She
Wilco Lyrics


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She's a jar
With a heavy lid
My pop quiz kid
A sleepy kisser
A pretty war
With feelings hid
She begs me not to miss her
She says forever
To light a fuse
We could use
A hand full of wheel
And a day off
And a bruised road
However you might feel
Tonight is real

When I forget how to talk, I sing
won't you please
Bring that flash to shine
And turn my eyes red
Unless they close
When you click
And my face gets sick
Stuck
Like a question unposed

Just climb aboard
The tracks of a trains arm
In my fragile family tree
And watch me floating inches above
The people under me

Please beware the quiet front yard
I warned you
Before there were water skies
I warned you not to drive
Dry your eyes, you poor devil

Are there really ones like these?
The ones I dream
Float like leaves
And freeze to spread skeleton wings
I passed through before I knew you

I believe it's just because
Daddy's payday is not enough
Oh, I believe it's all because
Daddy's payday is not enough

Just climb aboard
The tracks of a trains arm
In my fragile family tree
And watch me floating inches above
The people under me

She's a jar
With a heavy lid
My pop quiz kid
A sleepy kisser
A pretty war




With feelings hid
You know she begs me not to hit her

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Wilco’s song She’s A Jar are richly layered with emotion and meaning, and open to various interpretations. At its heart, however, the song seems to be about a complicated relationship with a woman who is both alluring and elusive. The description of her as “a jar with a heavy lid” suggests that she is someone who is guarded and difficult to access emotionally. The reference to her as a “pretty war” suggests that she is someone who is simultaneously attractive and challenging to be with. Throughout the song, the singer seems to vacillate between feelings of love and anger towards this woman, suggesting that their relationship is fraught with tension and ambiguity.


One of the most compelling aspects of this song is its use of metaphor, particularly the references to trains and tracks. This imagery conjures up feelings of movement and direction, as well as a sense of being on a journey toward some unknown destination. The reference to a “fragile family tree” implies that the singer is struggling to find his place within a larger social context. Additionally, the lyrics seem to contain elements of nostalgia and regret, particularly in the lines “before there were water skies I warned you not to drive,” hinting at an earlier, simpler time that has since passed.


Overall, She’s A Jar is a haunting and evocative song that offers a glimpse into the complexities of human relationships, particularly those that are fueled by desire and longing. Through its use of vivid imagery and metaphor, the song offers a powerful meditation on the nature of human connection and the emotional landscapes that we navigate in pursuit of it.


Line by Line Meaning

She's a jar
She's like a jar with secrets, concealed emotions, and complexities that you can't see through the surface.


With a heavy lid
Her true self is locked beneath a tough exterior that takes some effort and patience to unravel.


My pop quiz kid
She's like a pop quiz, unpredictable, exciting, and tests your wits and intelligence when dealing with her.


A sleepy kisser
She's a lover who's hesitant and slow when it comes to intimacy and affection.


A pretty war
She's an attractive and alluring person, but her personality and character are in conflict with each other, resulting in inner turmoil.


With feelings hid
She's cautious about her emotions and doesn't reveal them easily, making it challenging for others to understand her.


She begs me not to miss her
She's afraid of being forgotten or left behind; she desires to be remembered and desired.


She says forever
She wants a long-lasting commitment and promises eternal love to her partner.


To light a fuse
She wants to stir up excitement, passion, and energy in the relationship.


We could use
She suggests that the relationship needs some added thrill, adventure, or excitement to rekindle the romance.


A hand full of wheel
A new direction or a fresh start in the relationship that both parties need to steer together.


And a day off
A break from the routine or regular life to indulge in a new experience together.


And a bruised road
A difficult or challenging path fraught with obstacles and uncertainties that takes courage to embark on.


However you might feel
Notwithstanding how you perceive the relationship right now, let's take these steps and make things better.


Tonight is real
Let's put aside our differences and focus on the present moment to rekindle our relationship.


When I forget how to talk, I sing
She uses music as a way to express herself when verbal communication is proving difficult.


Won't you please
An appeal or request to the audience to assist in expressing herself through music.


Bring that flash to shine
Produce a spark, excitement, or energy that can bring life to her creative expression.


And turn my eyes red
Express her passion and emotion through music and to evoke a response in the listener.


Unless they close
To evoke a deep emotional response that leaves one in awe, emotional, and closes their eyes in joy, peace, or contentment.


When you click
An acknowledgement of the connection between the singer and the listeners when the music is played.


And my face gets sick
To evoke a reaction so deep that one's physical expressions are affected.


Stuck
Paralyzed and stunned by the beauty and emotive expression conveyed through music.


Like a question unposed
The music evokes deep thoughts and reflections that are left unanswered or open to interpretation.


Just climb aboard
To be part of something great, exciting, and adventurous.


The tracks of a trains arm
To journey through life, family, relationships, or even music, one must climb aboard, and this journey will take you through various twists and turns.


In my fragile family tree
Acknowledge the complexity, diversity, and uniqueness of one's family and the need to cherish it.


And watch me floating inches above
To look up and appreciate the achievements, milestones, and growth of oneself and one's family.


The people under me
Acknowledge the people that supported, motivated, and enabled one's success and growth.


Please beware the quiet front yard
To be cautious of situations that may appear calm and peaceful, but harbor secrets, challenges, and issues that may lead to problems later.


I warned you
Advice or warning that didn't quite sink in or was ignored by the recipient.


Before there were water skies
Before the easy and effortless times, the singer gave advice or warning to the listener.


I warned you not to drive
To avoid certain actions or decisions that could have negative consequences.


Dry your eyes, you poor devil
Acknowledge the hardships, challenges, or disappointments faced by the listener and provide some comfort and consolation.


Are there really ones like these?
To express disbelief, skepticism or surprise at a certain idea or situation.


The ones I dream
To express one's deepest desires, wishes or hopes that are unrealistic or idealistic.


Float like leaves
To visualize one's dreams and desires as something light, beautiful, and colorful like autumn leaves floating around.


And freeze to spread skeleton wings
To capture the beauty of a fleeting moment and to make it immortal or never-ending.


I passed through before I knew you
The singer acknowledges that his life experiences and the journey that he's been through have shaped him to be the person he is now.


I believe it's just because
The singer suspects that there's a particular reason behind something.


Daddy's payday is not enough
The singer believes that money or material possessions are not the only determinants of happiness in life.


Just climb aboard
To embrace life's journey and to make the most of what one has.


The tracks of a trains arm
To acknowledge the presence of guidance, support, and protection that uplifts one's life and journey.


In my fragile family tree
Acknowledge the existence of support, love, and guidance that's provided within one's family.


And watch me floating inches above
To appreciate the journey of life and how far one has come in terms of growth, success, and achievements.


The people under me
Acknowledge the people that are instrumental, supportive, and loving in making progress and achievements possible.


She's a jar
To conclude the song, the singer affirms that the woman is complex, multifaceted, and multi-layered, just like a jar.


With a heavy lid
He acknowledges her complexity, mystery, and difficulty in opening up.


My pop quiz kid
He recognizes her unpredictability, and the tests she poses him, and how his intelligence is challenged when dealing with her.


A sleepy kisser
To finalize his description, he identifies her as a lover, with whom he has to be patient and work hard to get intimate.


A pretty war
He identifies the internal conflict and turmoil in her personality, and how they come in conflict with her external beauty, creating a kind of war.


With feelings hid
He ends by acknowledging her struggle to come to terms with her emotions, and how she guards them carefully and hides them from the world.


You know she begs me not to hit her
The final line of the song adds a dark twist, hinting at domestic abuse, where the woman begs not to be hit, further emphasizing how complex and multifaceted the woman is.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: JEFF TWEEDY, JAY BENNETT

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oldfriendofmine

This is for me one of the most underrated songs ever. Everything about it is chilling. The craft of its writing (structure, arrangements, progressions, everything) is just remarkable to me. It should be all over magazine lists for best pop/rock songs ever, but I don't even think it's one of Wilco's ten most popular.

Geoffrey Gentry

I love how Jay Bennett uses the pitch bend on his Mellotron, especially at 1:47 when he plays a diminished chord and shifts it up at the same time. Brilliant.

AliciaMarieEnns

this is probably my favorite wilco song. Definitely summerteeth is in the top 10 best pop/rock albums ever. Great band. Thanks for uploading

TallFastLoud

I can't decide if that last line is really disturbing, or if Jeff Tweedy is just making "challenging art" by creating this sense of empathy with him, and then flipping it and talking about domestic abuse. Honestly, it seems like both. It takes some artistic guts to write such a pretty pop song and then unload that kind of line at the end of it.

Alex Grantham

Totally possible he's just swapping POVs throughout. A lot of word art during that time.

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john sizer

Jeff Tweedy is a legend!! One of the most underrated singers and songwriters of all time. This is one of the best song and album I have ever heard!!!!

Angie thinksuramazing

October 2019, a friend on Twitter sent me this. Never heard it before.
It is in my head, I can't stop listening to it.
Sometimes a song just owns you.
Let go. Your theirs now.

Tom Preisler

I love what you said 🖤

Justin Simmons

Your friend has great taste. Summerteeth doesn't get enough recognition, next to yhf this is the most sincere Tweedy's ever sounded.

Ottorino Gentile

Uvre very young.

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