The Man Who Used to Be
Willie Nile Lyrics


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Everybody knows everybody sees
Everybody feels the pain yes everyone with me
I′m me man who used to be
I'm the man who used to be

I′m turning every page but I can't find the book
This getting myself over you is harder than it looks
I'm the man who used Io be
I′m the man who used Io be

I used to be someone you could lean on
| used to be someone you could dream on

If you′ve ever laughed il you've ever cried
If you′ve ever shed a tear we" I can't sympathize

I′m the man who used to be
I'm the man who used to be
I′m the man who used to be loved by you

So if you see her please tell her that I care
Cause if by chance she thinks of then I might reappear
I'm the man who used to be
I'm the man who used to be
I′m the man who used to be




I′m the man who used to be
I'm the man who used to be loved by you

Overall Meaning

In "The Man Who Used to Be" by Willie Nile, the lyrics reflect on the singer's past identity and how it has changed since a significant relationship ended. The opening lines, "Everybody knows everybody sees, everybody feels the pain yes everyone with me," convey a sense of universal experience and the shared emotions of heartbreak. The repetition of "I'm the man who used to be" emphasizes the singer's longing for their past self.


The lyrics express the difficulty the singer faces in moving on from the relationship, comparing it to searching for a book they cannot find. The line "This getting myself over you is harder than it looks" reveals the ongoing struggle to overcome the pain and move forward. It suggests that the process of healing is more challenging than expected and may require more time and effort.


The song then delves into the singer's former role as someone dependable and reliable. They used to be someone others could lean on and dream about. However, the pain they are currently experiencing prevents them from relating to others' laughter, tears, or sympathy. This highlights how deeply the relationship's end has affected the singer, causing a disconnect from their previous self.


The closing lines of the song express a plea to relay a message to the person who the singer still cares for. If they happen to think of the singer, there is a possibility of rekindling the connection. The repetition of "I'm the man who used to be loved by you" emphasizes the loss and longing for the love that has been lost.


Overall, "The Man Who Used to Be" reflects on the struggle of accepting a changed identity, the difficulty of moving on from a past love, and the desire for rekindling a lost connection. The lyrics convey a raw and vulnerable state of the singer's emotions, offering insight into the complexities of heartbreak and personal growth.


Line by Line Meaning

Everybody knows everybody sees
Everyone is aware and observant of what is happening around them.


Everybody feels the pain yes everyone with me
Every person experiences the same pain and I share this pain with them.


I'm me man who used to be
I am the person I used to be, but I have changed.


I'm the man who used to be
I am no longer the same person I once was.


I'm turning every page but I can't find the book
I am searching and trying to move on, but I can't find a way to completely forget about you.


This getting myself over you is harder than it looks
Trying to let go and move on from you is more difficult than it appears.


I used to be someone you could lean on
I used to be a person you could rely on and find support from.


I used to be someone you could dream on
I used to inspire and give you hope for the future.


If you've ever laughed if you've ever cried
If you have experienced moments of joy or sorrow.


If you've ever shed a tear well I can't sympathize
If you have ever cried, I can't fully understand or relate to your emotions anymore.


I'm the man who used to be
I am the person I used to be, but I have changed.


I'm the man who used to be
I am no longer the same person I once was.


I'm the man who used to be loved by you
I used to be the person you loved and cared for.


So if you see her please tell her that I care
If you happen to encounter her, let her know that I still have feelings for her.


Cause if by chance she thinks of then I might reappear
If she happens to think of me, there is a possibility that I might come back into her life.


I'm the man who used to be
I am the person I used to be, but I have changed.


I'm the man who used to be
I am no longer the same person I once was.


I'm the man who used to be
I am the person I used to be, but I have changed.


I'm the man who used to be
I am no longer the same person I once was.


I'm the man who used to be loved by you
I used to be the person you loved and cared for.




Writer(s): Frank Joseph Lee, Robert A Noonan

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