Father And Son
Yusuf Cat Stevens Lyrics


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It's not time to make a change
Just relax, take it easy
You're still young, that's your fault
There's so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy
I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy
To be calm when you've found something going on
But take your time, think a lot
Why, think of everything you've got
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not

How can I try to explain? 'Cause when I do he turns away again
It's always been the same, same old story
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
I know, I have to go

It's not time to make a change (away, away, away)
Just sit down, take it slowly
You're still young, that's your fault (I know)
There's so much you have to go through (I have to make this decision)
Find a girl, settle down (alone)
If you want you can marry
Look at me (no)
I am old, but I'm happy

All the times that I cried (stay, stay, stay)
Keeping all the things I knew inside
It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it (why must you go)
(And make this decision?)
If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them they know not me (alone)




Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go

Overall Meaning

The song "Father And Son" by Yusuf Cat Stevens explores the complex relationship between a father and his son, as they navigate through different perspectives and life stages. The lyrics are presented as a conversation between the two, with the father offering advice and the son expressing his desire for change and independence.


In the first verse, the father addresses the son's eagerness to make changes and encourages him to take it easy and relax. He acknowledges that the son is still young and has a lot to learn and experience. The father advises him to find a partner and settle down, suggesting that marriage and stability can bring happiness. The father, despite being old, claims to be content with his life.


The second verse reveals a deeper layer of the relationship, as the son expresses his frustration and inability to communicate effectively with his father. He wants to explain his feelings and desires, but when he tries to, his father turns away, refusing to listen. The son recalls that since he was a child, he was always told to listen but now feels the need to express himself. He acknowledges that he must go away to find his own path.


The third verse repeats the father's advice to the son, emphasizing that it is not yet time for him to make significant changes. The father suggests that the son should take things slowly and endure the challenges that life presents. The father remarks that he is old but still happy, implying that wisdom comes with age and experience.


The final verse highlights the son's internal struggle as he reflects on the times he cried and kept his emotions and thoughts hidden. He finds it difficult to ignore his desires for change, even though those around him may not understand or agree with his decisions. The son is aware that he must follow his own path, even if it means leaving the comfort and familiarity of his family and pursuing his dreams independently.


Overall, "Father And Son" delves into the universal tensions and conflicts between generations, as the son seeks independence and self-discovery while the father tries to guide him based on his own experiences. The song highlights the importance of understanding and empathy in family relationships, as each person must find their own way in life while cherishing the wisdom and advice passed down from their elders.


Line by Line Meaning

It's not time to make a change
This is not the right moment to make big decisions or take drastic actions.


Just relax, take it easy
Don't stress or rush, try to stay calm and go with the flow.


You're still young, that's your fault
Your youth and lack of experience may be causing you to make mistakes or disregard valuable advice.


There's so much you have to know
There is a vast amount of knowledge and life lessons that you need to learn.


Find a girl, settle down
Find a partner, establish a stable and committed relationship.


If you want you can marry
If you desire, you can enter into the commitment of marriage.


Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy
Take a look at my life, even though I am older, I have found contentment and happiness.


I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy
I understand what it feels like to be in your current situation, and I realize it can be challenging.


To be calm when you've found something going on
It can be difficult to remain composed when you discover something unsettling or problematic.


But take your time, think a lot
Take as much time as you need to reflect and think deeply about your choices.


Why, think of everything you've got
Consider all the things you currently possess or have achieved in life.


For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not
While you will likely be alive and present in the future, there is no guarantee that your aspirations and dreams will remain attainable.


How can I try to explain? 'Cause when I do he turns away again
I struggle to find the right words to make him understand, as he continues to avoid listening or comprehending.


It's always been the same, same old story
This situation has repeated itself time and time again, following a familiar pattern.


From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen
Since I was able to communicate, I have been instructed to be an attentive listener.


Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
Now I have come to a decision and I understand that I must depart or move on.


It's not time to make a change (away, away, away)
Again, this is not the appropriate moment to make significant alterations or choices.


Just sit down, take it slowly
Just take a seat, relax, and approach things at a gentle pace.


You're still young, that's your fault (I know)
Your youth and lack of experience are to blame for your current situation, and I am aware of it.


There's so much you have to go through (I have to make this decision)
There are many challenges and experiences awaiting you, and I personally need to make a tough decision.


Find a girl, settle down (alone)
Discover a partner, establish a stable and committed relationship, while facing the possibility of doing it alone.


If you want you can marry
If you desire, you have the option to enter into the commitment of marriage.


Look at me (no)
Consider my own life situation (which is not ideal).


I am old, but I'm happy
Despite my age, I have found contentment and joy in my life.


All the times that I cried (stay, stay, stay)
During all the occasions when I felt sad and shed tears, I wished for him to remain with me or stay close.


Keeping all the things I knew inside
I have kept all the knowledge, wisdom, and understanding I possess within myself.


It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it (why must you go)
It is challenging to face the reality of the situation, but it is even more difficult to pretend it doesn't exist or avoid dealing with it.


(And make this decision?)
And make these decisions that are necessary for my own well-being and growth?


If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them they know not me (alone)
If other people were correct in their judgments or advice, I would concur, but they lack a true understanding of who I am and my personal circumstances (which include being alone).


Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
Now I have found a path or solution, and I acknowledge that I must leave or move on.


I know I have to go
I am aware and certain that I need to depart or move on.




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Written by: Yusuf Islam

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@dougthePogingguitarist

love this song

@bryanquichocho1280

This song is one of many favorites from Cat! Thx dude🤙🏾.

@ozziegreen4850

Stay blessed ; stay sane in this insanity❣️

@christianschneider4926

:)

@abdelkaderbenaricha5312

I can't write or speak English properly, but I know that passionate people like me can understand me and feel me through these little big sentences." I am a very sensitive and passionate person until I have tears in my eyes.. And when I listen to this song I think of my father, a great man who died of cancer when I was very young. Then I grew up and I think of him, when he said, my son, I am really sick buying myself a piece of cake. Life without him and his compassion is cruel. I feel very alone. .
I live with great sadness in my heart to be praised by my relatives and friends.

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@jaeveena

I'm leaving this comment here so after a month or a year when someone likes it, I get reminded of this song <3

@ahmadismail6626

Reminder🙂

@AlisonJacobson77Ching

@AlisonJacobson77Ching

Beautiful insight, & human being...this speaks to my Soul. 'Then' to ' Now'. From the child, to the parent, parent love for child, 'seeing' own parents,...Lifetime relevance, this Loop of Life~ moving past ' self'.. to foresight, reflection & understanding. 50 years of viewpoints for me...such an ever evolving song, in this ever evolving journey. Thank you, each & every time. 🎶❤

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