Father And Son
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17. "Father and Son"

It's not time to make a change
Just relax, take it easy
You're still young, that's your fault
There's so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy

I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy
To be calm when you've found something going on
But take your time, think a lot
Why, think of everything you've got
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not

How can I try to explain, when I do he turns away again
It's always been the same, same old story
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go

It's not time to make a change
Just sit down, take it slowly
You're still young, that's your fault
There's so much you have to go through
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy

All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside
It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it
If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them you know not me




Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Zac Brown Band's song "Father and Son" depict a conversation between a father and his son. The father is offering advice, guidance, and reflections on his own life experiences to his son who is at a crossroads in his life. The father acknowledges that it's not yet time for his son to make major life changes and encourages him to take it easy and enjoy his youth. He advises the son to find a girl, settle down, and perhaps consider marriage. The father also reflects on his own journey, stating that he was once in the son's position and understands the difficulties and temptations that come with it.


However, the son seems to have different aspirations and is yearning for something more. He feels the need to explain this to his father, but every time he tries, his father turns away, leaving the son feeling unheard and unable to express his true desires. The son acknowledges that it's not yet time for him to make a change, yet he knows deep inside that he has to go, possibly to pursue his dreams, even if it means going against his father's expectations. He reflects on the times he kept his emotions and ambitions hidden, knowing that it was difficult but even harder to ignore.


Line by Line Meaning

It's not time to make a change
This is not the right moment to make a major decision or take a different path in life.


Just relax, take it easy
Stay calm and don't rush into anything.


You're still young, that's your fault
Being young comes with the responsibility of learning and growing.


There's so much you have to know
There is a wealth of knowledge and experiences that you still need to acquire.


Find a girl, settle down
Discover a companion and build a stable life together.


If you want you can marry
If you desire, you can make a lifelong commitment through marriage.


Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy
Despite being older, I have found contentment and satisfaction in life.


I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy
I understand the challenges and struggles you face because I have been in your shoes.


To be calm when you've found something going on
Maintaining composure in the face of unexpected situations or revelations.


But take your time, think a lot
Don't rush, give yourself ample time to reflect and ponder.


Why, think of everything you've got
Consider all the blessings, possessions, and relationships you currently have.


For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not
Life is uncertain, and your aspirations may not always be within reach.


How can I try to explain, when I do he turns away again
It's difficult for me to communicate my perspective because he repeatedly avoids listening.


It's always been the same, same old story
This pattern has repeated itself countless times, with no variation.


From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen
Since I was young, I was expected to heed others' commands and instructions.


Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
A new path has emerged, and I recognize that I must embark on it.


All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside
Throughout my life, I have suppressed my true feelings and knowledge while shedding tears in solitude.


It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it
Confronting the truth is challenging, but ignoring it is even more difficult.


If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them you know not me
Even if others believe they are correct, it is their perspective and not mine.


Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
A new path has emerged, and I recognize that I must embark on it.


I know I have to go
I am fully aware and accepting of the fact that I must depart.




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Written by: Cat Stevens

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