02 I Hope That I Don't Fall In Love With You
Tom Waits Lyrics


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Well I hope that I don't fall in love with you
'Cause falling in love just makes me blue
Well the music plays and you display
Your heart for me to see
I had a beer and now I hear you
Calling out for me
And I hope that I don't fall in love with you

Well the room is crowded, people everywhere
And I wonder, should I offer you a chair?
Well if you sit down with this old clown
Take that frown and break it
Before the evening's gone away
I think that we could make it
And I hope that I don't fall in love with you

Well the night does funny things inside a man
These old tom-cat feelings you don't understand
Well I turn around to look at you
You light a cigarette
I wish I had the guts to bum one
But we've never met
And I hope that I don't fall in love with you

I can see that you are lonesome just like me
And it being late, you'd like some company
Well I turn around to look at you
And you look back at me
The guy you're with he's up and split
The chair next to you's free
And I hope that you don't fall in love with me

Now it's closing time, the music's fading out
Last call for drinks, I'll have another stout
Well I turn around to look at you
You're nowhere to be found
I search the place for your lost face




Guess I'll have another round
And I think that I just fell in love with you

Overall Meaning

Tom Waits's song "I Hope That I Don't Fall in Love With You" is a ballad about the emotional complexity that comes with meeting someone new. The singer is in a bar filled with people and music when he sees a woman he is attracted to. However, he does not want to fall in love with her because love always leads to pain. He fears that if he falls in love, he will end up feeling blue, or melancholy.


The song begins with Waits singing, "Well, I hope that I don't fall in love with you / 'Cause falling in love just makes me blue." This line sets the tone for the rest of the song. Waits then describes how he sees the woman and how they interact throughout the night. He tries to guard his heart, saying "I hope that I don't fall in love with you", but it is clear that he is interested in her.


The singer's reluctance to fall in love is made clear throughout the song. He says, "Well, the night does funny things inside a man / These old tom-cat feelings you don't understand". He feels out of control of his emotions, and he fears getting hurt. However, he cannot help but wonder if the woman is also feeling lonely and would like to spend time with him.


In the end, the song takes a surprising turn. Waits sings, "And I think that I just fell in love with you." This ending is unexpected and subverts the expectations set up by the rest of the song. It adds a layer of complexity to the singer's emotions and makes the listener wonder if falling in love is worth the pain.


Line by Line Meaning

Well I hope that I don't fall in love with you
I'm afraid of falling in love with you because it always ends up making me feel sad.


'Cause falling in love just makes me blue,
Falling in love always leaves me feeling down and depressed.


Well the music plays and you display Your heart for me to see,
As the music plays, you seem to open up to me and show me your vulnerability.


I had a beer and now I hear you Calling out for me And I hope that I don't fall in love with you.
After a few drinks, you start calling out to me and I hope I don't start developing feelings for you.


Well the room is crowded, people everywhere And I wonder, should I offer you a chair?
There are so many people here and I'm wondering if I should offer you a seat.


Well if you sit down with this old clown, Take that frown and break it, Before the evening's gone away, I think that we could make it,
If you sit and talk with me, I might be able to make you smile and we could have a good time together.


Well the night does funny things inside a man These old tom-cat feelings you don't understand,
The night makes you feel a certain way that only a man can understand.


Well I turn around to look at you, You light a cigarette, I wish I had the guts to bum one, But we've never met,
I see you light up and I wish I had the courage to ask for a cigarette but we're strangers.


And I hope that I don't fall in love with you.
I'm hoping that I don't start having romantic feelings for you.


I can see that you are lonesome just like me, And it being late, you'd like some some company,
I can tell you're feeling lonely like I am and since it's late, you might be looking for someone to spend time with.


The guy you're with has up and split, The chair next to you's free,
The guy you were with left and now the chair next to you is empty.


And I hope that you don't fall in love with me.
I don't want you to develop feelings for me either.


Now it's closing time, the music's fading out Last call for drinks, I'll have another stout.
The bar is closing and the music is ending, so I'll have one last beer.


Well I turn around to look at you, You're nowhere to be found, I search the place for your lost face, Guess I'll have another round
When I look for you, you're gone and I can't find you, so I'll have to order another drink.


And I think that I just fell in love with you.
I realize that I've fallen in love with you, despite my attempts to avoid it.




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Written by: Thomas Alan Waits

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