I Don't Want To Tie You Down
Todd Rundgren Lyrics


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Sometimes it's hard to look up under
The times we're going through
I scratch my head and stare and wonder
How to face the day anew

But it gives my life a bit more meaning
To feel in love with you, so heavy
I don't want to weigh you down, oh baby
I don't want to tie you down

I don't want a thing to mar this ever
The picture that we make
The balance of our minds together
The perfect give and take

For me to let my love possess you
Would be the worst mistake, I'm sorry
I don't want to bring you down, oh baby




I don't want to tie you down, oh Jesus
I don't want to nail you down

Overall Meaning

In Todd Rundgren's song "I Don't Want to Tie You Down," the lyrics express the conflict between the desire to fully possess someone and the recognition that it's better to let them be free. The singer acknowledges the difficulties of living in the current times but expresses that his love for the other person gives his life more meaning. He recognizes that he doesn't want to weigh or tie down the other person, as it would be a mistake to let his love possess them. The song emphasizes the importance of balance in a relationship, where each partner has the freedom to be themselves and contribute to the partnership equally.


The lyrics are poetic and use repetition to emphasize the singer's intentions. He repeats that he doesn't want to tie the other person down, using different phrases like "weigh you down," and "nail you down." The use of religious references like "oh baby" and "oh Jesus" indicate the strength of the singer's emotions and the depth of his conflict. The song's slow tempo and ballad-like structure contribute to its solemn and introspective tone.


Line by Line Meaning

Sometimes it's hard to look up under
At times, it's difficult to remain optimistic amidst challenging situations


The times we're going through
Refers to the current state of affairs or circumstances


I scratch my head and stare and wonder
Expresses perplexity or confusion about the future


How to face the day anew
Contemplates starting afresh or facing life again


But it gives my life a bit more meaning
Expresses how being in love adds a certain purpose or significance to life


To feel in love with you, so heavy
Being in love with the addressee is a weighty or significant experience


I don't want to weigh you down, oh baby
The singer wishes not to burden or excessively influence the addressee in any way


I don't want to tie you down
The artist does not want to impose any obligations or restrictions on the addressee


I don't want a thing to mar this ever
The artist desires that nothing spoil or tarnish their relationship


The picture that we make
Refers to the overall impression or impact of their relationship


The balance of our minds together
The equality or stability of their relationship together


The perfect give and take
The equal proportion of effort or emotion reflected in their relationship


For me to let my love possess you
The singer is concerned that allowing their love to gain control over the addressee would be unhealthy or detrimental


Would be the worst mistake, I'm sorry
The singer acknowledges the potential repercussions of their actions and apologizes in advance


I don't want to bring you down, oh baby
The singer wishes not to cause any negative emotions or outcomes for the addressee


I don't want to tie you down, oh Jesus
A plea to not impose any limitations or restrictions on the addressee


I don't want to nail you down
Expresses how the artist wishes to avoid constraining or imprisoning the addressee




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: TODD RUNDGREN

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Comments from YouTube:

grstett

I love this song. My ex-boyfriend sang the lyrics "I don't want a thing to mar this ever, the picture that we make. The balance of our lives together, the perfect give and take." to me. It still gets to me 40 years later.

Jerry Hayes

Todd has experienced it all. I loved his pre -Utopia stuff. Sometimes one of you wants the other to feel the same attraction as he or she does, but knows the other may retreat. And love becomes a casualty of itself. So, this song.

Tim Mit

@Jerry Hayes Ain't that the truth!!

joel lee

Would be the worst mistake

Tim Mit

If I ever get married, this would be a great song to play at my wedding...truth be told (sung).

nutshell1127

One of my favorite Todd songs - nobody else can do this - still - in the present - nobody comes close- Brilliant

joel lee

Masterpiece .

Joel Houlette

Agree. This whole album is a masterpiece.

Cheryl Copus

A wizard a true star love you Todd!

ronald de winter

i play this album for almost 40 years...top of thr world..

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