When the Lights Go Out
Val Astaire Lyrics


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November slid me underneath it's tongue
Spit up and bit me and I'm feeling numb
Creep on my envy I heard that you called it love

What were you thinking now that you've had enough?
Encounters slip me another drink or so
I feel it grip me and it's getting old
It's feeling tempting, I might let secrets go
I'm terribly sorry it's time that I let them know

Sober when the lights go out
When the parties over we'll let you know
Waking up on overcoats
Everybody's colder as we start to sink below
Sweating as the sheets unfold
Quiet as my blood runs cold
Sober when the lights go out
I'll see you when the lights go out

My mind is spinning, it feels like an overdose
The lights are blinking, they're speaking out of code
Wrap around my throat, sell me back my soul
Give me one more chance to lose control
If you fool me once, then babe, I'll be a fool for you

Sober when the lights go out
When the parties over we'll let you know
Waking up on overcoats
Everybody's colder as we start to sink below
Sweating as the sheets unfold
Quiet as my blood runs cold
Sober when the lights go out
I'll see you when the lights go out

Sober when the lights go out
When the parties over we'll let you know
Waking up on overcoats
Everybody's colder as we start to sink below
Sweating as the sheets unfold
Quiet as my blood runs cold

Looking through kaleidoscopes
I can feel it spinning with no control
Subtle as an overdose
Everything is louder as I start to sink below
Wrapping back around my throat
Selling off another soul




Sober when the lights go out
I'll see you when the lights go out

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Val Astaire's song "When the Lights Go Out" convey a sense of numbness, longing, and self-destructive tendencies. The first verse sets the tone by describing a feeling of being swallowed and bitten by the month of November, resulting in a state of emotional detachment. The mention of creeping envy suggests a toxic relationship in which love was mistaken for something else. The singer questions the other person's intentions now that they have decided to walk away.


As the song progresses, it becomes evident that the singer relies on encounters and alcohol to escape their emotions. They acknowledge that this coping mechanism is becoming tiresome and dangerous. There is a sense of regret and a desire to come clean about their hidden secrets, indicating a longing for honesty and vulnerability.


The chorus highlights the contrast between being sober and in control when the lights go out versus the chaos and indulgence of partying. The reference to waking up on overcoats and everyone being colder suggests a sense of emptiness and detachment from others. The use of sweating and quiet blood running cold implies a physical and emotional discomfort.


In the second verse, the lyrics describe an overwhelming feeling, as if the mind is on the edge of an overdose. The blinking lights and speaking out of code symbolize a state of confusion and disconnection. The mention of wrapping around the throat and selling back the soul suggests a cycle of self-destruction and a plea for another chance to lose control. The repeated phrase "I'll see you when the lights go out" reinforces the idea of finding solace in darkness and chaos.


Overall, the song explores themes of emptiness, vulnerability, and the struggle to find emotional authenticity, as well as the destructive patterns that can emerge from such a struggle.


Line by Line Meaning

November slid me underneath it's tongue
I got caught up in the dark, mysterious and overwhelming atmosphere of November


Spit up and bit me and I'm feeling numb
I got overwhelmed by November's intensity and it left me feeling emotionally numb


Creep on my envy I heard that you called it love
You nurtured my envy, disguised as love


What were you thinking now that you've had enough?
Now that you've satisfied your desires, what thoughts are going through your mind?


Encounters slip me another drink or so
Situations offer me more ways to escape or numb myself


I feel it grip me and it's getting old
I can feel myself being controlled by this habit, and it's becoming tiresome


It's feeling tempting, I might let secrets go
I find it tempting to reveal hidden truths or secrets


I'm terribly sorry it's time that I let them know
I feel remorseful, and it's about time I confess


Sober when the lights go out
I am clear-headed and aware when the distractions and temptations fade away


When the parties over we'll let you know
Once the excitement and chaos of the party ends, we'll inform you


Waking up on overcoats
Waking up feeling detached or distant from the people around me


Everybody's colder as we start to sink below
As we dig deeper into our emotions, everyone becomes more distant and aloof


Sweating as the sheets unfold
Feeling anxious and uncomfortable as the truth is revealed


Quiet as my blood runs cold
Silent and still, as my emotions become numb and lifeless


My mind is spinning, it feels like an overdose
My thoughts are racing, it feels overwhelming like I've consumed too much


The lights are blinking, they're speaking out of code
The flickering lights symbolize a cryptic message or hidden meaning


Wrap around my throat, sell me back my soul
Feeling suffocated and manipulated, as if someone is taking away my sense of self


Give me one more chance to lose control
Allow me one more opportunity to surrender to my impulses and abandon self-control


If you fool me once, then babe, I'll be a fool for you
If you deceive me once, I am willing to be a fool for you indefinitely


Looking through kaleidoscopes
Viewing the world through a distorted, fragmented perspective


I can feel it spinning with no control
I sense an uncontrollable whirlwind of emotions and experiences


Subtle as an overdose
As overwhelming and damaging as an overdose, but with a subtle and deceptive allure


Everything is louder as I start to sink below
As I delve deeper into the darkness, everything becomes more intense and amplified


Wrapping back around my throat
The suffocating feeling returns, constricting me once again


Selling off another soul
Sacrificing another piece of myself in exchange for temporary pleasure or escape


Sober when the lights go out
Regaining clarity and sobriety when the distractions and temptations disappear


I'll see you when the lights go out
I'll connect with you when I can truly see and understand myself




Lyrics © TUNECORE INC, TuneCore Inc.
Written by: Brian Anthony Joyce, Christopher Curran, Kyle Blamy

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