To Make A Big Man Cry
Tom Jones Lyrics


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It only takes a little girl
To make a big man cry
She only has to take his heart
Break his heart, telling him goodbye
To make a big man cry
It's easy to do
To make a big man cry
Just tell him you're through
And then, watch him cry
She's got the power to sink him
In the winking of an eye
She only has to shake it off
And break it off, for no reason why
To make a big man cry
It's easy to do
To make a big man cry
Just tell him you're through
And then, watch him cry
(Yes, boy, it's easy to do)
Watch him cry
(Yes, boy, it can happen to you)
Watch him cry
(You know what he's saying is true)
Because it happened to me
(Because it happened to me)
Just take a look, you'll see
(Just take a look and you'll see)
I'm only part of the man
Only half of the man, I used to be
I know...
It only takes a little girl
To make a big man cry
She only has to lead him on
And when she's gone, he'll just wanna die
To make a big man cry
It's easy to do
To make a big man cry
Just tell him you're through
And then, watch him cry
(Watch the big man cry)
Watch the big man cry
(Watch the big man cry)
Just watch me cry
(Watch the big man cry)




Watch him cry
(Watch the big man cry)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Tom Jones's song To Make A Big Man Cry speak to the power dynamic that can exist between women and men in romantic relationships. The song suggests that men in relationships with women are particularly vulnerable to emotional pain, and that women can easily wield this power by simply walking away. The opening verse sets the tone for the song with the provocative line "It only takes a little girl to make a big man cry." The use of the word "little" suggests that the woman in question is not physically imposing, and yet she has the ability to reduce this "big man" to tears.


The song goes on to describe the process by which a woman can make a man cry. She only has to "take his heart" and then "break his heart" by telling him goodbye. The repetition of the phrase "to make a big man cry" emphasizes the ease with which this can be done. In the second verse, the song suggests that a woman need not even go so far as to say goodbye. She can simply "lead him on" and then "when she's gone, he'll just wanna die." The implication is that the man's emotions are entirely dependent on the woman's actions.


Overall, the song paints a picture of men as inherently vulnerable in romantic relationships, and of women as possessing great power to manipulate and hurt their partners. While this view of gender roles may be outdated in the 21st century, the song remains an interesting artifact of its time.


Line by Line Meaning

It only takes a little girl
A girl who may seem insignificant can make a big and strong man cry.


To make a big man cry
It's possible to bring down a proud and strong man to tears.


She only has to take his heart
A girl can cause pain to a man by taking his heart, which means breaking up and leaving him.


Break his heart, telling him goodbye
Breaking a man's heart by ending the relationship with him.


To make a big man cry
Men can be vulnerable to emotional pain and can cry as a result of it.


It's easy to do
It doesn't take much effort or strategy to make a man cry; it's a natural consequence of a broken heart.


Just tell him you're through
Ending a relationship with a man can result in him shedding tears.


And then, watch him cry
Observing the tears of a man can be the result of breaking up with him.


She's got the power to sink him
A woman can have great power to make a man feel down and defeated.


In the winking of an eye
It's possible for a girl to make a man feel defeated very quickly and suddenly.


She only has to shake it off
A woman can end a relationship abruptly without any reason or warning, causing a man to feel heartbroken.


And break it off, for no reason why
Breaking up with somebody for no apparent reason can cause the other person significant emotional pain.


Because it happened to me
The singer has experienced the pain of heartbreak and shedding tears as a result of a broken relationship.


I'm only part of the man
His heartache and sadness have made him feel less of a man, less confident and less worthy.


Only half of the man, I used to be
The emotional pain he has experienced has taken a significant toll on his life and sense of self-worth.


She only has to lead him on
Misleading a man with no intention of a lasting relationship can still cause him emotional pain.


And when she's gone, he'll just wanna die
Being left alone and heartbroken can make a man feel worthless and worthless to the point of wanting to die.


(Watch the big man cry)
A reminder that men can cry and be affected by emotional pain as much as women.


(Yes, boy, it's easy to do)
Men can be vulnerable to emotional pain and can cry as a result of a broken heart.


(You know what he's saying is true)
The singer is speaking from personal experience about the effects of heartbreak and emotional pain.


(Watch him cry)
A reminder that emotional pain and heartbreak can make any man cry, regardless of his size or strength.


(Yes, boy, it can happen to you)
The singer is warning young men that they too can experience the pain of heartbreak and shedding tears as a result.


(Just take a look, you'll see)
The singer is pointing out the prevalence of heartbreak and its effects on men, even those who may initially seem strong and confident.


(Watch the big man cry)
A final reminder that men can cry and be vulnerable to emotional pain.




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