Come Back
Vee Bobby Lyrics


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Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
So come back, baby, when you grow up

You're lookin' real good, like a woman now
Your mind hasn't gotten the message somehow
So if you can't take it when the goin' gets rough
Come back, baby, when you grow up

I want you, girl, but your wide-eyed innocence
Has really messed up my mind, yeah
I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak
Somewhere else along the line

Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Some day be a woman ready to love
Come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
So come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl
You've still got a lot of time left in the world
You'll some day be a woman ready to love
So come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl




You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough

Overall Meaning

The song "Come Back When You Grow Up" by Bobby Vee talks about a girl who is living in a naive and immature world. The lyrics suggest that the girl has not yet experienced the real world and therefore is not ready to handle the complexities of life. The song urges the girl to come back when she is more mature and has gained some experience. The chorus "come back when you grow up, girl" is repeated throughout the song to highlight the message of the song.


The song has a theme of innocence and the fear of the unknown, which is exemplified by the lyrics "livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough". The singer is trying to protect himself from getting hurt by someone who is not yet ready for a relationship. The lyrics "I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak somewhere else along the line" suggests that the singer is not willing to take that risk.


Line by Line Meaning

Come back when you grow up, girl
I can't be with you right now because you're too immature, so come back when you've grown up and become more responsible.


You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
You're not taking life seriously enough and you need to start acting like an adult.


Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
Acting responsibly and being in a mature relationship is hard work.


So come back, baby, when you grow up
I want to be with you, but only when you've matured enough to handle a relationship.


You look real good like a woman now
Your physical appearance has matured and you look attractive.


Your mind hasn't gotten the message somehow
You haven't yet realized that you need to be more responsible and mature.


So if you can't take it 'n' the goin' gets rough
If you can't handle the difficulties of life and a mature relationship, then you should wait until you're ready.


I want you girl but your wide-eyed innocence
Although I want to be with you, your naive outlook on life is holding us back.


Has really messed up my mind, yeah
Your innocence and immaturity is making it hard for me to be in a relationship with you.


I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak
It would be better for you to experience heartbreak when you're more mature and can handle it, rather than while you're still naive and innocent.


Somewhere else along the line
I don't want to be the one to break your heart, so it would be better if you experienced it with someone else.


Some day be a woman ready to love
I believe that one day you will mature and become a responsible adult who is ready for a mature relationship.


You've still got a lotta time left in the world
You're still young and have plenty of time to mature and become the responsible adult you need to be.




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Written by: Martha Sharp

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@petewiththebeat007

I was 11 years old living in Detroit Lakes, Minnesota. Bobby Vee was from Fargo, North Dakota, just 45 miles away. He married a girl from Detroit Lakes and was always hanging around DL. We had a pavilion where the best bands would play. The Yardbirds, The Beau Brummels, the Buckinghams, Roy Orbison. And of course, Bobby Vee. I would stand outside and listen because I wasn't old enough to go inside. It was the best time of my life.

@tjops1000

RIP Bobby. I am 68 and this song will be my favorite till I die. Anita Jackson, SA

@JohnDoe-ot3zd

Back then we had great music. I'm so happy I got to grow up in that time. Kids today will never get experience what we did when we were kids.

@hawkeye1836

How many thousands of times have we all sang along with Bobby Vee
well, I'll start off the next thousand. R.I.P. Brother, Thanks for the Love.

@ladonnaghareeb4609

Such a beautiful song. Bobby Vee will ALWAYS be missed. Thank you for sharing your wonderful talent with the world.

@bamagirl6647

This brings back so many memories... what I would give for a time machine.

@roseloose1013

Was so devastated to hear of Bobby Vee's passing. So enjoyed listening to all of his greatest songs. Gone but never will be forgotten. RiP Bobby.

@robertroudi5879

Never Rose he was so underrated God bless Bobby !!!!

@traceysellers7945

This song reminded me what it would of been. My late husband was 21 years older than me. I was just being born . He was 21. I dearly miss him... I wish we would of had more time together.

@pattyj5846

The best time of my life was the 60s. Thank you

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