Love Affair
Toni Braxton Lyrics


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I feel before we go any further
I think that I should let you know
I've got a boyfriend
And I would hate to do
Anything to hurt him
So my loyalty I'll show
Don't want to cheat on him
Never been the kind of girl
Who'd be unfair in relationships
I don't want to lead you on
No I
Don't want a love affair
I ain't never been the kind to cheat
'Cause that ain't me
Don't want a love affair
See I ain't down with o.p.p.
No I
Don't want a love affair
It doesn't matter if we're being discreet
'Cause that's not me
Don't want to play around I ain't down with o.p.p.

Now you're startin' to
Look real good to me
But I think it's best you go
Before we go too far
Gotta try to resist temptation
That way nobody gets hurt
I got a boyfriend
Even if I was your girl
I still wouldn't give myself to another
Why can't you just understand
That's just the way I am

Don't want a love affair It doesn't matter if we're being discreet
'Cause that ain't me
Don't want a love affair
As long as my man's lovin' me
Don't want a love affair
It doesn't matter if we're being discreet
That's not me
Don't want to play around
I will never kiss and tell

Can't believe that you would say you still




Would have respect in the morning
When i just couldn't respect myself

Overall Meaning

In "Love Affair," Toni Braxton opens up to a potential love interest about her current situation. She informs him that she has a boyfriend, and clarifies that she would never cheat on him or engage in an affair. Toni emphasizes her loyalty to her boyfriend and her characteristically fair approach to relationships. She acknowledges the man's attractiveness and admits that it's tempting to act on her feelings, but ultimately concludes that she cannot put her current relationship or her values at risk. Toni affirms that her stance on infidelity is firm, and she has no interest in playing around or engaging in deceptive behavior. The song serves as an expression of the importance of commitment and faithfulness in a relationship and illustrates Toni's commitment to her values and her partner.


Line by Line Meaning

I feel before we go any further
I sense that to communicate effectively, we need to address something first


I think that I should let you know
I believe that the right thing to do is tell you something important


I've got a boyfriend
I am in a committed romantic relationship with someone else


And I would hate to do
I do not want to cause a negative effect on my current relationship


Anything to hurt him
I wish to avoid causing my boyfriend any emotional pain


So my loyalty I'll show
I will demonstrate my steadfast commitment and faithfulness to my boyfriend


Don't want to cheat on him
I am unwilling to engage in any behavior that would break the trust of my romantic partner


Never been the kind of girl
I have always conducted myself with honesty and integrity in my relationships


Who'd be unfair in relationships
I have never acted selfishly or dishonestly in a romantic partnership


I don't want to lead you on
I do not want to create false hope or expectations in our interaction


No I
Absolutely not


Don't want a love affair
I am not interested in pursuing a romantic or sexual relationship with someone outside of my current partnership


I ain't never been the kind to cheat
I have never been unfaithful to a romantic partner


'Cause that ain't me
Behaving unfaithfully would go against my personal values and beliefs


See I ain't down with o.p.p.
I am not interested in or willing to engage in extra-relationship sexual encounters


It doesn't matter if we're being discreet
Even if we keep our interaction secret, I am still not interested in cheating


'Cause that's not me
It goes against my personal beliefs and values


Don't want to play around I ain't down with o.p.p.
I am not interested in, nor willing to engage in, casual sexual relationships with others outside of my current partnership


Now you're startin' to
I am beginning to notice


Look real good to me
I am physically attracted to you


But I think it's best you go
However, it is in both our best interests for you to leave


Before we go too far
In order to avoid putting ourselves in a vulnerable position


Gotta try to resist temptation
We both need to exert self-control to avoid acting on our attraction


That way nobody gets hurt
By not acting on our attraction, we avoid causing pain and heartbreak to ourselves and others


Even if I was your girl
Even if I were single and available


I still wouldn't give myself to another
I would not engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship


Why can't you just understand
Could you please try to comprehend


That's just the way I am
This is simply who I am, and how I behave in relationships


As long as my man's lovin' me
As long as I am happy and fulfilled in my current relationship


I will never kiss and tell
I will keep the private details of my romantic life confidential


Can't believe that you would say you still
I am surprised that you would make such a statement


Would have respect in the morning
That you would respect me in the morning after cheating on my boyfriend with me


When i just couldn't respect myself
When I would feel ashamed and unable to look at myself in the mirror due to my infidelity




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: GEORGE BROWN, RONALD BELL, DENNIS THOMAS, EARL TOON, ROBERT MICKENS, CLAYDES SMITH, JAMES TAYLOR, ROBERT BELL, EUMIR DEODATO

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