My Best
Vanessa Carlton Lyrics


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Mm-mm-mm-mmmm-mm-mm
We scream and shout
And try to make it last
Though it didn't work out
I don't love you any less

My lover or friend
I won't ever tell
Our secrets safe
An unspoken citadel

And in these broken times
Well, it's so easy to forget
So I sing to remind
Upon my shoulder you can rest
'Cause I'll always give you my best

A sidewalk's path leads me to you
Though we don't look back
We hold on to a truth

And in these broken times
I promise I will not forget
Though you're not mine
Upon your shoulder I can rest
'Cause you always give me your best

It's like a promised kept
It's like you never left
It's like you never left

Mm-mm-mm-mmmm-mm-mm
Ah-ah-ah-ahhh-ah-ah

I know it's been so long
I can't ever seem to forget
All it takes is a song
And I could swear I hear your steps
Down the hall that goes up past
That leaves an ache
It's never left
'Cause I gave you my best
Ahhhh

It's like you never left
It's like you never left

Ah-ah-ah-ahhh-ah-ah




We scream and shout
And try to make it last

Overall Meaning

The song "My Best" by Vanessa Carlton is a reflection on the endurance of love throughout time and distance. The lyrics describe a mutual love between two individuals who have weathered the ups and downs of their relationship, yet still value one another deeply. The opening stanza's repetition of "mm-mm-mm-mmmm-mm-mm" sets a contemplative tone, preparing the listener for the introspective musings that follow. The lyrics reveal that the relationship was tumultuous, with the couple often "screaming and shouting" in an attempt to make things work. Despite the challenges, the singer emphasizes that her feelings have not lessened with time–she still loves her partner just as fiercely as she ever did.


The second verse introduces the concept of friendship, implying that the singer's love interest is also her closest confidante. The "secrets" they share "an unspoken citadel," an untouchable fortress of trust. Even in "these broken times"–perhaps referring to any difficult period in their relationship–the singer promises to always remember their bond, and sings to remind them both of what they mean to each other.


The chorus reinforces the idea that each lover/friend will always give their best to one another. It's a deeply reassuring sentiment, emphasizing trust and commitment. The second half of the song delves into the power of memory and nostalgia, describing the physical ache caused by the absence of an old love. Carlton's delicate voice gives way to a soaring chorus, as the chorus repeats the idea that the absent love never truly left.


Overall, "My Best" is a song about deep love and trust that withstands trials and hardships, demonstrating the power of a true partnership.


Line by Line Meaning

Mm-mm-mm-mmmm-mm-mm
The song begins with a wordless melody.


We scream and shout
The lovers fought and argued.


And try to make it last
They wanted their relationship to work out.


Though it didn't work out
The relationship failed.


I don't love you any less
The singer is still devoted to her former partner despite the breakup.


My lover or friend
The nature of the relationship is kept a secret.


I won't ever tell
The singer promises to maintain confidentiality.


Our secrets safe
The singer values trust and discretion.


An unspoken citadel
The hidden relationship is a fortress of sorts.


And in these broken times
The singer acknowledges the difficulties and challenges in life.


Well, it's so easy to forget
It is easy to give in to negativity and despair.


So I sing to remind
The singer uses music to inspire and uplift herself and others.


Upon my shoulder you can rest
The singer offers emotional support and comfort to her partner or friend.


'Cause I'll always give you my best
The singer promises to always do her best for the people she cares about.


A sidewalk's path leads me to you
The singer is drawn to her former partner or friend.


Though we don't look back
The singer and her former partner or friend do not dwell on the past.


We hold on to a truth
They treasure the positive aspects of their relationship.


I promise I will not forget
The singer vows to remember the good memories and positive aspects of the relationship.


Though you're not mine
The singer acknowledges that the other person is no longer hers, but still cares.


Upon your shoulder I can rest
The singer still finds emotional support and comfort from the other person.


'Cause you always give me your best
The singer acknowledges that the other person has always been there for her, giving their best effort.


It's like a promised kept
The relationship promises were fulfilled.


It's like you never left
The other person still feels present in the singer's life.


I know it's been so long
The singer recognizes that it has been a while since they broke up.


I can't ever seem to forget
The memories of the relationship still linger, even after so much time has passed.


All it takes is a song
The singer is reminded of the relationship by hearing certain music.


And I could swear I hear your steps
The singer imagines hearing the footsteps of her former partner or friend.


Down the hall that goes up past
The memory is vivid, almost like it just happened.


That leaves an ache
The memory is bittersweet and painful.


It's never left
The memory and emotions are still very much a part of the singer's life.


'Cause I gave you my best
The singer knows that she did the best she could in the relationship.


Ah-ah-ah-ahhh-ah-ah
The song ends with a wordless melody that is slightly haunting and melancholy.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: VANESSA CARLTON

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