I Just Don't Understand
Willie Nelson Lyrics


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I'd be the last one to tell you that you shouldn't go
And the first to say be happy if you can
But you lie and hurt someone who needs and loves you so
Do you mind too much if I don't understand
I suppose that you're convinced this is the thing to do
Life is short and sweet break all the hearts you can
I guess I shouldn't be surprised it's all a game to you
But do you mind too much if I don't understand
Forgive me but it all seems so unreal to me
And my heart and me we'd made so many plans
But that's all over now there's nothing left to do




But do you mind too much if I don't understand
(Do you mind too much) if I don't understand

Overall Meaning

In Willie Nelson's song, "I Just Don't Understand", the singer is singing to someone who has decided to leave a relationship. The singer acknowledges that they are not in a position to stop them from doing so and that it is important to be happy. However, the singer is hurt and confused as to why the other person would hurt someone who loves them so deeply. The singer questions the motives of the person who is leaving and wonders if they care about the broken hearts they are leaving behind.


The singer also questions the notion that life is short and therefore it is necessary to break as many hearts as possible in order to be happy. The singer is perplexed by the other person's behavior and cannot understand how they can be so callous towards someone who has loved them so deeply. The singer is also saddened by the fact that they had made plans with the other person and now all of those plans are dashed.


The song is a poignant reflection of the pain and confusion that often accompanies the end of a relationship. It highlights how difficult it can be to understand why someone would choose to hurt someone they love and how devastating it can be to have dreams and plans shattered.


Line by Line Meaning

I'd be the last one to tell you that you shouldn't go
I am not the right person to ask for your life decisions as they are yours to make


And the first to say be happy if you can
I would never discourage anyone from pursuing their own happiness


But you lie and hurt someone who needs and loves you so
Your actions have caused pain to someone who deeply cares for you


Do you mind too much if I don't understand
I apologize, but I can't comprehend how you could do something like this


I suppose that you're convinced this is the thing to do
I assume you believe that what you did was necessary or right


Life is short and sweet break all the hearts you can
Perhaps you see life as fleeting and believe that it's better to pursue what you want without consideration for others


I guess I shouldn't be surprised it's all a game to you
I shouldn't be shocked by your actions as it seems like you treat everything as a game


Forgive me but it all seems so unreal to me
I'm sorry, but I find it hard to believe that this is actually happening


And my heart and me we'd made so many plans
I had envisioned a future with you and my heart had hopes and dreams for our relationship


But that's all over now there's nothing left to do
Unfortunately, our future together is no longer possible and there's nothing we can do to change that


But do you mind too much if I don't understand
I don't mean to offend you, but I'm struggling to comprehend your actions and decisions




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Written by: NELSON

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Jewel Dotson

Willie at his very best, no slush & frills just that beautiful haunting voice

Marianne Menon

I love Willie Nelson's music...From His Early Years till To Date and Beyond!!!!... Great song from a great album...Thank you so much for the lovely share.... ~Marianne...

david willison

What a great songwriter and singer. Thanks for the upload.

webbjr37

Willie At his very best

Dorajean Bear

"I SUPPOSE THAT YOU'RE CONVINCED THIS IS THE THING TO DO
LIFE IS SHORT AND SWEET, BREAK ALL THE HEARTS YOU CAN
I GUESS I SHOULDN'T BE SURPRISED, IT'S ALL A GAME TO YOU"

"BUT DO YOU MIND TOO MUCH IF I DON'T UNDERSTAND"
ONE GREAT SONG MANY MOONS AGO LOVE LOVE IT

Madonna Hill

Willie Nelson my favorite singer he always sings what i am feeling, also my best friend from the past

Linda cp

I've loved this man's music since the 60's and am sorry he's getting too old to replicate his unique sound.

James Malcolm

Linda cp Linda, I saw Willie at the 2019 Luck Reunion. I’ve seen and appreciated him dozens of time and at the Reunion he was the best I’ve ever seen him. If anyone could duplicate that early sound, Willie could. He’s remarkable and I would not be surprised if he does just that. Maybe not the young sound, but definitely the old sound.

Lasse Håkansson

My favorit songsingwriter... still on thr run...

T4TEXASTOM JOHNNYCAT

From Willie's very last album from the 1960s, and the very first album he used his famous Martin guitar (Trigger). 1969

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