Harm in Change
Toro y Moi Lyrics


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Don't let me hold you down
You could be there now
And I'd rather drive it through the night
It's only one more day
Till we leave this state
And I know she thinks I've changed my mind

Don't let me hold you down
You could be there now
And I'd rather drive it through the night
It's only one more day
Till we leave this state
And I know she thinks I've changed my mind

Don't let me hold you down
You could be there now
And I'd rather drive it through the night
It's only one more day
Till we leave this state
And I know she thinks I've changed my mind

Don't let me hold you down
You could be there now

It's only one more day
Till we leave this state
And I know she thinks I've changed my mind

Don't let me hold you down
You could be there now

It's only one more day
Till we leave this state
And I know she thinks I've changed my mind

Don't let me hold you down
You could be there by now

Cause you know me
And I know you too
And that's not like me
Let me hold you tonight

Cause you know me
And I know you too
And that's not like me
Let me hold you tonight

Cause you know me
And I know you too
And that's not like me
Let me hold you tonight

Cause you know me
And I know you too
And that's not like me
Let me hold you tonight




Let me hold you tonight
Let me hold you tonight

Overall Meaning

The song "Harm in Change" by Toro y Moi is about a person who is feeling unsure about a romantic relationship and is struggling with the decision to end it. The lyrics "Don't let me hold you down, You could be there now" indicate that the person doesn't want to hold their partner back from pursuing their dreams or being happy. The line "And I'd rather drive it through the night, It's only one more day till we leave this state" suggests that the couple is on a road trip or journey together, but the singer has realized that the relationship isn't working out as they had hoped. They also don't want their partner to think that they've changed their mind, hence the repetition of the phrase "And I know she thinks I've changed my mind".


The chorus of "Cause you know me, And I know you too, And that's not like me, Let me hold you tonight" implies that the singer is conflicted about their emotions and is seeking comfort in physical intimacy. They have a deep connection with their partner but are struggling with communication about their doubts and fears, which is preventing them from fully enjoying the relationship. Overall, the song seems to explore the complex emotions and doubts that often arise in romantic relationships, and the struggle to balance individual needs with the desire to be with someone you care for deeply.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't let me hold you down
Please don't let me be the reason for you to stay behind


You could be there now
You could already be where you wanna be


And I'd rather drive it through the night
I prefer to travel during the night


It's only one more day
We're leaving soon


Till we leave this state
We'll be leaving this state momentarily


And I know she thinks I've changed my mind
I know she believes that I no longer wanna go


Cause you know me
You understand my personality


And I know you too
I know who you are as well


And that's not like me
This is out of character for me


Let me hold you tonight
Let me be there for you and support you




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Haya Hindash


on New Loved Ones

I think the lyric is actually "And she's on her knees" instead of "and she's on her needs." :~)

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