In love with you
Vanessa Carlton Lyrics


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I cannot help it
I couldn't stop it if I tried
The same old heart beat
Fills the emptiness
I have inside
And I've heard that you can't fight love
So I won't complain
Cause why would I stop the fire
That keeps me going on

'Cause when there's you
I feel whole
And there's no better feeling in the world
But without you
I'm alone
And I'd rather be in love
With you

Turn out the lights now
To see is to believe
I just want you near me
I just want you here with me...
And I'd give up everything only for you
It's the least that I could do...

'Cause when there's you
I feel whole
And there's no better feeling in the world
But without you
I'm alone
And I'd rather be in love
With you

I feel you holding me...

Why are we afraid to be in love
To be loved
I can't explain it
I know it's tough
To be loved

And I feel you holding me...

Ohoh
Oh
But when there's you
I feel whole (I feel whole)
And there's no better feeling in the world
But without you I'm alone

And I'd rather be in love
Yes, I'd rather be in love
Oh, I'd rather be in love...
With you





And I feel you holding me

Overall Meaning

Vanessa Carlton's song, "In love with you" talks about the intensity of one's feelings towards another person, and how it can fill the emptiness that exists within. The singer describes her inability to control her love and how it keeps her going despite the struggles that come with it. The chorus repeats the sentiment that being in love with this person brings a sense of completeness, while being without them leaves them feeling alone. Carlton uses the metaphor of darkness to emphasize the singer's longing for this person's physical presence, and how being with them is worth sacrificing everything else.


The song appears to be about a very particular person, and it is suspected to be about the musician's then-boyfriend Stephan Jenkins, frontman of Third Eye Blind. The deep emotions present in the song make sense within this context given that the pair were together for years before ultimately ending the relationship.


Interestingly, the song was featured in the credits of the film "Love in the Time of Cholera," which is not surprising once you consider that the movie's plot is centered around themes of unrequited love and the passage of time. The music video for the song features Carlton standing in front of a mirror, dressed in black and white regalia, looking at herself directly in the eye as she sings about her intense love for another.


Line by Line Meaning

I cannot help it
I have no control over the way I feel


I couldn't stop it if I tried
My feelings are too strong to resist


The same old heart beat
My heart beats with love for you, just as it has always done


Fills the emptiness
Your love fills the emptiness I feel without you


And I've heard that you can't fight love
I know that fighting my love for you is useless


So I won't complain
I accept my love for you and won't complain about it


Cause why would I stop the fire
I don't want to extinguish the flame of love that drives me


That keeps me going on
Your love gives me the strength to keep going


'Cause when there's you
My feelings for you are so powerful that


I feel whole
You complete me and make me feel whole


And there's no better feeling in the world
There's no feeling better than being with you


But without you
When you're not around,


I'm alone
I feel incomplete and lonely


And I'd rather be in love
Despite the pain of being apart, I'd rather feel this love than not at all


Turn out the lights now
Everything else fades away when you're with me


To see is to believe
I believe in the power of our love because I've seen it firsthand


I just want you near me
I long to be close to you


I just want you here with me...
I want nothing more than to have you by my side


And I'd give up everything only for you
I'd sacrifice everything I have just to be with you


It's the least that I could do...
My love for you demands nothing less


Why are we afraid to be in love
Why is love so scary?


To be loved
Why are we afraid to let others love us?


I can't explain it
I don't understand why love is so difficult


I know it's tough
I know that loving and being loved is hard


Ohoh
A vocalization of emotion


Oh
A vocalization of emotion


Yes, I'd rather be in love
Despite the difficulties, I'd still choose to be in love


Oh, I'd rather be in love...
My love for you will always outweigh any hardships


And I feel you holding me
Just the thought of you holding me makes me feel complete




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Making my way downtown
Walking fast
Faces pass
And I'm home-bound

Staring blankly ahead
Just making my way
Making a way
Through the crowd

And I need you
And I miss you
And now I wonder

If I could fall into the sky
Do you think time would pass me by?
'Cause you know I'd walk a thousand miles
If I could just see you tonight

It's always times like these
When I think of you
And I wonder if you ever think of me
'Cause everything's so wrong
And I don't belong
Living in your precious memory

'Cause I need you
And I miss you
And now I wonder

If I could fall into the sky
Do you think time would pass me by?
'Cause you know I'd walk a thousand miles
If I could just see you tonight

And I, I don't wanna let you know
I, I drown in your memory
I, I don't wanna let this go
I, I don't

Making my way downtown
Walking fast
Faces pass
And I'm home-bound

Staring blankly ahead
Just making my way
Making a way
Through the crowd

And I still need you
And I still miss you
And now I wonder

If I could fall into the sky
Do you think time would pass us by?
'Cause you know I'd walk a thousand miles
If I could just see you

If I could fall into the sky
Do you think time would pass me by?
'Cause you know I'd walk a thousand miles
If I could just see you
If I could just hold you tonight



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@danielbelak145

For years, I just can´t unsee Terry Crews when I hear this song

@EmilioMedranoMusic

x2 Hahahahahahah

@Disney65Fan

ROFL I know I can picture Terry shaking his head and singing the song to Marlon Wayans in drag haha

@atthesnatchgame

Lmaoooooo

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