We're Just Friends
Wilco Lyrics


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Over and over and over again
I say that were just friends

Forget the implications
Infatuations end
If loves so easy, why is it hard
I can't imagine ever being apart
I'll come back to you
It'd be brand new
But I promise
We're just friends

Over and over and over again
I try to make amends
For everything I've done wrong
My whole world just spins
Make some coffee, hold me up
Try to talk me out of giving up
I'll come back to you
It'll be brand new




But I promise
We're just friends

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Wilco's "We're Just Friends" suggests a complicated relationship between two individuals. The repetitiveness of the chorus, "Over and over and over again, I say that we're just friends," implies that one person has feelings for the other beyond what they have verbally established. The singer is trying to convince themselves and the other person that their romantic feelings are nothing more than a mere infatuation. They are willing to come back to the other person as "it'll be brand new," but still insists that they are just friends.


The second verse seems to depict a situation where the singer has hurt the other person in the past, and now their relationship is spinning out of control. They want to make amends, but the process is revolving in their heads, making their world feel choppy. They ask the other person to hold them up and try to talk them out of giving up. In the end, they reassure the other person that it is just a friendship, despite everything that has happened.


Overall, the song suggests a complex relationship that the singer is trying to navigate through. The feelings they cannot deny are at odds with what they are trying to convince themselves and the other person. The song is an honest portrayal of the challenges and complexities of human relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Over and over and over again
I keep repeating myself


I say that we're just friends
I'm trying to deny my feelings for you


Forget the implications
Ignore the possible consequences


Infatuations end
Temporary attractions come to an end


If love's so easy, why is it hard
Love is not as simple as it seems


I can't imagine ever being apart
I cannot picture my life without you


I'll come back to you
I will return to your side


It'd be brand new
Our relationship would be different


But I promise
I solemnly swear


Over and over and over again
Once more, I'm repeating myself


I try to make amends
I seek to rectify my mistakes


For everything I've done wrong
For all my errors


My whole world just spins
I feel disoriented and confused


Make some coffee, hold me up
Comfort me with a warm beverage and your embrace


Try to talk me out of giving up
Persuade me not to quit


I'll come back to you
I will eventually return to you


It'll be brand new
Our relationship will be different


But I promise
I assure you, once again


We're just friends
We are not in a romantic relationship




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: JEFF TWEEDY, JAY BENNETT, JOHN STIRRATT

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