The Weekend
Westward the Tide Lyrics


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The weekend is all that you got
When you're somebody living with a hole in your heart
And one day, oh I know we could talk
The way we used to talk
But look who's talking now

And I'm getting so bad at staying in touch with the friends that I had
I think I'm through trying to pretend that I care about you
Cause people change
But who changed you?

I get the feeling you're not who I thought you were
There's something deceiving in the way that you use your words
But I'm a believer that all things come to an end
When they come knocking
Ya know you gotta let them in

How did it get so outta control?
I never knew what it was
I never what it meant
To be real
Going to places ya don't wanna go
I never knew what it was
I never knew what it was
Oh

And I'm getting so bad at staying in touch with the friends that I had
I think I'm through trying to pretend that I care about you
Cause people change
I never do

I get the feeling you're not who I thought you were
There's something deceiving in the way that you use your words
But I'm a believer that all things come to an end
When they come knocking
Ya know you gotta let them in

I'm never there and I know that you've been getting around
So many nights that you drank the truth right outta your mouth
I'm a believer that all things come to an end
When they come knocking
End when they come knocking

The weekend is all that you got
When you're somebody living with a hole in your heart
The weekend is all that you got
When you're somebody living
And, oh you've got a hole in your heart

I get the feeling you're not who I thought you were
There's something deceiving in the way that you use your words
But I'm a believer that all things come to an end
When they come knocking
You know you gotta let them in
You know you gotta let them in
Oh, you know you gotta let them in




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Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Westward the Tide's "The Weekend" talk about the struggle that someone faces when they are trying to stay emotionally connected with people they care about. The song suggests that it is difficult for the person to keep in touch because they themselves are going through a tough time, represented by a "hole in [their] heart." The song implies that it is important to let people in when they come knocking, despite the difficulty that may come with it. Additionally, the lyrics suggest that people change, and sometimes it is important to accept that and move on. These themes are delivered through a mix of melancholic and uplifting tunes, with the latter creating an atmosphere of hope despite the challenges being faced.


The lyrics talk a lot about change, and the struggle that comes with it. On one hand, the person singing the song struggles to adjust to the changes in their own life that have made it difficult to stay in touch. On the other hand, they are also wary of the changes happening in the people around them, which is suggested by the lines "I get the feeling you're not who I thought you were. There's something deceiving in the way that you use your words." Despite this, the song takes a hopeful tone, indicating that even if things come to an end, the person should never lose hope and must always be open to others. Overall, the song is a captivating mix of melancholic tunes and uplifting lyrics that all people can relate to.


Line by Line Meaning

The weekend is all that you got
When life feels empty and hollow, and your heart is full of pain, weekends might be the only source of happiness


When you're somebody living with a hole in your heart
When you feel incomplete or lost or live with some unresolved trauma, you might have an emotional void that's hard to fill


And one day, oh I know we could talk
I hope, someday, we can have the same meaningful conversations we used to have, and bridge the distance that grew between us


The way we used to talk
We used to share our joys, fears, dreams, and heartbreaks, and have an unspoken understanding of each other's mind and soul


But look who's talking now
Ironically, I am struggling to communicate effectively, and I'm not the same person who could connect with you before


And I'm getting so bad at staying in touch with the friends that I had
I am losing touch with the people whom I used to care about, and I regret taking them for granted


I think I'm through trying to pretend that I care about you
I can't fake emotions or pretend to be interested in your life when I'm not. It's better to be honest and admit that I'm disconnected


Cause people change
As time passes, we evolve, mature, learn new things, have different priorities, and are influenced by external factors that shape our personality and behavior


But who changed you?
Although it's natural to change, I still wonder what caused you to become so distant, different, or indifferent to our friendship


I get the feeling you're not who I thought you were
I sense that your true self might be concealed or altered by your superficial persona or deceptive language


There's something deceiving in the way that you use your words
Your words don't match your actions, or they lack authenticity, transparency, or empathy, creating a sense of doubt or suspicion in me


But I'm a believer that all things come to an end
Nothing lasts forever, whether it's good or bad, and we need to embrace change, loss, and closure, to move on and grow


When they come knocking
When opportunities, chances, or people invite themselves into our lives, we should be open-minded and welcoming, and not shut them down


Ya know you gotta let them in
We sometimes resist change or refuse to accept help, love, or support, because of our ego, pride, or fear of vulnerability, but we should let our guard down and allow others to enter our lives and enrich them


How did it get so outta control?
I am bewildered by how our relationship turned sour, and I don't know what caused the animosity, distance, or distrust between us


I never knew what it was
I was naive or ignorant about the nature, depth, or consequences of our friendship, or I underestimated the impact of my behavior on you


To be real
To have a genuine, honest, and authentic connection with someone that goes beyond surface-level interactions or pleasantries


Going to places ya don't wanna go
Sometimes, life takes us to uncomfortable, unpleasant, or unfamiliar situations where we feel out of place, unsafe, or lonely


I'm never there and I know that you've been getting around
I am not physically or emotionally present in your life, and I suspect that you seek solace, affection, or validation from other people or sources


So many nights that you drank the truth right outta your mouth
You might have revealed your insecurities, fears, or secrets when you were drunk, and the alcohol made you less guarded or inhibited


Oh, you've got a hole in your heart
You, too, suffer from emotional emptiness, loneliness, or pain, and your actions or words might be a reflection of your unresolved issues




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