I too late to say?
I wanna fight for what we got
'Cause I believe in family
In family

So are we still trying?
Or simply surviving?
We're facing these giants
The bigger they are, the harder they fall

But I still believe in
They dreams we've been dreaming
The hope that we build on
It's never too far, it's never too far
If we choose to turn and let these walls fall down

Are we too far apart?
Two worlds among the stars
You're gonna take a piece of my heart
If you leave

So it's two separate ways
Or am I too late to say?
I wanna fight for what we got
'Cause I believe in family
In family
In family!

I still believe
I still believe that we're not too far apart
Two worlds among the stars
Don't take a piece of my heart
Please, don't leave

It's not too late to say
Father, show us the way
To fight for what we got 'cause you believe in family
In family




In family
In family

Overall Meaning

The first stanza in TobyMac's "Family" exposes the aftermath of a relationship. The verses depict the brokenness and chaos that ensues after a romantic relationship is over. The line "Arrows flying into silence" is symbolic of the words spoken during the disorderly discussion. Two parties may "go their separate ways," but the words used still sting and pierce like an arrow. The image portrayed in the following line, "Broken pieces lying around where it went down," visualizes the tangible aspects of what remains after fighting. The relationship is now a fragment of what it used to be, and the couple is left with scraps to pick up.


Line by Line Meaning

Arrows flying into silence
Misunderstandings and arguments leading to a silent and tense atmosphere


Broken pieces lying around where it went down
Evidence of the aftermath of the conflict lying scattered around


Water rising back to silence, quietly crying
A sombre realization of the gravity of the situation


Wondering how and look at us now
In disbelief at how things have come to this


We thought our love would take the world by storm
The initial hope and confidence that their love would conquer all


Are we too far apart?
Fearing that they have drifted too far apart


Two worlds among the stars
Feeling like they come from completely different backgrounds and perspectives


You're gonna take a piece of my heart if you leave
Expressing the emotional trauma and pain that comes with a breakup


So it's two separate ways
Realizing that the relationship has reached a crossroads


Or am I too late to say?
Doubting whether efforts to save the relationship are too late


I wanna fight for what we got
Expressing the desire to put in the effort to save the relationship


'Cause I believe in family
Believing that the relationship is worth fighting for and can be fixed


We're facing these giants
Acknowledging the challenges and obstacles that they are up against


The bigger they are, the harder they fall
Believing that even the most difficult obstacles can be overcome with effort


They dreams we've been dreaming
The hopes and aspirations that they once shared and still can work towards


The hope that we build on
Building on the good aspects of the relationship to overcome the bad


It's never too far, it's never too far
Reassuring that even if the relationship has reached its breaking point, there's always a chance to fix it


If we choose to turn and let these walls fall down
Believing that overcoming the obstacles requires a conscious decision and effort to break down the barriers


Please, don't leave
A heartfelt plea to try and save the relationship


Father, show us the way
Calling upon a higher power to guide and help them through their struggles


In family
The importance of family and relationships in our lives




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Capitol CMG Publishing, Spirit Music Group
Written by: CARY RYAN BARLOWE, JAMES L. MOORE, TOBY MCKEEHAN

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@monicamontelongo4141

Many years ago my husband and I were separating I listened to this song and God gave me the strength to continue fighting for my marriage. God used this song to make me understand, that we have to put aside differences, it is worth fighting for the family. I thank God for this song and for having listened to it, today my husband and I have been married for 22 years !Glory to God!

@loraleiravenwood8175

Thank you for sharing your testimony sister🤗 God bless you both.

@danielcarroll1801

God bless your marriage. Hope you all are still doing well 2 years later. And God bless Toby Mac for bringing you back together. 😊

@vikkna5777

I'm 17, I got pregnant last year and now I have the most beautiful baby girl, she's 4 weeks old ❤ I shut the father out throughout my pregnancy but I let him back in even though we have a lot of issues but we listened to this song and i know God is going to help us work through this so we can be a family for our daughter

@Brainstormer_MC_and_more

Ok why did you get pregnant when you were 17?! That is way too young

@Royal-94

@@Brainstormer_MC_and_more there are things that happen man, we humans make mistakes and our mistakes have consequences

@Brainstormer_MC_and_more

@@Royal-94 if we assume the father is 18+,
And if we assume they weren't married did that would be messed up and father should be keeping the child without any help.

@chanukahsingersforyahuwah7104

Sweetheart Vikkna, I am so proud of you. I pray you have had people to come alongside you along the way. May God bless you richly for choosing keep and enjoy this gift of life, this baby girl, He gave you, who has now blossomed to a 6 year old girl. I hope you and her daddy have formed a good family for her. Blessings

@anaroseabell1622

I'm thirteen years old, and you make me want to listen to Christian music instead of the popular stuff.

@daisyjay549

Same here.

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