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Just miss my hoes
A girl for the side, a girl for the lows
A girl for the highs
A girl for the mind, a bad church girl
I could pay her tithes
A girl from the Chi', she know
Next life 'cause I would've
Been ready for her
I'm really a cheating ass, lil'
Ass boy, I tweaked
Now she got me begging for her
Momma told me
"Don't simp for no ho" keep
My feels on the low
Gave this ho my soul, murder she wrote
Somebody, pass me a rope
I know she here for the one
Timе, fun time, good time
She ain't gon' stay for a long timе
She know I'm still tryna learn
How to love with class
Shot me down like Columbine
Now, I gotta blame myself for this L
I should have listened to bro
How do I tell my girl I'm suffering
Bad 'cause I just miss my hoes?
A girl for the side, a girl for the lows
A girl for the highs
A girl for the mind, a bad church girl
I could pay her tithes
A girl from the Chi'
She know how to hold me down when I'm fried
I don't gotta tell her shit
She already know how to match my vibe
Goddamn, she give me that feeling
Goddamn, I don't know how to feel
I be using these hoes for sexual healing
Why she treat me like villain?
Play my cards right, I'm dealing
You can trust me if you willing
And if you ain't tryna love me so
You can leave me 'lone, I'm high
Just chilling
Wish I met that bitch in my next
Next life 'cause I would've
Been ready for her
I'm really a cheating ass, lil'
Ass boy, I tweaked
Now she got me begging for her
Momma told me
"Don't simp for no ho" keep
My feels on the low
Gave this ho my soul, murder she wrote
(Ayy, ayy) huh, yeah, yeah
Really a cheating ass, lil'
Ass boy, I tweaked
Now she got me begging for her
Yeah, keep my feels on the low
Somebody, give me a rope
Somebody, pass me the roach
Pretty lil' bitch tryna take my bread, no
You can't have my toast
Gotta make sure my whole team fed
Gave 'em a slice on the low
Treat that bitch how she treat
Me, leave her on read, then ghost
Give me my head, then go, treat
That bitch like a dog, my favorite approach
I know she here for the one
Time, fun time, good time
She ain't gon' stay for a long time
She know I'm still tryna learn
How to love with class
Shot me down like Columbine
Now, I gotta blame myself for this L
I should have listened to bro
How do I tell my girl I'm suffering
Bad 'cause I just miss my
(Oh, ayy, ayy, ayy)
A girl for the side, a girl for the lows
A girl for the highs
A girl for the mind, a bad church girl
I could pay her tithes
A girl from the Chi'
She know how to hold me down when I'm fried
I don't gotta tell her shit
She already know how to match my vibe
I don't gotta tell her shit
She already know, yeah, yeah
Wish I met that bitch in my next
Next life 'cause I would've
Been ready for her
I'm really a cheating ass, lil'
Ass boy, I tweaked
Now she got me begging for her
Momma told me
"Don't simp for no ho" keep
My feels on the low
Gave this ho my soul, murder she wrote
(Ayy, ayy) huh, yeah, yeah
Really a cheating ass, lil'
Ass boy, I tweaked
Now she got me begging for her
Yeah, keep my feels on the low
Somebody, give me a rope
Somebody, pass me the roach
The lyrics of "Options" by Your Stepdad reveal a complex and conflicted emotional landscape, underscored by themes of longing, betrayal, and self-awareness. The singer expresses a deep sense of loss and regret for missing the different aspects of his past romantic relationships, symbolized by the metaphor of missing his "hoes." He reflects on the diverse roles these women played in his life – from being a companion for different moods to a source of comfort and understanding. The mention of a "bad church girl" who could receive his tithes hints at a transactional or superficial nature of some of these relationships.
The regret and guilt of past actions weigh heavily on the singer, as he acknowledges his behavior as a "cheating ass" and "tweaked" individual, admitting to begging for the affection and attention of a particular woman. Despite being warned by his mother not to invest emotionally in certain individuals, he finds himself entangled in a web of emotional turmoil and vulnerability. The imagery of giving his soul to someone who then "murders" it reflects the pain and betrayal he feels, further compounded by the internal conflict of having to hide his true feelings.
The singer struggles to come to terms with his feelings and the consequences of his actions, particularly as he navigates the complexities of love and relationships. The repeated mentions of missing his past connections and the sense of loneliness and longing for them underscore a yearning for understanding and connection. The comparisons to tragic events like Columbine serve to highlight the devastation and pain he experiences due to his own actions and choices.
Ultimately, the singer grapples with the conflicting desires and emotions within himself, torn between the need for intimacy and the fear of vulnerability and rejection. The references to using women for "sexual healing" and the disdainful treatment of others reveal a lack of empathy and emotional maturity. The repeated plea for a rope and the imagery of being high and just chilling suggest a sense of resignation and detachment from his emotions, as he struggles to confront the consequences of his actions and find a sense of redemption or understanding in his relationships.
Line by Line Meaning
I'm suffering bad 'cause I
Feeling intense pain because I
Just miss my hoes
Simply miss my past lovers
A girl for the side, a girl for the lows
One woman for casual fun, and another for when I'm feeling down
A girl for the highs
Another woman for when things are going well
A girl for the mind, a bad church girl
One girl who is intellectual, and another who may not be virtuous
I could pay her tithes
I could financially support her
A girl from the Chi', she know
A girl from Chicago who understands my lifestyle
Wish I met that bitch in my next
I wish I had met that woman in my future
Next life 'cause I would've
Because then I would have
Been ready for her
Been prepared for a real relationship
I'm really a cheating ass, lil'
I have a history of being unfaithful, young man
Ass boy, I tweaked
Immature and making mistakes
Now she got me begging for her
Now I am pleading for her forgiveness
Momma told me
My mother advised me
"Don't simp for no ho" keep
"Don't fall for any woman easily" remember
My feels on the low
Keep your emotions hidden
Gave this ho my soul, murder she wrote
Gave this woman my heart, and she ended it cruelly
Somebody, pass me a rope
Someone hand me a way to escape
I know she here for the one
I understand she's here for a short-term
Time, fun time, good time
Just for enjoyable moments with no commitment
She ain't gon' stay for a long time
She won't be around for a while
She know I'm still tryna learn
She knows I am still figuring out
How to love with class
How to love properly and with respect
Shot me down like Columbine
Rejected me harshly
Now, I gotta blame myself for this L
Now, I have to take responsibility for this loss
I should have listened to bro
I should have heeded my friend's advice
Somebody, pass me the roach
Someone pass me the leftover marijuana cigarette
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Coreyy
yessir ❤️, always love watching your lives bro keep grinding
O O
Added straight to the playlist
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Josh Norman
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When we getting this on Apple Music
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